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Zhuangzi has something to say:

"Don't go against your heart and be friends with each other."

friends with people, the value lies in a heart, there is no gap in the heart, will not go in the opposite direction, in order to go on for a long time.

especially when people reach middle age, there are people who are old and young, and life is too difficult. At this time, they should reduce their circle of friends.

if you have different ways, you don't conspire with each other; if you have different hearts, you don't have to be friends.

these three kinds of people will not give you positive energy, so learn to stay away.

alcoholic friends who take advantage of you

some people interact with you, either eating and drinking, or playing cards and playing cards. With them, they are inundated with all kinds of dinners.

but you are the only one who pays the bill in the end.

there are always people in this world who take others for fools, use them when you need your kind words, and hang them up when you need them.

when he is with you, you are always the one who suffers.

he is greedy for bargains, looking for benefits, and he annoys you very much.

Zeng Guofan said:

"Don't take advantage of people at all, and don't take money lightly."

the person who always takes advantage of you is not enough, in fact, there is no need to deal with him, because you are only a symbol of money in his heart.

besides, such people are doomed to be alone in the end.

Let others suffer losses and take advantage of themselves. In the end, they must be far away after being seen clearly, and there is no more bargain to take advantage of.

True friends will consider your feelings, will not always set you up, take advantage of you, and make you suffer.

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false friends who borrow money but don't pay it back

some friends make friends with you when they lend you money, but they always get in the way when it's their turn to pay you back.

you told him that you were short of money and needed him to pay it back, but he pretended to be silly again and again.

I have seen such a sentence, and I take it for granted:

you can pretend to be stupid or fool others, but you must stick to your bottom line. What is within the bottom line is called character.

Middle-aged you and I meet friends who borrow money but don't pay it back, and people who have money and go back on their promises are as far away as they are.

borrow and repay, it is not difficult to borrow again, friends should support each other.

it is money that borrows money, but also trust.

once trust is occupied, the distance is estranged. For those who borrow money and don't pay it back, why do they take trust and friendship seriously?

can't see your good and bad friends

there is a kind of friend in this world, you are not as good as him, and you can be regarded as a "friend". Once you are stronger than him, the friendship between you will be broken like a string.

A writer once said:

"some people, even if you don't offend him, will envy you, denigrate you, and even want to destroy you."

in fact, you are not guilty, the sin is that you are better off than him.

some people are like this. no matter what their own conditions, their friends should be the same as him, and they can't stand the slightest bit better than him.

there is a sentence in their dictionary that is: the flowers on the same tree, why do you bloom brilliantly?

because I'm not as good as you, I can't stand you being good either.

this is how to denigrate friends, hurt friends, and even do things that harm the interests of friends.

when people reach middle age, they should have fewer fair-weather friends, stay away from those who borrow money and don't pay it back, and make a prompt decision not to have contact with bad friends.

spending more time with our families and children is the most important thing we should do.