Balzac once said:

"the happiness of marriage is not built entirely on illustrious status and property, but on mutual respect, and the essence of this happiness is humble and simple."

Marriage requires not only mutual attraction in love, but also two like-minded people who care for and accompany each other.

knowing that there are many difficulties ahead, they are willing to face and bear them together.

A happy marriage requires not only love and emotion, but also the loyalty of treating each other with all sincerity, the courage to confront fate together and the courage to share joys and sorrows.

righteousness that treats each other with courage

Yang Lan once said:

"Marriage needs another kind of bond other than love. The most tenacious one is not children, money and interests, but righteousness that treats each other with all sincerity."

this kind of loyalty between husband and wife is that they are willing to stay with each other no matter what difficulties and frustrations they encounter.

someone on the Internet asked: "what is happiness in marriage?"

the answer is actually very simple:

"it is a kind of happiness to warm, support and accompany each other in clothing, food, shelter and transportation."

"you are my eyes, take me to appreciate the changes of the four seasons; you are my eyes, take me through the crowd."

this is not only a simple lyric, but also an unswerving oath of Lou Dexin and his wife who have experienced ups and downs in their lives.

in the early morning, Lou Dexin and his wife put on their sneakers and radios, and took advantage of the weather to start their morning run.

however, unlike other morning runners, husband and wife are connected to each other with a head rope.

from home, their destination is Luocheng Pinggang, which is called "Houshan" by the locals.

four kilometers back and forth, with little rest, took a total of 28 minutes.

for ordinary morning runners, this achievement may not be worth mentioning, but it is of great significance to Lou Dexin, who has been blind for many years.

"I used to be able to run for 22 minutes, but the speed slows down as I get older."

shunguang expressed sheepishly for the building at the other end of the grade rope.

as her husband's navigator, Lou Shunguang not only controls the speed with a head rope in their hands, but also keeps an eye on her husband's condition through the tightness of the head rope.

over the past 30 years, what Lou Shunguang has said to Lou Dexin most is: "it's all right, I'll be your eye!"

and the rope attached to them every morning has gradually become a symbol of their love.

now 72-year-old Lou Dexin, as early as when he was young, was injured in one eye due to an accident, leaving only weak eyesight in the other.

but he, who is positive and optimistic, did not give up because of the decline of his eyesight.

Lou Dexin, who loves music, taught himself more than a dozen musical instruments and formed a small troupe with the young people in the village.

met his wife and began their love story.

even if Lou de's new economic conditions are not superior, Lou Shunguang has not shaken his heart to marry him in the face of his parents' opposition.

she said:

"it is the person who loves him, not his wealth. It is really not clear to love a person."

because Lou Dexin, who is blind and depressed day by day, plans to use running to relieve his depression, so he has the idea of using a headrope.

the two began to keep running, and the persistence lasted for 30 years. I don't know how many pairs of shoes they had worn out and how many times they fell, and they finally melted together.

the figure of two men leading rope running has also become a beautiful local scenery.

Gorky said:

"Marriage is the combination of two people's spirits, and the purpose is to overcome all the difficulties and hardships of the world together."

A long marriage is not a moment of romance and passion, but a lifetime of loyalty.

without loyalty, you will lose the ability to resist the winds and waves of life and break up easily.

A happy marriage is not a matter of giving in or fighting alone, but going all out hand in hand.

the courage to fight against fate

there are two kinds of courage in the world: one is called knowing the truth of life and still loving life;

the other is that knowing the truth of marriage will still believe in the beauty of marriage.

the real meaning of marriage is to have a person who gives you enough courage to face the suffering of life, not alone, but someone to face it with you.

not long ago a

# husband and wife share one hand to train their daughter to be a teacher #

attracted countless netizens' tears.

when Zhang Shundong was herding sheep at the age of six, he accidentally touched a high voltage and lost his right hand, and his legs were seriously injured.

Li Guoxiu, who was born without hands, had some worries on the day Zhang Shundong came to propose marriage.

two people have only one hand. Farmers can make a living by farming. Do they have the courage and ability to face the rest of life?

Zhang Shundong's words after marriage dispelled all the apprehension:

"Life is not to wait, but to do;

if husband and wife are of one mind, loess can also be turned into gold. "

with the birth of a daughter and a son, a healthy child is not only a comfort, but also fills the family with joy and hope.

every day before dawn, when the people in the village are still sleeping, the husband and wife are already busy.

if you want to live as well as others, you have to pay thousands of times of effort.

as Herbert said:

"No matter how big or small one's ambition is, as long as he does his best and unswervingly, he will certainly get what he wants."

even without hands, his wife Li Guoxiu has mastered the ability to embroider with her feet, and there are more and more chickens and ducks in the family.

the children lived up to their hopes and were admitted to a normal university, and their lives began to improve.

however, the hemp rope was specially broken, and Zhang Shundong had to face the painful reality of being amputated because of ulceration caused by overwork.

Destiny's jokes did not bring down the tenacious couple.

they became more precious to each other, and Zhang Shundong, encouraged by his wife, put on artificial limbs to face life again.

the suffering of fate is like surging waves, slapping them violently again and again.

Zhang Shundong and his wife share one hand, but their hearts are closely linked, snuggling up to each other and encouraging each other.

they firmly believe: "No matter how difficult a man is, he cannot be without hope."

have no feet to get rich, and embroider happiness flowers without hands.

their unyielding courage convinced their sufferings again and again, which also made their marriage more unbreakable.

Marriage should not be just the initial sweetness and attachment, but the courage to fight against fate without fear in the wind and rain.

should also be prosperous retreat, the two people still do not give up, hand in hand with the old tacit understanding.

the strength to share joys and sorrows

there is a line in the movie Love before Dawn:

"if there is any miracle in the world, it must be to try to understand someone and share their joys and sorrows."

there is a very old but warm-hearted story on the Internet.

A boy has a gold watch. He falls in love with a girl with beautiful long hair.

Christmas is just around the corner, and the boy decides to sell his little gold watch and prepare a beautiful hairpin for the girl as a holiday present.

when he gave the gift to the girl with joy, he found that her long hair had been cut off.

it turns out that the girl wants to exchange her hair for money to prepare a watch band for the boy.

True love is not a momentary feeling, but a lasting commitment.

not long ago, the post-90s couple in Yichun, Jiangxi Province became popular on the Internet because of the smile on their faces when their wife delivered meals to her busy husband at the construction site.

both husband and wife work in a brick factory, and they support their four children by hard work.

they, who should be well-dressed and enjoy a beautiful marriage, are crawling in the dirt of the construction site.

the two get up early and late every day to raise money for surgery for children with cleft lip and heart disease.

the local worker said:

"after work, the wife will first go back to cook a meal for her husband, and then if she can't even eat first, she will send the meal to her husband first."

if the wife leaves work early, she will come to help her husband! Although the work at the construction site was tiring, the husband and wife warmed each other by encouraging each other.

husband Mr. Yang also said:

"although daily life is very hard, my wife never gives up, which moves me very much."

people yearn for the marriage that used to be slow, whether it is bitter or sweet, they will not leave each other.

in today's fast-paced era, two people, whether in marriage or in love, have gradually become able to share joys and sorrows, but difficult to share hardships.

and a truly happy marriage is to have a common goal in life. You know my hard work, and I understand that yours is not easy.

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teacher Luo Xiang once said:

"if love is just a feeling, it will soon disappear when it is challenged.

and true love, it is not a feeling, but a responsibility, a sacrifice and achievement of each other. "

the love affair may be replaced by the firewood, rice and oil in life, and sweet words will gradually become parents.

but the loyalty of taking care of each other, the courage to confront fate together and the courage to share joys and sorrows will become the strongest background in two people's lives.

, may every time we meet, we can go to the end, and may every part of each other be turned into happiness.