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Ji Xianlin said:

"I used to have a good wish. I am good to everyone, and I hope everyone is good to me."

wish is good is that it carries hopes that are diametrically opposed to reality.

No matter how beautiful the wish is, the reality is more bony.

like the tip of a knife across the water, after a short ripple, the water is still calm;

when the tip of the knife cuts through the mirror, the mirror will only break, and even if it can be put together, the crack will never go away.

the same is true of human feelings.

when the relationship is good, nothing can be separated.

but when a human relationship is in trouble, it may break up in an instant.

A person's attitude towards human feelings hides his life's feng shui.

Human debt,

easy to owe and difficult to return

writer Xing Lu said:

"never be too nice to a person.

because after braving and giving wholeheartedly, you will only find yourself alone and desolate. "

if it is purposeful to be kind to a person, you only want his value, or expect him to help himself at some point in the future.

then, you may find out in the future:

he will not accomplish or help himself as expected at all.

as Cai Kangyong said:

"it's easy for others to be your hell unless you're surrounded by people with virtues."

in that case, human feelings will become a glass of poisonous wine, although it can quench the thirst for a while, but the tragic ending cannot be undone.

in the TV series bottom Line, Li Xiaole received a shopping card from relatives of his boss.

but was forced by Fang Yuan to return it, and the two quarreled endlessly, so they almost divorced.

Fang Yuan said patiently:

"after receiving something from others, it will be very difficult to return the favor, and it is impossible to make a mistake."

Human feelings are like a small boat, which can carry people to the other shore smoothly, or overturn him at the bottom of the sea in an instant.

Human feelings are roses with thorns, which are fragrant and refreshing.

but if you get too close, you will always be stabbed by it.

Human debt is easy to owe but difficult to repay.

be kidnapped by favors

will only get caught up in invalid social interaction

Qingshan said:

"Friends, it's just the icing on the cake.

sometimes I have to admit that the old friendship of pushing a cup for Brotherhood cannot stand the test when it comes to providing charcoal in the snow. "

expecting too much of human feelings will only increase disappointment in the end.

as Zheng Yuanjie said:

"pinning your hopes on others means keeping your disappointment to yourself."

colleague Lulu is very helpful and others will turn to her for help when they are in need.

at first, Lulu was happy because she could help others.

after a long time, you spend more time doing things for others, but you can't finish your work on time.

Human kindness is like an expensive investment.

in the TV series Chameleon, the protagonist Kuang Zhili has several good friends.

but when things happen, he is always pushed ahead.

even when questioned, Kuang Zhili will still help good friends tide over the difficulties because of friendship.

for the sake of his friends, Kuang Zhi made money and efforts.

however, Kuang Zhili still ended up "betraying his relatives" in the end.

A person kidnapped by human feelings can only consume his most precious things for redemption in the end.

there is a sentence in Zengguang Xian Wen:

"if you have money, wine and brothers, have you ever seen anyone in a hurry?"

if a person has experienced many things, he will understand that the heart is the coolest thing.

when you are in trouble, you can rely on others for a while, but you must not rely on others all the time.

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as Sanmao said:

"if two people can advance or retreat, if they are separated, and they can get together without breaking up, then they are the best friends of Tian Chang Di Jiu (Eternal Dumpling)."

it is a person's greatest wisdom to stay awake in human feelings.

do not rely on human feelings

is the greatest sobriety

Lin Xi said:

"the heat between close friends is like a long stream of water, and you have to walk on thin ice along the way."

it is wise to make friends with people and stay awake all the time.

as Cai Kangyong said:

"my definition of trouble is very simple, that is, you have to handle the relationship between you and that person.

if your troubles go beyond the depth of your relationship, you are causing trouble and embarrassment for others. "

the moon will be full and missing, no matter what kind of relationship, as long as we do not rely on it, we will be in harmony.

and any kind of relationship, as long as you rely too much on it, you will only feel bitter.

if a person can understand the vicissitudes of life, he should have experienced setbacks.

and if he can see through the hearts of the people, he should have experienced human feelings.

and ifIf a person sees through human feelings, he must understand:

when you are successful, you are full of people, but when you are down, you are busy.

in the TV series "the way of Heaven", Ding Yuanying's funds were frozen because of business failure.

even if she is down and out, Ding Yuanying would rather sell her treasured records and never ask for help.

Ding Yuanying understands that he must not tempt with human feelings, because the result of temptation is not necessarily what he wants.

Human kindness is like a hedgehog. Although it is lovely, the closer it is to it, the more painful it will be.

therefore, do not rely on, do not expect, is the awareness you should have when dealing with people.

as Bi Shumin said:

"keeping a close distance may be the most appropriate way to communicate."

Life is like chess, and things are unpredictable.

the origin dies, and the gathering and dispersing follows the fate.

not demanding, not relying on, is perhaps the most comfortable communication relationship.

getting along with others and not clinging to human feelings is the greatest gain.

where there are people, there will be human feelings, and where there are human feelings, there will be emotional debts.

but human kindness is an oar, and only when used properly can a ship cross the vast sea smoothly.

only when human feelings are handled properly can life be smooth and smooth.

A person's greatest strength is only himself.

do not need to rely on human feelings, live to be your own light, you can still illuminate the front.

the same sentence:

if the flowers are in full bloom, the butterflies will come, and if you are wonderful, the sky will arrange itself.

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