Zhang ailing once said:

"A woman who is good at bowing her head is a powerful woman. The stronger she is, the more powerful she is to show weakness."

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usually men have a desire for protection in their bones, and they will take pity on women who are weak and need them, and women who are good at bowing their heads just give them this opportunity, so that men can't stop.

many women think that as long as they pay blindly in their feelings, they will capture a man's heart, but they do not realize that this is not what men want, even if your efforts make themselves humble to the dust, they still will not open a flower.

know that if a man really likes you, it is not because of your efforts, but because of finding these two feelings.

feeling needed

Tu Lei once said:

"the greatest happiness in life is to find out that the one you love needs you very much, and then simply get together, and it's worth it."

in a relationship, whether in love or marriage, smart women make men feel needed, arouse their desire for protection, and make a relationship last longer.

I have heard such a story:

there was a woman who married a courier boy.

every time her husband gives her salary to her hand, she will give him a kiss and say:

"husband, you have worked hard. If we have you in our family, I have a special sense of security, very happy and satisfied."

the man was energized by his wife's words. Thanks to his efforts, he soon became the most capable courier in the company and was promoted to a regional manager of the company.

later, he opened his own express company and his business was very prosperous.

every time he talks about his success, a man always says that it is his wife that makes him feel needed and gives him the motivation to move forward.

after the failure of a relationship, women always scold men for being so bad that they can't see how much they have paid for the relationship, but they forget that what men need most is not to give but to be needed.

if you love each other deeply, please do not put love in giving and blaming, but in understanding, in the form of understanding, to satisfy a man's sense of need and value.

if you really do what you do, how can a man not pull you into his arms and spoil you for a lifetime?

warm feeling

I have heard such a sentence:

"although men are strong and calm on the surface, they look forward to a warm harbor where they can rest and recuperate when they are tired and be comforted when they are injured."

in a relationship, not only women need a feeling of warmth, but men also need it.

A woman has always wanted to find a man who loves her, hoping that the other person will take her to heart, and then begin to be happy for a lifetime.

compared with the warmth that women need, the warmth that men want is very simple. It may be just a comforting word after frustration, or it may be a bowl of steaming noodles when hungry.

although it is a very small thing, it will move men and make their hearts feel warm.

after watching the first issue of "Love Defense", I have a new understanding of my feelings.

when the male and female guests came on stage, the female guests burst into tears and the male guests showed no expression.

since marriage, the man has been working hard outside for his career and doing his best for the family. what he has done seems to be taken for granted in the eyes of women, and he does not feel the slightest warmth in women.

some time ago, the campaign director of the unit, although the man worked very hard, he was very sorry to lose the election.

back home, when the woman knew the result, she not only had no comfort to the man, but complained that he was incompetent and that she went to him blind.

A woman's words pierce a man's heart like a needle, and he even feels that the man in front of him is not his wife but a familiar stranger.

the man came back late from going out to talk business, waiting for him not to be a loving meal but to criticize endlessly, as if in the eyes of a woman, the other person is not his lover but just a money-making machine.

after saying this, the man asked the mentors in the audience whether it was necessary to continue such a relationship. The mentors were collectively silent.

as a woman, do not always think that men will always be strong, in fact, their hearts are also extremely fragile, many times they also hope to get your warm care when they are tired and tired.

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never underestimate the power of warmth, it is enough to change a relationship or even a person.

if a man can feel warm from you, he will recognize you in his heart, and no matter what others say, he will persist in spending the rest of his life with you.

on the other hand, if he doesn't feel warm from you, it's hard for him to recognize you in his heart. Even if he loves you again, it's temporary. All you want is his whole life.

the world is looking for the best love, thinking that the best love is hard to find, but it is not.

good love is just that men protect women from wind and rain, women provide warm support for men, and embrace happiness together in a mundane life.

as the writer Lian Yue said:

good love is never the support of one person, but the hard work of two people.

it is not an easy thing for two people to fall in love from strangers. Since they have met, we should cherish this hard-won fate.

the book is published under authorization.