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when Mo Yan was young, he admired Lu Xun very much.

on one occasion, he made a great effort to imitate Lu Xun's style of writing and wrote a "gathering of cat things".

however, after the article was published at that time, the response was mediocre.

this made Mo Yan, who was originally full of confidence, very depressed.

but during the same period, "Red Sorghum" with Mo Yan's unique style caused a sensation, with many fans writing letters to express their admiration.

Mo Yan gradually realized:

while he looked up at others, he turned out to be a landscape in the eyes of others.

stepping in the footsteps of others, no matter how excellent you are, you are just following behind others.

and know how to appreciate their own people, in the busy world, to find their own position, emitting a unique and dazzling light.

the life you envy may not be suitable for you

I have read a fable.

there are two tigers, one living in a cage and the other living in the forest.

the tigers in the cage have no worries about their meals, while the tigers in the forest are natural and at ease.

but they both yearn for each other's life, so they discuss a swap.

although the tiger that came out of the cage was free, it soon starved to death due to long-term captivity and lack of predation ability.

the tiger who walked into the cage from the forest, although he gained comfort, he died depressed because of the loss of his freedom.

as the saying goes, honey of A, arsenic of B.

We envy others all day long, but forget the most obvious truth:

not all fish can live in the same sea, suitable for other people's life, may not be suitable for you.

during the Tang Dynasty, there was a pair of very famous good friends, Li Bai and du Fu.

du Fu admired Li Bai's talent very much, and together with him, he envied his unrestrained and unrestrained attitude towards life.

once, du Fu was very excited when he saw his idol in Luoyang.

without saying a word, he followed Li Bai to look for immortals and visit Taoism and sightseeing.

this kind of carefree day, when you can drink and write poems with idols, at first, it was still very attractive to du Fu.

but after a long time, du Fu began to worry.

he slowly realized that such a life was not suitable for him at all.

he wrote in "giving Li Bai":

Autumn comes to care for each other, but GE Hong is not ashamed of Dan Sha.

who is domineering when he indulges in drinking and singing in the air?

Autumn has arrived, but you and I are still like flying canopies, erratic and erratic, and I feel guilty when I think about it.

although I can drink and sing happily every day, I also waste my time. This kind of life makes du Fu unable to find the meaning of life.

his idol is a poem immortal. Since he is an immortal, he can be free and unrestrained.

but he himself is a poet. Although they are saints and still human beings, they will eventually fall to the general public and live in a down-to-earth manner.

therefore, Li Bai's way of life is destined to be unsuitable for du Fu.

aware of this, du Fu resolutely bid farewell to Li Bai and entered the city of Chang'an.

in this world, everyone has a life track specially laid for himself.

if you have to follow the path of others, the result is tantamount to leaving birds and fish out of place.

Mo Yan once said, "one person has one way to live."

No matter how exquisite other people's shoes are, they may not be suitable for your feet.

No matter how lively other people's lives are, once you experience it, you may only feel noisy.

only by living a life that suits you, can you find a corner in this frustrated world, put your soul and stretch your body and mind.

the happiness you think is not necessarily what you see

there is a plot in Liu Zhenyun's famous work "chicken feathers in one place" that makes people feel a lot.

the protagonists, Mr. and Mrs. Kobayashi, who are young and successful in their careers, are the envy of their neighbors.

every time the neighbors get together, what they talk about most is the work and family of Kobayashi and their harmonious mode of getting along with each other.

but one day, the perfect couple quarreled over a kilo of sour tofu.

the wife blames her husband for being perfunctory and doesn't even know to put the good tofu in the refrigerator.

the husband is angry that the wife will only complain about himself and does not understand his hard work all day.

then, they quarreled about all kinds of trifles, such as unattended children, unsatisfactory work, and so on, and both sides were hysterical and burst into tears.

when the neighbors witnessed this scene, they suddenly realized that a seemingly perfect life is also a feather behind it.

Mo Yan once said: "We are all farsighted and always live in looking up at others."

but what you think of happiness may not be what you see.

in the TV series Please answer 1988, there was such a conflict between Te-sun's parents.

on a rainy day, they each held an umbrella and went to the noodle restaurant for dinner.

during the meal, Deshan's mother saw a couple picking up food for each other at the next table, which was very enviable.

looking back at her husband, he only cares about himself at dinner and is not considerate to her at all. The more he thinks about it, the more aggrieved he feels.

before leaving, she secretly changed it while the other guests were not paying attention.The umbrella that the man left at the door.

she thought to herself that her husband could not change with others, so he could at least change a good umbrella.

but when she opened other people's umbrellas, she found that the umbrella was broken.

everyone's life has its bitterness, and everyone's pot has ash.

No matter who comes to this world, there will be all kinds of unhappiness.

since this is the case, why should you ask yourself to live the life of others?

someone once said that the stupidest mistake human beings make is to envy others while turning a blind eye to their own possessions.

in the days when you can't start all over again, it's better to go your own way, see your own scenery, and live your own life.

when you put down the comparison, you will find that the scenery along the way is thousands of times more beautiful than what you have seen before.

you don't need to compare with others, you are the scenery

at that time, after Mo Yan became famous, many people liked to compare him with other writers.

in a program, a professor asked in front of him, "how do your achievements compare with Lu Xun?"

after a brief reflection, Mo Yan sincerely said that he was not as good as Lu Xun.

he loved Lu Xun's works and marveled at Lu Xun's talent, but he did not lose his direction.

later, he said in an interview with his new book, "late ripening people":

"the most sober self-consciousness of a person is to know his own position."

he does not look up to others, nor does he look down on himself. From the beginning to the end, he walked unhurriedly in his own rhythm.

Lu Meipo in the Song Dynasty wrote in a poem:

"Mei Xusun's snow is three-thirds white, but the snow loses plum's fragrance."

No matter how beautiful the plum blossom is, it is not as white as the snowflake; no matter how white the snowflake is, compared with the plum blossom, it loses a fragrance.

this is the case between plum and snow, and people naturally have their own advantages and disadvantages.

everyone is a unique landscape.

others can decorate your window, and one day, you will decorate other people's dreams.

therefore, instead of looking up to the excellence of others, care about where they are inferior to others.

you might as well put aside your thoughts and enjoy your own beauty.

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there were two celebrities in the Eastern Jin Dynasty, one was Huan Wen and the other was Yin Hao.

both became famous when they were young, but Huan Wen always wanted to find a chance to compete with Yin Hao.

once, when Huan Wen met Yin Hao, he asked him, "where can you compare with me?"

Yin Hao calmly replied, "I've been dealing with me for a long time, and I'd rather be me."

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in Yin Hao's opinion, the spring breeze is not as good as being the best you can be.

however, in real life, many people lose themselves in comparison with others.

they only know how to admire the scenery of others, but forget that the most beautiful scenery on the road of life is their unique self.

as there is a saying on the Internet:

"you don't have to grow into a rose. If you like, you can be jasmine, light chrysanthemum, nameless florets, thousands of thousands. "

living like yourself is the best gift to life.

, share with your friends.