Tolerance without a bottom line is not kindness, but stupidity.
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Life is full of twists and turns, and things overlap.
the honorable person's help contributed to the fact that we were able to move forward all the way.
A person's greatest blessing is not to pick up money or win a lottery, but to have a talented person willing to guide him.
after reading it, you will suddenly realize that when an important person comes to you, you will never miss it again.
people who give advice, but don't tell them what to do
Mencius said, "the trouble of man is to be a teacher."
people all have the desire to lead others and like to interfere in other people's lives under the banner of "for your own good".
to instruct others is to think of others; to tell them what to do is just to vent their emotions.
Dai Jianye, a 62-year-old university professor, lectured on a short video platform and became an overnight hit.
in his online class, there are no literary masters out of reach.
only Li Bai, who goes his own way, and Tao Yuanming, who knows nothing about farming and enjoys himself.
some viewers give advice to the old professor on the "rules of the game" of the Internet to help him absorb 5 million fans quickly.
some of his peers jumped out and accused him of academic misconduct and losing the character of the literati in order to make money.
No one knows that Professor Dai's wife, he Xiaoping, suffers from advanced lung cancer.
A box of targeted drugs costs 51000 yuan, only 30 tablets; taking one tablet a day is equivalent to spending 1700 yuan.
once, when my wife was taking medicine, she accidentally dropped one and lay down on the ground looking for it for a long time. She burst into tears.
Dai Jianye said, "if I lose my wife, what do I want the character of a literati to do?"
Life needs guidance, not instruction.
when we are confused, kind guidance is like a beacon to show us the way.
A suggestion and a click from others can help us out of the predicament and out of the puzzle.
most of the time, those so-called great truths are not unknown to others.
just different positions, different ideas, different cognition, not only can not guide the maze, but also may mislead others.
those who like to tell you what to do will never be responsible for your life.
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criticize, but don't hurt your people
as the saying goes, "good medicine is good for disease, but good advice is good for deeds."
those who dare to point out your mistakes are often those who help you make progress.
although critical words are harsh, they are rare medicines on the road of life.
he doesn't have any foundation and is not smart. He takes 200 yuan a month to do chores and learn crosstalk at the same time.
in 2005, Yue Yunpeng appeared on the stage for the first time. Because he was so nervous, he forgot his words.
A 15-minute period of "miscellaneous singing" was spoken for less than 3 minutes, and the audience booed.
an audience scolded him face to face: "it's not that you don't call crosstalk, it's just not a thing."
almost all the middle-level cadres of Deyun Society went to Guo Degang and asked, "can we fire him?"
Lao Guo called all his disciples together for a meeting, and there were only two words at the meeting.
the first sentence says, "of the four subjects, Yue Yunpeng occupies a loyal character."
crosstalk pays attention to the four subjects of talking, learning and singing. Yue Yunpeng is not good at learning skills and can't come up with any of them.
only a sincere heart, recognized by Lao Guo's discerning eyes, does not think that he is useless.
after becoming famous, Yue Yunpeng said frankly in an interview: "my master paved the road for me to get this far."
people who blow you up all day often end up laughing at you more and more.
tell you that people with vegetable leaves on their teeth are really for your own good, and such people are more worthy of acquaintance.
A person's greatest blessing is to listen to others' advice and have enough to eat.
only by being good at accepting words, can we go one step further.
on the road of life, make more friends who dare to criticize you, you will be able to take fewer detours.
people who tolerate but do not indulge you
as the saying goes, "No one is perfect without gold."
everyone does something wrong sometimes, even a moment of confusion is inevitable.
however, there should be a bottom line, kindness but not weakness, tolerance but not connivance.
A true gentleman must be a reasonable and reasonable person, rather than indulging and accommodating blindly.
during the period of the three Kingdoms, after the death of Zhuge Liang, Jiang Kui took over as prime minister of Shu.
Yang Min, the governor of agriculture, often muttered behind his back that Chiang Kai-shek was "disorganized and inferior to his predecessors."
this word reached Chiang Kai-shek's ears, and the officer in charge of law and discipline asked for "punishment."
he looked as usual after hearing this: "I know I am not as good as my predecessors."
(Zhuge Liang)
, he's just telling the truth. What's the crime? " The request was denied.
Yang Min was later jailed for dereliction of duty, and everyone thought that Jiang Kui would cut him some slack in order to avoid suspicion.
but Chiang Kai-shek is doing business.There is no favoritism in dealing with the law.
from these two events, it can be seen that Chiang Kai-shek has a clear distinction between public and private affairs and is not personal to the matter.
Cheng Hao, a philosopher of the Northern Song Dynasty, said: "he is so greedy that he forgets propriety and righteousness; if he is extremely patient, he strives for it and leads to resentment."
one point of tolerance makes two points of greed. All greed in the world is the poison planted by repeated tolerance.
strict is love, leniency is evil, and the deterioration of the world begins with no distinction between black and white.
tolerance without a bottom line is not kindness, but stupidity.
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(Zhuge Liang)
, he's just telling the truth. What's the crime? " The request was denied.
Yang Min was later jailed for dereliction of duty, and everyone thought that Jiang Kui would cut him some slack in order to avoid suspicion.
but Chiang Kai-shek is doing business.There is no favoritism in dealing with the law.
from these two events, it can be seen that Chiang Kai-shek has a clear distinction between public and private affairs and is not personal to the matter.
Cheng Hao, a philosopher of the Northern Song Dynasty, said: "he is so greedy that he forgets propriety and righteousness; if he is extremely patient, he strives for it and leads to resentment."
one point of tolerance makes two points of greed. All greed in the world is the poison planted by repeated tolerance.
strict is love, leniency is evil, and the deterioration of the world begins with no distinction between black and white.
tolerance without a bottom line is not kindness, but stupidity.
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