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the French philosopher Bridan told such a short story.

there is a hungry donkey standing between two bales of haystack, the grass on the left is fresh and tender, and the grass on the right is full of fodder.

but the donkey was in trouble. He didn't know which side to eat first, and finally starved to death.

in life, many people, like this donkey, are hesitant to make choices.

in the end, it not only wastes time and energy, but also gets yourself into distress.

Today, I would like to give you 8 pieces of golden advice to cure your choice difficulty.

when you say it or don't say it, don't say it

Zeng Guofan said in a letter from home:

"through the ages, the reasons for failure are arrogance and inappropriate words."

he himself suffered from a lot of talks. when he first entered officialdom, he could not help saying a few more words on any occasion, and sometimes deliberately made fun of others.

over time, it aroused resentment from others, and everyone began to isolate him.

it was only later that he slowly woke up and admonished himself to be cautious in his words and deeds with the words "abstain from talking too much". It was only then that he became a generation of famous officials.

if you talk too much, you will lose. The more you talk, the easier it will be to cause trouble.

so Hemingway said, "it takes us two years to learn to speak, but a lifetime to learn to shut up."

when you are wondering whether to say it or not, the best choice is silence.

Don't judge what you don't know, don't expose what you see through, and don't say much about what you don't know.

learn to shut up and make room for others, but also for yourself.

when you buy or don't buy, don't buy

in this era, all kinds of promotional activities emerge one after another.

No matter what holiday it is, you can always hear the shouts of merchants.

as a result, many people move home regardless of their actual needs.

as more and more clothes are bought, the cabinets can't fit in, so they just throw them in the corner, and the space in the home is becoming more and more cramped.

more and more shoes are piled up, and it takes a lot of time to make up your mind to clean up.

before you know it, your money is losing, your time is being consumed, but your happiness is not increasing.

historian Huang Zongxi once said: "less desire feels light."

keep rational consumption and do not buy anything you can buy or not.

when you are not burdened by external things, you can be content with inner peace and enjoy the prosperity of life.

when you are still not angry, you are not angry

I agree with this sentence: "A bad temper is a double-edged sword that hurts others as well as oneself."

there are always bumps between people, and sometimes a word or a look can trigger intense emotions.

psychologist Professor Davis, who has conducted a follow-up survey of nearly 1000 people, has come to the following conclusion:

if a person is in a bad mood for a long time, it will lead to family failure, bad career, or make a mess of good things.

Gumi said in "several degrees in the World"

"the difficulty of life is not to make you angry, but to be more leisurely."

when you encounter conflict and are on the verge of anger, please restrain your temper.

when you control your emotions, you can be the master of your life.

ratio is not compared, it is not compared to

in this society, many people can not get rid of the trap of comparison: work, ability, money.

blindly keeping up with the comparisons, you will only get lost and keep your eyes fixed on yourself in order to force yourself to continue to grow.

when Yu Minhong first went to college, he saw that there was a big gap between himself and his classmates.

so he worked hard to catch up with others, so he exhausted himself and had to take a year off from school.

the illness made him realize that progress is his own business, and there is no point in comparing with others.

later, he only focused on himself and lived a unique elegant demeanor.

as a saying goes, "A rose is a rose and a lotus is a lotus; just look at it and don't compare it."

everyone is only responsible for their own life.

there is no need to envy others, according to our own pace, life is bound to get better and better.

when you do or don't do it, do

I have read such a short story.

A writer went to a university to give a lecture. During the question session, an audience asked:

"I want to be a writer like you, but I'm always worried that I won't be able to strike a balance between writing and making a living in the future. Do you have any good suggestions?"

the novelist smiled and replied:

"Today I go back to my dorm, turn on my computer, double-click something called word document, type the first word, and you are already a novelist."

one of the great tragedies of life is that you only know how to plan in your heart, but you have too many worries in your life.

Lenin said, "Don't be a giant of thought and a dwarf of action."

the one who defeats himself is always the sentence "think again"; the one who conquers pain is always the force of action.

when struggling with whether or not to do it, please take the first step bravely.

when you keep walking on the road, what you want will come to you.

when you can't bear it or can't bear it, bear it

Wang Enge, president of Peking University, said:

"whether it is to be a person or to do things well, you need a basic quality-patience."

Adult world, there is no easy to speak of, everyone will be misunderstood and looked down upon.

people who can't stand anything are doomed not to survive.

in the workplace, if you can't swallow grievances, you will hold grudges with people everywhere;

in the family, if you can't be more patient and talk well, the marriage will break up.

in society, if you do not know how to restrain yourself, if you are competitive in everything, you will be excluded.

after withstanding the ups and downs, you can see the gorgeous rainbows ahead.

when reading or not reading, read

Gorky said: "the more books I read, the closer I am to the world, and the brighter and more meaningful my life will be."

Fan Deng, a writer, once told himself that no matter how busy he was, he should read at least half an hour a day.

during her time at CCTV, she didn't have any programs to do.

Are you agitated to acquire latest wedding dresses and be unique in a crowd? You’ll be amazed by confidence that you have!

I was so anxious that when I got home in the evening, I didn't want to read at all.

but when he lay in bed, his irritability grew deeper and deeper.

he once said that it was reading that gave him the strength to face the gains and losses of life calmly.

some people say that reading is the best investment in yourself. It can help you dispel confusion and help you fight mediocrity.

when you feel empty, stop worrying about it and pick a good book to read.

when you go through it or not, you go through it

there is a famous "flywheel effect" in psychology:

if you want to make the stationary flywheel turn, you have to spend a lot of effort at first, pushing it round and again.

when the tipping point is reached, with a little effort, the flywheel will rotate quickly.

it's like life. Sometimes you're exhausted and you still don't see any improvement, but as long as you get through the hardest times, the rest is smooth.

when Shan Tian Fang, a book critic, looked back on his life, he said only one word: suffering.

there are nine out of ten difficulties in life.

it's easy to give up when you're in trouble, but it's cool to stick to it.

when you throw in the towel, you are only one foot away from the finish line.

when you hesitate to move on, don't struggle and push yourself hard.

get through the darkest hour before the dawn, and the dawn will break.

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there is a saying in "wild":

"people are like this, thinking and hesitating, feeling that they are not ready and that they do not have enough courage."

in fact, as long as you take that step, you will find that everything is already ready.

when you have chosen your path, you must go on without hesitation.

as Wang Guozhen said in his poem, "since we have chosen the distance, we only care about both wind and rain."

May these 8 suggestions help you get rid of your entanglements and find your way.

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