during the Spring and Autumn period, Min Zi Qian worshiped Confucius as his teacher.

Confucius asked why.

Zi Qian replied, "because he was educated by his teacher, he often read books, knew a lot of truth, could tell right from wrong, and his face naturally became ruddy when he was calm."

Books are the cure for worries and the boat to cross the river.

form the habit of reading so that we can heal ourselves in the face of life's hardships and tribulations.

the story of Lu Zuqian, a writer, is recorded in the History of the Song Dynasty.

when Lu Zuqian was young, he was impatient and did not complain when things went wrong. He often quarreled with others.

later, he fell in love with reading, and when he read about the ways of the ancient sages, he would always hide his thoughts.

the Analects of Confucius Weiling Gong recorded a sentence of Confucius: "it is far resentful to be self-conscious and to blame others."

blame yourself more and blame others less, and you can avoid resentment from others.

he read here and thought of his bad temper, such as a slap on the head.

from then on, whenever he encountered problems, he encouraged himself with this sentence, and his impatience would dissipate quickly.

over time, he became peaceful and generous in dealing with others, and the hearts of the people gradually returned.

Zhu Xi once commented that as long as one can read and study like Lu Zuqian, he can change his temperament.

Reading can be wise, so that we have enough wisdom and calm state of mind to face all kinds of problems.

as Ji Xianlin said in Life at ease: "Books can give people knowledge, wisdom, happiness and hope."

Li Jihong, a famous translator, had a difficult time before he became famous.

at that time, he had just graduated and changed six or seven jobs, but he was still unsatisfied.

then he simply quit his job and lived in a small rented house every day, making a living by writing articles.

but the partner often maliciously defaulted on the contribution fee, and his life was very difficult.

the pressure of supporting his family and confusion about the future made him lose a lot of hair and wake up in anxiety and pain every day.

later, a friend recommended Neil Donald Walsh's "talking to God".

, he saw a new outlook on life, the world and the universe.

his mind suddenly opened up, such as how to deal with the relationship between people, how to get along with himself. There are new answers to these questions.

the negative emotions that have been bothering me for a long time have suddenly disappeared.

he began to live according to the methods and ideas in the book, writing and translating carefully every day, and his days gradually improved.

Bai Yansong once said:

"you will encounter a lot of troubles, and suffering will torture people.

however, if you read too many books and read wisdom, you can always face all kinds of sudden sufferings well and correctly. "

when there is nothing you can do, it is bound to lead to a lot of bad emotions.

but the book contains ancient and modern wisdom and thousands of tricks to help us escape from the predicament and dispel confusion.

Mr. Yang Jiang said: "if you read too much, your heart will not break its dike."

suffering is the background in one's life.

but reading can make us have different mood and accomplishment in the face of all the sorrows in the world.

Wang Xiaobo once told his own story.

Life is so hard that Wang Xiaobo often sits under the eaves and watches the sky slowly go dark, feeling lonely.

the only thing that satisfied him was that he had several books with him, one of which was Oweid's Metamorphosis.

like the dawn of a long night, this book became the redemption of his life.

so that he will not blindly complain about poor hygiene and poor food, and no longer care about how tired he is working in the paddy field.

not only did Wang Xiaobo get great comfort from the book, but the rest of the team also found a place for their souls to live.

they often come to Wang Xiaobo to borrow books. The Metamorphosis has been turned over and over, read and read again and again, and at last it is as bad as a roll of kelp.

in dumb days, the stories and proverbs in the book become the best weapon against sadness.

for the bitterness of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and annoyed for human exchanges, we stumbled through the muddy world.

he Quanfeng wrote in pattern:

"an open-minded and generous person, his heart is like a big lake. If you throw in a torch, it will soon go out; if you throw in a bag of salt, it will soon be diluted."

the more you read, the bigger the pattern will be.

everything that is right and wrong will seem insignificant, and the slight gains and losses of flies and mosquitoes will become meaningless.

someone once asked singer Li Jian why he read so many books. What's the point?

he replied, "the meaning of reading is probably to broaden people's horizons and have a clearer understanding of themselves."

A person who does not like reading will be bound by a single values.

and people who like to read can look at it for a while and look at it from the overall situation. They will not worry about the broken things and will not feel aggrieved when something happens.

this is a process that broadens the pattern.

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YesPeople on Weibo asked Cai Lan, everything is not going well recently, I feel that life is dark, how to solve it?

Cai Lan replied in only two words: reading.

Reading can always help us get out of the emotional trough and gain the spiritual strength to break free from the quagmire of life.

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, regard reading as a lifelong practice, soothe your life and cultivate yourself.

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