A few days ago, a hot search revealed a video that made people's scalp numb.

A female teacher was giving online lessons to her students at home. The next moment, a terrible scene happened.

A strange man suddenly appeared in the picture and grabbed the female teacher's neck.

then the two men disappeared in front of the camera, and a fierce scream came out of the picture.

video ends here, but the worries and fears in the minds of the students have just begun.

who on earth is this man?

what happened to the teacher who was choked by the neck?

for fear that the teacher would be hurt, the students immediately chose to call the police.

the woman in the video is an English teacher in Xinmi City, Henan Province, and the violent man is her husband.

and the reason why men commit violence, just when they are asked to eat, does not get a response.

how rude is it to start when you disagree with each other?

what would it be like to be able to do such a thing in front of the students?

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it's scary to think about it.

then a student revealed: "our teacher said that this is the nth time of domestic violence."

there are only 0 and countless times of domestic violence, and people who have hurt you once are likely to hurt you for the second or third time.

it can be said that the teacher's experience once again sounded the alarm for us.

do you remember actor Wang Dong?

he is Su Mingyu's happy enemy Liu Qing in "everything is fine" and Shen Dongjun, the mature and stable head of the jewelry brand in "Cara Lovers".

he also appeared in the movies and TV dramas "will be Night" and "acquaintance with Junchu".

however, these filters were shattered in a video released in August.

Wang Dong in the video, like a wild animal, jumped high from the floating window and pounced on his wife at the head of the bed, beating and cursing.

then, outside the camera, there was a crash and a wife's scream.

scolded "kill you" and slammed his wife with the crib board in his hand.

when she was emotional, Wang Dongyi grabbed her mobile phone and shouted, "do you want to die together?"

the words are full of hysterical madness.

but do you think it's over?

what is more infuriating is that after the police left, Wang Dong beat his wife again until he fainted.

as a public figure, he still dares to be a violent wife over and over again, knowing that domestic violence is illegal.

it was obvious that he had no respect for his wife and no real repentance.

in August this year, a similar thing happened again.

because of domestic violence, a Ms. Wang in Shanghai suddenly applied to the court for a "writ of personal protection".

during her seven years of marriage with her husband, Ms. Wang was often beaten by her husband, who had no scruples even in front of the children.

two of the more than a dozen calls to the police were secretly made by children who couldn't watch.

after each domestic violence, Ms. Wang forgave her husband's pleas and guarantees.

on July 19, her husband shook his fist at her again on the grounds that breakfast was not delicious.

Hospital diagnosis showed that the right orbit was swollen and painful, skin abrasions, soft tissue injuries, right eyeball contusion and so on.

Ms. Wang couldn't stand it any longer and finally moved out of her home, ready to sue for divorce.

think of a sentence in "seeing":

"there is never only evil and good in human nature, but if evil is not restrained, it will devour other people's fears and grow up."

people have the weakness of bullying the soft and the hard, and these are especially obvious in domestic violence.

by blindly flinching and patient, you can only live in silence all the time, making the other person feel that you are weak and make the violence worse.

you can never imagine what an abuser can do when he or she gets out of control.

domestic violence is never a domestic affair.

so, speak up and ask for help while you still have a chance, and don't wait until you exceed your limits to regret it.

on domestic violence, People's Daily has such a shocking set of data:

30% of married women in 270 million families across the country have experienced domestic violence;

on average, every 7.4 seconds, a woman is beaten by her husband;

on average, women are subjected to domestic violence 35 times before they make up their mind to call the police.

when you see this, maybe some people will get angry and blame them:

what doesn't divorce early? Why didn't you call the police earlier?

Yes, domestic violence is indeed unforgivable, but it is far more difficult for victims to get rid of domestic violence than we thought.

what many people do not know is that people who have suffered from domestic violence for a long time, in addition to physical pain, will also fall into a desperate and helpless emotional predicament.

there is a revelator on bilibili

hysteria, a short film about the truth.

oneThe drunken man came home and sat on his knees unconscious.

the two weak mice in the family, seeing the man's appearance, immediately stayed away from the man and hid in the next room.

"hysteria"

but even if he hid in a dark corner, he was finally found by a man.

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bilibili

"hysteria"

the man grabbed one of the mice and began to punch and kick.

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bilibili

"hysteria"

room, and the dubbing of this animation came from the author's real-life recording.

when you think about the domestic violence tragedies going on around us, you will find that the two mice in the animation are very much like the wife who was abused and the children who trembled while witnessing the domestic violence.

living in the shadow for a long time, their plight is not seen, and their screams and cries for help are hard to hear.

just like in real life, some people cry about their experiences after domestic violence, but the response is:

"Why are you the only one who gets beaten? how can others be all right?"

some people choose to ask others for help, but some parents and relatives either persuade to make peace, or with mud:

"there is no overnight feud between husband and wife, fighting at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed."

"for the sake of the children, put up with it and pass."

in the end, even if they were beaten black and blue, they could only swallow their grievances and suffer silently.

this is the real plight of women who are victims of domestic violence.

for them, it takes not only courage, but also the understanding of their relatives and social support to get out of domestic violence.

only when they feel protected can they stand bravely in the sun and open their scars with their own hands.

only when the whole society begins to support and help them, will they be able to get rid of domestic violence completely.

in 2016, the Anti-domestic violence Law was formally implemented in China.

this means that domestic violence is no longer just a domestic affair.

even under the cloak of "home", domestic violence is a crime that should be punished.

No one has the right to use violence to hurt another person, even if it is your intimate partner.

as an individual, if you encounter domestic violence, you must pay attention to collecting evidence.

it can be material evidence, such as the doctor's diagnosis certificate, medical fee receipt, the other party's letter of repentance.

can also be a witness.

after being subjected to domestic violence, tell your relatives and friends in time, show them your wounds and ask them to testify.

you can also apply to the court for a "life safety protection order" if necessary.

Today is the International Day of Anti-domestic violence. Uncle would like to share with you 8 misunderstandings about domestic violence.

each one is thought-provoking.

I hope that after watching it, everyone will face up to the harm of domestic violence and have zero tolerance for all domestic violence.

you should know that domestic violence is not just a family matter. Once domestic violence prevails, it will endanger everyone's safety.

opposing domestic violence is protecting not only ourselves, but also our loved ones.

, may every woman's voice be heard, may you and I not be the silent majority, and may there be no more tragedies of domestic violence in the world.