have heard of a "five-dimensional theory of close friends":

A person's wealth and wisdom are the average of the five people he most often comes into contact with.

the importance of who is with is self-evident.

make friends with high people, improve your horizons, get along with capable people, learn the way of doing things, and socialize with blessed people to cultivate optimism.

this is the best social pattern for a person.

socialize with superior people

Luo Zhenyu, founder of logical thinking, once talked about one of his criteria for making friends: making people he admires.

whenever he finds a very powerful person, he will try his best to invite him to his home for a chat.

because to do paid courses for knowledge, what you need most is to open your mind and break through the cognitive blind area.

after talking to these awesome people, he combed out the main points of the content and shared it with users in an easy-to-understand way.

in this way, while getting in touch with people who are better than himself, he helps more people in need, sets up a good cycle and opens up his own business map.

interacting with a master is equivalent to standing on the shoulder of a giant and seeing the world from a broader perspective.

when Dong Qing first arrived at CCTV, she was unknown. Later, she got to know Ni Ping. As an elder, Ni Ping gave her all kinds of support.

with the rise of fame, there is more and more pressure on program recording. At the most sad time, Dong Qing even withdrew.

Ni Ping at that time saw her situation and said to her:

"not everyone can stand in the middle of this stage. It's not easy for you to walk all the way, so don't retreat, go on bravely."

many years later, Dong Qing said in a program that Ni Ping's words at that time woke her up like a dream.

Dong Qing remembered Ni Ping's teachings and honed her skills in a more down-to-earth manner, which led to the first sister of CCTV, who was later praised by countless people.

"ordinary World" says:

"when a person's mind is not strong enough to fully grasp himself, he needs to rely on another person who is stronger than himself in spirit."

everyone has their own limitations, and the guidance of experts can help us tear down the wall of thinking and see a broader world.

there is a good saying: "it is better to read ten thousand books than to travel ten thousand miles; to travel ten thousand miles is not as good as a master to guide the way."

interacting with high-level people, their few words, may enlighten you.

if you get in touch with them more, you will naturally broaden your horizons and will not be confined to one mu of land in front of you.

can also open up the pattern, make up for the deficiency, and store energy for future development.

work with capable people

there is a saying that man is the only animal that can be hinted, and who you are with determines what kind of person you will become.

if a person wants to open the channel of growth quickly, he must choose to go with good people.

there is such a character who was born in the countryside and grew up on rice paste.

he was finally admitted to a technical secondary school and was sent to a university, but he was forced to drop out because he could not afford the tuition fees.

by chance, he came to New Oriental. As a temporary classroom manager, his daily task was to sweep the floor, dust, and take out the trash.

but the good atmosphere of New Oriental makes him have a bright vision for the future.

he targeted those star lecturers, began to listen crazily, studied the teachers' ideas, and then hung a small blackboard at home to simulate their tone and expression, giving speeches over and over again.

A year later, he officially became a specially appointed teacher, and when he came to the New Oriental Building with a small blackboard to give a simulation lecture to the recruitment director, he shocked everyone present.

he is Zhang Shaoyun, a well-known lecturer named "the most legendary figure with New Oriental Spirit".

A poor rural child, because he entered a high-quality circle and inspired by the people around him, studied hard and completely reversed his destiny.

the communication between people is actually the exchange of energy one by one.

with diligent people, you will not be lazy; with positive people, you will not be depressed;

if you walk with the wise, you will not be mediocre; if you keep company with the superior, you can reach the top.

get along with lucky people

I have read such a short story.

there was a young man who sighed all day and was unhappy every day.

the doctor didn't say much, but gave him a special prescription:

find a friend who is happy every day from your side, and visit him once in the morning, in the middle, and in the evening.

the young man looked at the prescription with suspicion, but followed it.

A few months later, he came back in high spirits to thank the doctor, saying that his depression had miraculously recovered.

when the young man asked why, the doctor replied, "there is no better medicine than an optimistic friend."

think about it. If you are with someone who complains, the world will become dark over time.

with people with positive energy, life can be full of sunshine.

A Cheng, a writer, who is well-informed and humorous, has always been very popular in literati circles.

Wang Shuo likes to listen to him talk about his local conditions and customs: "he knows everything about the left side."He spoke with a nose and eyes, and he was in a mess. "

Zhou Wei, editor-in-chief of Sanlian Weekly, always remembers his interesting look:

"occasionally where he can't get it, he just puts his head back and takes a puff of cigarette, and when he bows his head and flicks the ash, he immediately continues the broken topic seamlessly."

this optimistic and cheerful nature attracts many people to become his friends.

for them, chatting and eating with A Cheng is a kind of enjoyment.

there is an old saying that, as the so-called good man, everyone respects him, heaven blesses him, and fortune follows.

Blessed people are often interesting, transparent and open-minded.

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they are passionate about life and never complain about life.

even in the days of dark wind and rain, they live a lively life, and with such people, blessings will come uninvited.

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the magnetic fields between people influence each other.

as the saying goes:

"lazy people teach you how to cheat and cheat, villains teach you to commit crimes, and negative people will tell you that the world is dangerous.

the wise will teach you how to think deeply, the diligent will teach you how to work hard, and the brave will teach you how to move forward courageously. "

We can't change our origins, but we can decide who to go with.

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, look at the world through the eyes of superior people, learn the way of life from capable people, and live a lifetime with the mentality of blessed people.

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