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Liang Shiqiu wrote in "Life is nothing but this":

"the beauty of middle age is to know life and yourself well, so as to do what you can do and enjoy what you can enjoy."

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Life is short. Unconsciously, he entered middle age, lost his childishness and ignorance, and increased his calmness and indifference after experience.

when you reach middle age, put away your "generosity".

when others ask for help, do as much as you can

as the old saying goes, "if you have a little strength, don't bear a heavy load, but don't persuade others with light words."

people's abilities are limited. Care about the people when you have status, focus on yourself when you are unknown, help and do good, you should do as much as you can.

go into the water to save lives, if you can swim, otherwise you will catch up with yourself.

if you overdraw yourself to help others live their lives, your own life will often be a mess.

there will never be no one in the world without whom. Without your help, others can still live.

catered to others and failed himself.

it is only after middle age that people realize that they do not have to live to please others.

just like Yan Geling's sentence:

"I find that a person will feel so secure after giving up the burden of making a good impression on others. A person does not have to be liked any more, just as I am now, to stop suffering. "

learn to refuse, learn to be indifferent, let the time and energy return to the family, take good care of the family and yourself, is the wisest thing to do.

if you take good care of your family and make yourself better, you can better help others.

the life of children, let nature take its course

Gibran said in on Children:

"your children are not actually your children, they are children born out of life's desire for itself.

you can give them love, but not thoughts, because they have their own thoughts. "

We raise children, but it doesn't mean we have their lives. The highest state of being a parent is to be the patron saint of the child, not the controller.

in the TV series "in the name of the Family", Qi Mingyue's mother's control over her daughter is suffocating.

to order a dish, the color of a dress, to make friends, to choose a job, all aspects of my daughter's life are clearly arranged by her mother.

she did not expect that Qi Mingyue, the "good girl", became the most twisted person in the play. she had no opinions and was used to ingratiating herself, but secretly used lies to resist her mother.

"Zengguang Xianwen" says: "Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, do not be horses and cattle for their children and grandchildren."

Children have their own way to go, so don't worry too much about them, stay with them all the time, and interfere in everything.

you might as well open your hands and believe that they will take care of their lives and let nature take its course.

there is a limit to love, even if you are reluctant to give up, you should properly let go, which is the best gift for your child.

being a parent and taking care of yourself is the greatest help to your children.

false feelings and hypocrisy, don't be reluctant

Mr. Qian Zhongshu once said, "there is no need to find people who are not three or four to say something innocuous."

when people reach middle age, instead of staggering at the table, they make some innocuous "friends".

it is better to calm down, let the circle clean up, side by side with important people, and count the years.

True feelings do not rely on smiling faces to meet false feelings, but to exchange sincerity for sincerity.

to irrelevant people, hypocritical people, with the right indifference, the sense of division so far, do not have to worry about gains and losses, free and easy to let go.

as Cai Kangyong said, "I encourage you to be a cold person."

indifference is not as cold as frost, but to give limited calories to more important people and spend limited time on better quality for the rest of life.

do not live to please others, do not embarrass yourself, and know more about the way you want to go.

warm yourself, please yourself, and live your life.

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