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have read a sentence:

"the bigger the temper, the less happy; the warmer the temper, the deeper the reward."

in life, there are always some troubles that make us resentful, and there are always some people who make us angry.

but losing your temper often doesn't solve the problem, but makes things worse.

if you want to keep your luck, you must first control your temper.

the bigger the temper, the less luck.

the ancients said: "those who are dry are on fire, but when they encounter things, they burn."

A person who is easy to get angry is like a hot fire. When something goes wrong, it burns not only others, but also himself.

read a story:

A lamb was playing in the forest and was accidentally pricked by a rose thorn.

the lamb was furious, raised his foot and kicked at the rose tree.

as the petals fell, the leg of the lamb was bleeding with rose thorns, and the lamb bleated with pain. The angry lamb dragged the wound and limped away.

its bloody smell attracted the wolf. When the lamb was about to be eaten, it lamented with remorse:

"if I hadn't been angry with the thorns of the roses, I wouldn't have ended up where I am now."

the lamb indulged his bad temper and finally paid the price of his life.

in life, we sometimes get out of control like lambs.

do you still remember the news that pregnant women in Chongqing cut 32 wedding dresses and were claimed 67000?

Ms. Jiang from Chongqing paid a deposit of 3500 yuan at the wedding shop.

later, when the wedding was cancelled, she wanted to go to the bridal shop to get the deposit back.

but the shopkeeper said: "as agreed in the contract, the deposit is non-refundable."

after many negotiations, the problem was not solved. In a fit of anger, Ms. Jiang rushed into the wedding shop with scissors and cut out 32 wedding dresses.

as Ms. Jiang was already pregnant at that time, the clerk did not dare to stop it, but just took pictures and reminded her: "these wedding dresses are thousands of yuan, you have to think carefully."

but Ms. Jiang said, "you call the police, I'll pay for it."... "

after the video was sent, the police intervened and determined that the 32 wedding dresses that had been cut were worth 67400 yuan.

afterwards, the two parties reached a settlement, and Ms. Jiang finally paid 50,000 yuan in compensation.

because she failed to control her temper, Ms. Jiang skyrocketed the deposit, which originally lost only 3500 yuan, to 50, 000 yuan.

when temper comes, fortune is gone. if you want to keep your luck, you must first control your temper.

as Wang Yangming said, "narrow-mindedness is the root of evil, and open-mindedness is the door to happiness."

Don't let a bad temper ruin your good fortune in life.

the warmer the temper, the deeper the blessing

the Law of attraction says:

"everything that happens in your life is attracted by you."

indeed, a warm and kind person attracts the scent of flowers and sunshine around him.

Epson Channel once conducted a personality survey on active basketball coaches.

investigators thought that a coach with a temper could lead a team more harshly.

but the results show that the coaches who lead the team with a high winning rate are very gentle instead.

in the game, no matter whether their team is leading or falling behind, they are gentle and calm.

because of this, they never bring extra psychological burden to the players, so that the players can play at a normal level.

Caigen Tan says:

"the qi of heaven and earth is born when it is warm and killed when it is cold.

therefore, if the nature is cool, the enjoyment is also cold and thin.

only those who are warm-hearted and warm-hearted have rich blessings and long lustre.

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indeed, the warmer the temper, the deeper the reward.

there is a good-tempered aunt in our community who lives alone with her daughter after divorce.

although her income as a temporary housekeeper is not high, her aunt always smiles, warm-hearted and gentle.

when you encounter a child crying in the community, my aunt will always take out all kinds of snacks to make the child laugh through tears.

seeing that the old man living alone has difficulty in his legs and feet, when the aunt goes shopping, she always helps to bring more back and send it to the old man. All the people in the community like her very much.

the son of an old man, after hearing about his aunt, asked her to work as a cleaner in his own company, and his salary was the same as that of a regular employee.

Auntie's life has been improved, and her life is getting better and better.

this year, her daughter was successfully admitted to a famous university.

many people lamented that their aunt met an honorable person, but they did not realize that the good-natured aunt had brought them blessings.

everyone's temper hides his own blessing.

when you lament the disharmony of your marriage, the disobedience of your children, the instability of your friendship, and the unhappiness of everything, you might as well ask yourself if you have a good temper.

as Thai legend King Bailong warned: "as long as you have a good temper, everything will be all right."

Life is too short to learn to control your temper.

because the better your temper is, the deeper your blessings will be, and the better your life will be.

only by controlling your temper can you keep your good fortune

Proverbs says, "he who is slow to anger is better than a warrior." It is better to conquer your own heart than to take a city. "

it is instinct to have a temper, but to control one's temper is the skill.

how can a person control his temper and keep his luck?

I'd like to share three tips with you.

learn to reflect

Heine said:

"reflection is a mirror that can clearly show our mistakes and give us a chance to correct them."

the gap between people does not lie in whether they make mistakes, but in whether they can be corrected in time.

those who like to complain will only fall in their mistakes; those who often reflect on themselves can move forward in reflection.

those who understand after reflection will become the way for themselves.

as the saying goes: those who complain are sleepy, and those who reflect on themselves are on their own.

only those who constantly reflect on themselves can achieve success.

learn to be gentle

in Cai Gentan, it is said: "those who are impetuous and careless accomplish nothing, and those who are calm and calm gather their own happiness."

there are few disputes when dealing with things in a friendly way, but there are many friends when you smile.

treat people and do things with each other, and it is better to be friendly than to be friendly, and many fearless disputes and quarrels will be avoided.

as the saying goes: harmony leads to wealth, hostility leads to evil.

be friendly and kind, good fortune will come uninvited, and life will become more and more comfortable.

learn to be patient

Feng Menglong said in the constant words of awakening the World: "if you don't think twice, there will be regrets, and people can endure a hundred things without worry."

if you act on impulse, you can only do it for a while, but there will be endless troubles.

if you can bear it when you are angry, you can see the truth clearly and make a correct judgment after being calm.

as the saying goes, "as soon as anger comes online, IQ goes offline."

so, before you get angry, you might as well endure it, take a group of deep breaths, count silently in your mind, and calm yourself down.

this may seem simple, but it has a magical effect, so that you don't regret something on impulse.

you know, only when you have peace of mind can everything go well.

as the saying goes, "there is no way to happiness and misfortune, but to be called by temper."

in life, win in kindness and lose in temper.

Life will be colorful only if you have more friendliness and less temper.

May your temper be digested into harmony and attract a lot of blessings for the rest of your life.

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