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when we were young, we all heard the story of "the race between the tortoise and the hare". When you grow up, have you ever heard the "win-win theory of the tortoise and the hare"?

"tortoise-hare win-win theory" means that in the mountains, the hare carries the tortoise on its back to the river, and when it comes to the riverside, the tortoise carries the hare upstream on its back to cross the river. This is a "win-win".

and apply the "tortoise-hare win-win theory" to interpersonal relations, that is to achieve each other and be noble to each other.

what is a distinguished person

No one is plain sailing in one's life.

We always encounter difficulties and problems of one kind or another, and in most cases, we have to face them alone.

at this time, if there are people who are willing to give you support and help regardless of any cost, and make "qualitative changes or leaps" in all aspects of your life, they are our "dignitaries."

to explore the traces of many successful people at all times and all over the world, it is not difficult to find a rule, that is, almost all of them have received help from dignitaries in their lives.

or soar by accidental discovery of talent; or get financial aid out of financial difficulties; or be instructed by talented people to be wise; or be appreciated and bring about a great change in the course of life.

so, who is the honorable person?

A noble person is a teacher who "preaches and accepts karma" for you when you are ignorant.

relatives who help you solve problems when you are depressed;

A friend who gives you "timely help" when you encounter difficulties;

when you feel confused at the crossroads of your life, you are led to the right path by the right person.

looking for dignitaries

as the saying goes: bosom friends are hard to meet, dignitaries are hard to find.

dignitaries can change the fate of our lives, so how to find the dignitaries in our lives?

if you take the initiative to visit high-ranking people, you will have a chance to be appreciated by dignitaries.

19-year-old Bai Juyi visited the home of the great poet Gu Kuang, got his discerning eyes, instructed him and deliberately promoted him, and then embarked on the road of "poetic demons."

as the saying goes: it is easy to go with many friends.

be kind to your friends and communicate with each other sincerely. Maybe one day your friend will become your honorable person.

Blood is thicker than water, respect the old and love the young, and your relatives are eternal dignitaries in your life.

Su Shi was led by his father Su Kui on the road of literary creation.

when the time is not ripe, wait patiently for dignitaries to appear.

Jiang Ziya's dignitaries are King Zhou Wen, who is thirsty for virtues; Han Xin's dignitaries are Xiao he, who knows people wisely; and Zhuge Liang's dignitaries are Liu Bei, who cares for three times.

backers are the most direct dignitaries on your way to success, with the help of the power of backers, you can reach the other side of success more quickly.

Reading can solve 80% of our confusion.

the various aspects of life in books can enable us to understand the world in a more tolerant way.

those who do not understand things, can not understand the truth, can not get out of the dilemma, can find the answer in the book.

throughout history, those who have become dignitaries of others have all grown up through their own hard work.

for example, Laozi, who used to be the chief librarian, constantly absorbed nutrients in the world of books, and finally wrote the ancient masterpiece "moral Sutra."

to find dignitaries, the most important thing is to strive to improve yourself.

it is impossible to have dignitaries around a person who does not have a very strong desire for success.

the reason why people have to work hard is to keep their fate in their own hands, and the premise is to make their own knowledge reserve, experience reserve, and psychological reserve.

because in this world, no one can help you all the time, and no one can grow for you.

to improve yourself, only by relying on your own strength to move forward step by step, can you get closer and closer to the life you want.

the best person in life is always the one who ascends and transforms all the way.

only when you really grow taller will you be seen;

only if you are really good, will you be looked up to by expensive people;

you will often think of you only if you provide very good self-value.

looking for dignitaries, all roads lead to Rome.

be distinguished to each other

strive to become dignitaries, so that you can resonate with more dignitaries.

similarly, they will recommend their own dignitaries to you, and over time, you will meet more and more dignitaries.

if you borrow your brain, strength, and advantage from dignitaries, you will achieve and be distinguished from each other, and you will be extraordinary.

there is a story that moved me deeply:

the receptionist replied, "Sorry, we're full. We don't have any vacant rooms."

looking at the tired and disappointed look of the old couple, the waiter did not have the heart to let the old couple go out late at night to find another accommodation.

so he led the old couple to a room and said, "maybe it's not the best, but now it's the best I can do."

the old man lived happily when he saw that the room in front of him was neat and clean.

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the next day, when they came to the front desk to check out, the waiter said:"No, that's my duty room. Have a nice trip."

it turns out that the waiter stayed up all night and worked at the front desk all night.

the two old people were very moved: "son, you are the best innkeeper I have ever seen, and you will be rewarded."

the waiter smiled and sent the old man out of the door.

two months later, the waiter received a letter and opened an one-way ticket to New York with a short postscript: hire him to do another job.

the waiter flew to New York and followed the route indicated in the letter to a place. Looking up, a magnificent hotel stood before his eyes.

it turns out that late that night two months ago, he received a billionaire and his wife.

the rich man bought the hotel for the waiter, and the rich man was convinced that he would run and manage the hotel well.

this is the legend of the first manager of the world-famous Hilton Hotel.

from this story, you will feel:

when you give your love and become other people's dignitaries, others also become your dignitaries.

the greatest joy of our life is the lamp of meeting each other, you ignite my passion, I ignite your dream; you illuminate my future, I guide you through the dark journey.

the weak tear each other, it is difficult to move; the strong build a bridge, cross others and cross themselves.

, may you and I achieve and be honorable to each other in this life.

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