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A philosopher said that the results of life are often laid out by the footprints of the past.

if you are comfortable and prosperous at the moment, it is your past efforts that have been rewarded.

if you are having a hard time at the moment, you may be paying for past mistakes.

what you choose for the first half of your life determines the state of your life for the rest of your life.

it is not until middle age that people find that life is all answers.

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the physical examination report is the answer to the body

there is a topic on Weibo

# where is the terrible midlife crisis #

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some people say that they work overtime all the year round, with less than 40 people, and their physical indicators seriously exceed the standard.

some people say that they are busy socializing, often drink, and their performance has not yet gone up, dragging down their health.

the answer on the screen can be summed up in four words: health crisis.

when people are young, they run like an arrow from the string, and it is not until one day their body stops that they realize that it is the stupidest thing to do to bet their health on the future.

actor Wang Kai talked about his illness in a program.

when he was 35, his career was on the rise, he was constantly asking for appointments, and he was very busy every day.

for a while, he coughed so badly that he went to the hospital and was told that there was a shadow in his lungs and that he had to be operated on immediately.

he was surprised and scared, but he really didn't take good care of his body for many years.

irregular meals, irregular work and rest, staying up late all the year round, no time for exercise.

after getting the medical examination report, Wang Kai reorganized his life. He no longer put his work first, but chose to spend more time eating well and taking good care of himself.

people are always like this. They used to think that wealth and fame are happiness.

until he loses his health, he can only feel that "life has not yet been fully enjoyed".

A doctor engaged in hospice care summed up the last words of more than 1000 patients. He found that

people have different regrets on their deathbed, but everyone's regret is that they didn't live well when they were healthy.

writer Ma Boyong once said: "No matter how free you are, don't forget that there is always a boss on top of your head. His name is Health."

Please be kind to your body if you can't start over.

after middle age, life is in a hurry. With a healthy body, you will have enough energy to tide over thousands of difficulties.

payroll is the answer to hard work

Luo Zhenyu asked, what's the trick?

Luo Zhenyu asked again, is it good for you to make up an article like this?

the friend shook his head helplessly, "of course it's not good, it can only be made do with."

not only is it bad, but the situation of my friends is getting worse and worse.

because he was never willing to make any effort to improve his level, he was finally kicked out of the company. He submitted many resumes, but could not even find a decent job.

some people say that there are only two kinds of people in the workplace, one is the protagonist, the other is a dragon.

Dragon condoms like to do jobs with high repetition rate and low value, so they always stand still, and even encounter professional Waterloo;

however, the protagonist regards work as an experience, keeps forging ahead, and strives to do everything to the extreme.

there is a blogger on Zhihu who joined the company as a junior programmer.

years have passed, whether he can't get up in his work or not, and his life has not improved at all.

while hesitating, a senior in the company woke him up: "you are 30 now and 35 five years later." It takes five years to study the database, and you can become an expert in this field. "

he woke up like a dream and, like grasping at a lifesaver, began to eagerly delve into the relevant knowledge in this field.

in addition to finishing his daily work, he spends hours studying the data every day, and it is normal to stay up until the wee hours of the morning.

he will drive all night, rush to another city to listen to expert lectures, and write e-mails to many big names in the field to ask for advice.

as a result, it took him only three years to complete his "five-year Plan" and became an industry expert as he wished, and his salary increased several times.

there are many such people in life:

"I don't know anything. I have no choice but to hang around in my current unit."

"I am too old to deal with the life in front of me. What else can I do?"

as Haruki Murakami said:

"some self-imprisoned prisons are not put in by violence, but by themselves."

Middle age is not only a watershed in age, but also in the middle of your life, you will clearly see the differences between people.

some people are flustered and anxious, while others are leisurely.

the difference between the two is that some people dawdle along at work, while others work silently and constantly refine themselves.

the greatest suffering in life is not the pain of overtime or study, but the powerlessness and despair in the face of life when you don't have the strength and strength.

if you try hard or not, the salary slip will tell you the answer.

if you don't want to make progress and go step by step, you naturally have to bear more storms in your life; only by keeping pace with the times and constantly updating yourself can you rewrite your destiny.

A child's report card is the answer to education

each of us faces a big exam from the moment we become parents.

ChildrenWhether you can be excellent or not depends on your parents.

parents' views on education are hidden in the transcripts handed over by their children.

once saw a very moving news, "renting a house for 20 years produces 3 high achiever."

Fan Yuhua and his wife in the story, who have endured hardships over the past 20 years, have successively trained three high achiever in rented houses of dozens of square meters.

the eldest daughter is studying for a master's degree at Harbin University of Technology, the eldest son is studying in a well-known military academy, and the youngest son is successfully admitted to Tsinghua University.

they are the most ordinary parents we can see in our lives: frugal, simple, hard-working and uncomplaining.

although neither of them has much culture, they are well aware of the importance of education.

"all the money we earn pays tuition fees for our children and buys materials, because education is really the best investment."

for 20 years, the father went out early and came back late, busy with his livelihood, but no matter how late he came home, he would first ask about his children's studies.

although the mother can't read big characters, she insists on doing a good job in logistics for her children so that they don't have to worry about their studies.

parents' hard lifts have made their children's bright future.

writer Mo Yan once said that the excellence of children is soaked in the sweat of their parents.

you should work patiently and accompany you in the first half of your life, so that you can have excellent children and a successful life in the second half of your life.

I have a friend who was forced by his parents to attend cram schools and various talent classes when he was a child.

when she was young, she also complained about why other children could play everywhere, but she was "on the bench" every day.

but it was only years later, when she became the mother of her own children, that she realized her parents' good intentions.

when her parents teach her to sit upright and stare at her homework, they are setting rules for her;

her parents asked her to get high marks in the exam to teach her to be enterprising.

by forcing her to practice the piano and correcting the wrong sounds again and again, her parents are teaching her self-discipline and cultivating her character of perseverance.

and these accumulated qualities enabled her to be successfully admitted to a famous school and qualified to stay in school and teach.

A writer I like very much said that education is not only a mold, but also a constraint. There should be a part of letting nature take its course, and there should be strict discipline.

parents are not only the first responsible person of their children, but also the mentors of their children's life.

the answer can be found in your child's report card about your attitude towards education.

your words and deeds are hidden in your child's self-discipline; your child's optimism is the infiltration of your state of mind.

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Life is nothing but the sum of choices.

the physical examination report reflects your attitude towards health, the salary slip bears witness to your efforts, and your education view is hidden in your child's grades.

Life is like solving a problem, we never leave the examination paper of life all our lives.

, keep the precepts and work hard, and life will present the best answer to you.

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