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some time ago, a new type of professional "bath assistant" suddenly became popular.

to sum up the job in one sentence is to help others take a bath.

taking a bath is a daily thing in the eyes of most people.

but for many old people, this is a very "arduous" task.

because they don't take a bath for a long time, they can't sleep well at night.

in addition, the metabolism slows down, the body smells, and is disliked by the family.

Why is it so difficult to take a bath?

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listening to the story of the "bath assistant", I found that this is not only a career, but also a dilemma faced by 260 million elderly people.

among them, there are not only the embarrassment of old age, but also the heaviness and euphemism of life itself.

I believe that after reading this article, we will all learn something from it.

embarrassed in old age, but dignity is priceless

Grandma Wang was a people's teacher when she was young and had an only daughter.

during the six months when he was paralyzed in bed, he has been taken care of by a nurse.

I haven't taken a bath for half a year, and my body itches so much.

but she doesn't want to bother her daughter to bathe herself, because she has been a great mother in front of her children all her life.

she was a little ashamed to ask her daughter to help.

so she begged her daughter to invite a bath assistant to "come and take a bath" for her.

door-to-door bathing originated in foreign countries, and in February this year, this service was written into the 14th five-year Plan for the development of the cause of the elderly.

because the development is relatively late, not all elderly people are willing to accept this service.

A bath start-up team, an old man who talked about service:

on that day, all the equipment was ready and the hot water was properly debugged.

but the Don just refused to get into the water.

when we talked back and forth, the Don said awkwardly:

I'm really sorry to ask the female staff to serve me.

insist that the male staff next to you get their hands on it.

the older you are, the more likely you are to feel a sense of shame, especially those who are disabled.

even the most basic necessities of life, such as dressing, eating and bathing, cannot be done alone.

their self-esteem is very low.

they want to be decent and to gain the respect of the people around them.

they would rather ask some strangers for help than let their children see the embarrassment of their aging.

they have so many things to worry about that we as children often ignore them.

with the decline of physical function, their pursuit of material things is reduced to a minimum.

however, not all old people can get what they want.

the older you are, the more afraid you are of your children's face

Father Chen, 75, never took a bath after being bedridden because of his protruding lumbar disc.

in addition, the body is connected to the catheter, and when the catheter is blocked, the room will be filled with an unpleasant "smell of old people".

Father Chen's daughter-in-law, in order to get rid of this old man's smell.

call the team of bath assistants for door-to-door service.

in the first words of the meeting, the daughter-in-law slapped her nose with her hands and shouted:

"there is smell at home. I can't get rid of it. You must get rid of it!"

and the old man was lying on the bed in the next room.

usually in order to reduce defecation and defecation, Don deliberately reduces the amount of food he eats.

even if you accidentally drop the urine bag, you will do it yourself and never call the child.

as parents get older, they are more afraid that their children dislike themselves.

worry that you will become useless and become a burden to your children.

writer Liu Na talked about a thing that happened to her:

for a time, the old mother came to see her specially from her hometown.

one day while she was writing, her mother opened the door and asked, "Ni, do you want an apple?"

after being rejected for a few minutes, he pushed the door open and asked, "Ni, do you want some water?"

after refusing again, the old mother rubbed her hands and gently pushed open the crack in the door and said, "Ni, do you eat noodles with powder?"

Writing was frequently interrupted, and Liu Na could no longer help saying loudly:

"Mom, don't talk to me when I'm writing. As soon as I talk, my mind is cut off."

when the old mother heard her daughter say this, she bowed her head like a child who had done something wrong and crept out.

in the next few days, my mother would go to the bathroom when she coughed and spoke softly.

the depth of love, "fear" cut.

the older you are, the more afraid you are of your children's face.

to protect children from the wind and rain for a lifetime, do not want to be of any help in their old age, but also become a burden on them.

see a question: "what is the best filial piety?"

the answer was pointed out in the Confucian classic the Analects of Confucius more than 2000 years ago:

"what is filial piety?" "Color difficulty"

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it is the most difficult to be kind to your parents at any time.

Don't let your parents be careful in front of you.

Don't let your parentsFeel "troublesome children", is a kind of guilt.

it's not easy for our parents to raise us. It's time to repay them.

I don't want to cause trouble to my children all my life

accidentally saw a video, which made people feel sad.

an old father in hospital clothes sat on the bed and called his daughter a little awkwardly:

"the doctor said that if I had a color ultrasound tomorrow morning, it would be better for my family to come. I was out of breath for fear of an accident."

but in the evening, the father called his daughter again.

tell her not to come, but come back in a few days during the operation.

it turns out that the father considered that his daughter had two children to take care of.

when her daughter came to the hospital to accompany her, she still had to worry about the children at home.

it's really too tired for her.

if you try not to bother her, you won't bother her.

when I was young, I gave all my love to my children.

when you get old, you don't want to cause a little trouble to your child.

A father accidentally fell off a viaduct when he was working at home in Fuyang, Anhui province.

the courtyard is made of lime, the thin back falls on the hard ground, and the person hasn't moved for a long time.

afterwards, he didn't tell his children.

but choose to endure in silence.

until my daughter accidentally watched the surveillance video and burst into tears.

the older parents are, the deeper their love is hidden.

it's not that their love has faded, maybe it's really immobile.

the more you go back in life, the more you will find that

how happy it is for parents to be alive when they are middle-aged.

when I get home, I can still shout: mom and Dad, it is a wish that how many people can no longer realize.

give parents enough attention, give them enough patience, untie their spirit, is to give them the best love.

everyone will get old, how we treat our parents today.

what our children will do to us tomorrow.

We often hear a saying: there is only one chance to educate children.

but in fact, it is also true to provide for parents.

Don't let this only opportunity become a regret for the rest of your life.

otherwise it is likely to be a pain in the heart.

start with a little bit of concern, from the inquiry of one vegetable, one meal.

grow up with us as patiently as our parents did when we were children, and grow old with our parents.

parents are here, home is here.

allowing parents to enjoy their twilight years, live with dignity and grow old with dignity is the most successful thing for us to come to the world as children.

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