people often say:

"the depth of the water does not speak, the man remains silent."

but in fact, moments is not only a person's private space, it is also an important channel for others to get to know you.

if we want to know whether a person is capable or not, we can tell one or two from his circle of friends.

swipe the screen every day and send a lot of messages

I wonder if you have ever met such a person in your life:

he regards moments as a place to promote his products, and unremittingly posts advertisements and promotes his products in moments every day.

at first, because people are good friends, they will not be particularly disgusted with this situation.

but then slowly, with the passage of time, he sent more and more advertisements, more and more frequently, it is difficult not to cause other people's nuisance.

when this "hate" reaches its peak, you block his circle of friends.

A person's circle of friends is actually what he looks like in his life.

self-media man Cheng Qi once talked about a friend of his who likes to swipe the screen and post a lot of messages in moments every day.

get up early, praise yourself on moments;

what you have for breakfast, lunch and dinner will be photographed and shared.

if you watch any TV series or books, you will take pictures and share them.

the sunset is beautiful. The cat at home is very good and can take pictures and share.

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every time there is a little red dot in moments, you can always see his movements when refreshed.

because the probability of browsing into his moments is too frequent, and they are all unnutritious things, Cheng Qi blocked this friend early.

out of sight, the heart is quiet.

when I couldn't see the update of his moments, I suddenly found that the whole world suddenly opened up.

each of us is crawling and rolling in the quagmire of life. If we swipe the screen in moments too often, it will only make people upset if we watch too much.

as the saying goes, "scarcity is precious."

it is only natural that people who do not update their updates often update their moments occasionally, and other people will feel new when they see them and are willing to interact with you in their moments.

if you show and share too much, it will only cause inconvenience and disgust to others.

writer Li Xiaolai also said:

it used to be a society of acquaintances, and we will judge a person based on past communication experience.

now is a stranger society, the network is developed, check his circle of friends, we can know the general living habits of this person.

people who really have high EQ know how to manage their moments and send "few but good" messages.

blindly keep up with others and show off too much wealth

there is a saying in Zengguang Xianwen: "customers do not leave goods, wealth does not show white."

means that people who travel abroad cannot leave their luggage and their money is not easily exposed to others.

moments was originally just a platform for sharing daily life.

but there are always some people who like to show off what they have in their moments and are very satisfied when they see other people's envious praise.

just as the hollow ear of wheat always raises its head to the sky, while the full ear bows its head to the earth.

A colleague of

company laughs, her circle of friends is comparable to a large circle of showing off wealth.

Today, a GUCCI bag, tomorrow a set of sea blue mystery cosmetics.

I can often see common friends comment on her moments: "how envious", "the world of the rich", "money is really omnipotent".

maybe the flattery of her friends really brought her a lot of satisfaction, but the price was too high.

A Xiao, who earns only 4,000 yuan a month, collapses to borrow money from all the people he knows when he is faced with phone calls from various lending platforms.

at this time, people around her knew that all the things she showed off in her moments were maxed out her credit cards and borrowed online loans everywhere.

people with high EQ seldom show off.

because they understand that other people's admiration and admiration are empty, only down-to-earth precipitation of their own, this is the real need to do.

in the program if you are the one, Mr. Huang said, "I can afford to buy apples, so I don't care if people say I use millet."

I think so deeply, holding my dignity and being strict, and doing things with dignity and modesty.

showing off is not a kind of capital, but a performance without EQ.

people are vain, maybe you just want to prove that you are doing well, but in the eyes of others, this kind of behavior will lose points.

to be a man and do things, only with a low-key and humble attitude can we be stable and far away.

keep complaining and get caught up in negative energy all day

A college classmate of mine, his daily painting style in moments is:

work is really tiring, and I can't make any money. I feel that there is no light in my life.

I'm going to lose weight recently, but five kilometers a day is really hard. I want to ask for a little recipe for losing weight without exercising or dieting in my moments.

the price of takeout has gone up again, and I can't afford to eat. When will this day end?

the salary is too low, and even if the leader doesn't give a raise, he still thinks that others are lazy about their work.I know how to calculate.

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in a word, his circle of friends is almost always unsatisfactory.

company laughs, her circle of friends is comparable to a large circle of showing off wealth.

Today, a GUCCI bag, tomorrow a set of sea blue mystery cosmetics.

I can often see common friends comment on her moments: "how envious", "the world of the rich", "money is really omnipotent".

maybe the flattery of her friends really brought her a lot of satisfaction, but the price was too high.

A Xiao, who earns only 4,000 yuan a month, collapses to borrow money from all the people he knows when he is faced with phone calls from various lending platforms.

at this time, people around her knew that all the things she showed off in her moments were maxed out her credit cards and borrowed online loans everywhere.

people with high EQ seldom show off.

because they understand that other people's admiration and admiration are empty, only down-to-earth precipitation of their own, this is the real need to do.

in the program if you are the one, Mr. Huang said, "I can afford to buy apples, so I don't care if people say I use millet."

I think so deeply, holding my dignity and being strict, and doing things with dignity and modesty.

showing off is not a kind of capital, but a performance without EQ.

people are vain, maybe you just want to prove that you are doing well, but in the eyes of others, this kind of behavior will lose points.

to be a man and do things, only with a low-key and humble attitude can we be stable and far away.

keep complaining and get caught up in negative energy all day

A college classmate of mine, his daily painting style in moments is:

work is really tiring, and I can't make any money. I feel that there is no light in my life.

I'm going to lose weight recently, but five kilometers a day is really hard. I want to ask for a little recipe for losing weight without exercising or dieting in my moments.

the price of takeout has gone up again, and I can't afford to eat. When will this day end?

the salary is too low, and even if the leader doesn't give a raise, he still thinks that others are lazy about their work.I know how to calculate.

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in a word, his circle of friends is almost always unsatisfactory.

after blocking him, I will feel much more relaxed when browsing moments.

I often hear the older generation warn the younger generation:

"Don't just bring it over and think it over."

negative energy can spread from person to person like a disease, affecting other people around it.

if you complain, don't open your mouth.

American psychologist David Polly said:

"some people are like garbage trucks, they run around full of garbage, full of chagrin, anger and disappointment. As the garbage gets higher and higher, they need to find a place to dump it."

they always spend their time on trivial things, imperceptibly consuming other people's good mood.

it is only natural to complain occasionally when you encounter problems in your life.

however, if you turn complaining into a habit and open your mouth full of negative energy, that's not a good thing.

people with low EQ always complain about life and can't see where the light comes in.

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Carnegie, a famous American master of interpersonal relations, wrote this in his book "discovering potential you haven't taken advantage of."

"if everyone can turn complaints into well-intentioned communication, complaints into positive suggestions, and complaints into positive actions, they will be pleasantly surprised to find that a success is close at hand, and a new world without complaints."

instead of complaining, accept it and try to make a change.

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moments is a public place where you can post what you want, and you can't stop people from thinking what they think.

if you don't want to destroy your impression in the eyes of others, you still need to learn to restrain yourself as much as possible.

most of the time, low EQ is just an excuse for a person, but to put it bluntly, he doesn't know how to behave.

I hope each and every one of us will learn to build our own circle of friends and become people with high EQ.