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shortly after Mo Yan won the Nobel Prize in 2012, his eldest brother Guan Moxian was interviewed.

when talking about his younger brother's achievements, Guan Moxian could not help sighing:

Mo Yan can meet dignitaries at every step except hard work and talent.

the luckiest thing in life is to have someone who can help you at every stage.

when you encounter these three kinds of dignitaries in your life, you must firmly grasp them.

people who encourage you when you are confused

in 1984, Mo Yan just began to write.

for a time, he doubted himself, maybe he really had no talent.

even Mr. Sun Li specially wrote a comment saying:

Last year's issue of Lianchi published a novel by Mo Yan entitled "Folk Music".

after I read it, I felt that it was very good, with a bit of artistic supremacy.

with Sun Li's position in the literary world, it can be said that one word is worth it.

after being affirmed by him, Mo Yan was so encouraged that he completely gave up the idea of changing careers and devoted himself to writing.

there is a good saying:

"the best Chollima, you have to meet Bole. Only when you receive affirmation and encouragement can your potential be fully exploited."

those who can recognize you and spur you when you are confused are adding fuel to your life.

when you lose your way, the most valuable thing is that someone still believes in you and motivates you to move on.

1961, Wang Zengqi

he wanted to go back to Beijing to continue his work, but his original unit refused to accept him, so he had to stay in the countryside.

upon hearing this, teacher Shen Congwen immediately wrote a 12-page letter to Wang Zengqi.

as long as he doesn't stop writing, his talent will be recognized one day.

Wang Zengqi was very excited when he received the encouragement from the teacher.

the next day he picked up his pen again and devoted himself to his creation, and eventually he became a master of contemporary novels.

writer Hu Shuxin said:

"in the difficult journey of life, a simple word of encouragement from others can often give you unlimited motivation."

the person who always inspires you to move forward can always see the light in you.

when you can't help flinching, he will give you the courage to move forward; and when you are in trouble, he will never be stingy with your support and give you confidence.

with them, you can keep your direction in the doldrums and keep an upward posture forever.

people who help you when you are in trouble

as the saying goes, "it is easier to add flowers to the cake than to send charcoal in the snow."

the most rare encounter in life is not the one who contributes to you in times of triumph, but the one who is willing to give you a hand in times of difficulty.

Mo Yan once told a past story in his prose.

when he was studying in the writers class of Beijing normal University, his father once called and said that there was something wrong with the house in his hometown and that it needed to be renovated.

there was a shortage of labor at home, so Mo Yan had to buy a ticket immediately and rush home by train.

because he left in a hurry, he even forgot to ask for leave.

I have been away for more than a month and missed five professional courses in a row.

Zhou Airuo, the then dean of the School of Arts, was very angry when he learned that Mo Yan was absent from class, and planned to expel him as a punishment.

after hearing the news, Mo Yan was very nervous and rushed back to school all night.

you should know that once he is expelled from school, he will not only be unable to get a degree, but will also create a stain on his life.

he explained the reason to the academic Affairs Office and applied for supplementary leave, but to no avail.

in desperation, he had to find his mentor, Tong Qingbing, and tell him his difficulties.

after hearing this, Tong Qingbing waved his hand and assured Mo Yan:

"of course, absenteeism is not right, but after all, it is excusable for being urgent at home.

it's not easy to train a writer now. Don't worry. I'll hold it for you. Just don't do it again. "

under Tong Qingbing's efforts and persistence, Mo Yan wrote a serious review, and finally retained his student status and graduated smoothly.

there is a poem that says, "when you meet an expensive person at the end, your belly is hungry."

A person's greatest luck is to meet someone who is willing to solve problems for you when things go wrong.

they reach out when you are in distress, help you when you are poor, help you through the darkness and overcome difficulties and obstacles.

it is because of their paving and bridging that your life can be saved from danger again and again.

when you achieve something, your critics

I quite agree with this sentence:

"those who flatter you are your friends today and your enemies tomorrow; those who criticize you are your enemies today and your friends tomorrow."

only those who think of you dare to criticize you and truthfully point out your shortcomings.

in the late 1980s, Mo Yan published Red Sorghum, which was regarded as the greatest harvest in the literary world of that year.

two years later, a movie of the same name adapted from this bookWon the Golden Lion Award at the Berlin Film Festival.

this makes Mo Yan, who is originally unknown, suddenly gained a lot of fame inside and outside the circle.

however, in the face of honor, Mo Yan also began to be impetuous.

when he wrote novels, he became more and more fond of showing off his skills, the color of magic became stronger and stronger, and the choice of words and sentences became difficult and obscure, which made it difficult for people to understand.

many critics dare not criticize Mo Yan because of his fame.

at this time, my good friend Zhu Qian, unable to read any more, directly published a critical article of 8000 words.

the whole article is sharp, showing no mercy at all, saying bluntly that "I have lost myself".

after the article was published, it immediately caused an uproar among critics.

Zhu Qian originally thought that his relationship with Mo Yan might be completely broken.

until a few months later, at a seminar, he ran into Mo Yan.

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he wanted to avoid it for a while, but Mo Yan came over and said on his own initiative:

"I have read your article, and it is well written, and of course it is enlightening and instructive to me. In the future, you will make more criticisms. "

as the ancients said, "good medicine is bitter in the mouth and good in deeds."

it's easy to get lost in flowers and applause, and only those who criticize you can help you recognize reality and see problems.

people who blow you up all day often end up laughing at you more and more.

people who are really good for you will be willing to offend you when you are proud, point out your shortcomings, and hope you can improve and become better.

on the road of life, make more friends who dare to criticize you, so that you can take fewer detours and achieve more results.

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I quite agree with this paragraph:

"A person's greatest luck is not to find money, but to meet someone one day."

he breaks your original thinking, improves your cognition, and takes you to a higher level.

this is the nobility of your life.

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the road of life is long and blocked, and the luckiest thing is that at every pass, you can meet the person who will take you a ride.

they guide you, solve problems, help you find your way, and help you go farther and steadily.

as the saying goes: a good wind, by virtue of strength, sends me to Qingyun.

those who lead you forward in the trough, please cherish it and make friends for the rest of your life.

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. The original title "Mo Yan: who is the most important person in your life". One star

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