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Zhihu has a question of more than 50 million views: "how can a girl be considered to have seen the world?"

highly praised replied that only when he can withstand the twists and turns of life and know how to refuse at the right time can he really see the world.

rejection is a required course in life.

A life that only adds but does not subtract will only become more and more bloated and more and more difficult to move forward.

therefore, women who have seen the world are bound to reject the following four things.

refuse to feel inferior

Yang Jiang said: "you look up self-abased and complacent. Only by looking down can you see who you really are."

and despise yourself too much, it will bring inferiority complex.

but in fact, everyone in the world is a unique individual, and everyone has his or her own bright spot.

focusing too much on your own shortcomings will only mess up your life.

in the novel the Reader, the German writer Ben hard Schlink uses the role of Hannah to tell that women with low self-esteem can't live a good life.

Hannah is a gentle, maternal woman who easily leads to the fall of Michelle.

but she is inferior to illiteracy, letting her lover read to herself every day, crying or laughing for the contents of the book as a cover.

later, Hannah was charged with a document.

Hannah refused to admit that she only needed to tell the truth of illiteracy to clear the charge, and was eventually sentenced to life in prison.

Hannah, who is mired in inferiority complex, treats herself like looking at flowers in the fog, unable to see beauty.

she could not understand that it was her tenderness, not her profound knowledge, that really led to the fall of Michelle.

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inferiority is the shackle that keeps people in the same place.

A life in chains is doomed to be unable to dance.

refuse to feel inferior and take off the shackles, and the world will unfold before your eyes.

Women, being who they really are, have a chance to really see the world.

refuse to be lazy

Xu Beihong believes: "laziness is a luxury that charges a very high price. Once it is due and paid off, it will not be able to afford it."

it is true.

every minute wasted when lazy is the sunk cost of life.

continue to be lazy and uneasy, not knowing which will come first, the future or the accident.

I really want to give up laziness, but I don't know if I can get a better chance.

so life falls into a strange circle in constant entanglement, waiting for the final settlement, only to find that the most precious time has been lost.

Yi Shu's Xibao is such a person.

she was excellent in her studies and was admitted to a law major in a prestigious school in London with a bright future.

but because his family was poor and could not afford the tuition, Xibao had to try his best to find a "kind-hearted person" who was willing to help him.

Xibao didn't have to worry about food and clothing until he met the tycoon Kui Cunzi.

however, just when Xibao thought she could solve life problems with men, she found that life had not changed for the better.

she seems to like her, but in fact she is only kept in captivity and controlled, gradually emptying her knowledge and self-cultivation.

laziness is never the medicine of life, but a trap strewn with honey.

once you step into this trap, life will be painted evil by desires such as greed and deviate from the original goal.

refuse laziness and live hard so that you can keep your heart after seeing the world and move forward firmly according to the road of life.

refuse to follow blindly

Sanmao once said:

"patient women are seldom seen by men and may be despised, while those who follow blindly are even more dismissive."

Life is the collision of countless ideas.

it is in the collision that we can find the similarities and differences between each other, and then attract or go far away.

if you blindly follow, it becomes the shadow of others and is dispensable.

everyone knows that Fu Lei is famous in the literary world, but several people know that the famous "Fu Lei Family Letters" was actually completed by Fu Lei and his wife Zhu Meifu.

Zhu Meifu married Fu Lei since she was a child. She devoted herself to her family, helping Fu Lei with household chores and arranging paperwork.

but Zhu Meifu's obedience and follow could not move Fu Lei. He cheated several times, and even forced Zhu Meifu to welcome her rival into the house because of the bitterness of lovesickness.

had it not been for Zhu Meifu's generosity and dedication, Mrs. Fu might not have been in the position of Zhu Meifu.

the world always laments Fu Lei's erudition and advancement, but no one can hear the voice of Zhu Meifu, the woman behind him.

if a blind follower does not have an independent personality, how can others treat him like an ordinary person?

refuse to follow blindly in order to find the correct way to express yourself and become a living person.

reject dependency

MiyazakiHayao said:

"Don't rely too much on one person. When parting comes, what you lose is not someone, but your spiritual support."

I think so.

emotional dependence is human instinct..

for example, when building a house, only with load-bearing pillars can the construction continue.

but it is impossible for a house to have only one pillar, and one cannot rely too much on one person, otherwise it is easy to lead an unstable life.

in the novel Rouge buckle, twelve young people fall in love at first sight. Under the crazy pursuit, the two gradually fall in love.

Ruhua regards twelve little as a beam of light in life, relying on everything and obeying everything.

even if the twelve young people were later driven out of the house, Ruhua was still willing to sell their bodies to support him.

but Twelve is different from Ruhua. He still has the family's way out. When Ruhua learns that Twelve seldom has the intention of flinching, he has the ultimate madness.

Ruhua quietly gave Twelve people an overdose of drugs, and they also chose to die.

who would have thought that Twelve Shao was finally saved and only she died.

Ruhua didn't have enough spiritual support to support her life, so she chose to destroy herself after knowing that the pillar was about to collapse.

Life can not always rely on others, the thickest beam is only yourself.

rely on the mountains to fall, rely on everyone to run.

in this life, a man must fight with his own strength, whether he wins or loses.

the best hero is the one who always supports himself.

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Yi Shu believes that when I first felt amazing, it was all because I saw so little in the world.

only when women have seen the world can they see through the prosperity of the world.

refuse inferiority, bloom your own light; refuse laziness and go your own way;

refuse to follow blindly, cultivate and show your true self, refuse to rely on, and become the best hero in life.

in this life, the road is too long. If you want to be the best companion, you must be the true self who has seen the world.

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