The premise of struggle is to live healthily.
some time ago, a piece of bad news made people feel heartache.
Fashion blogger Xiao Lisa died suddenly at the age of 33 after fighting cancer for a year.
in recent years, even though I have witnessed too many parting and death, after watching Xiao Lisa's experience, I still can't help but get my eyes wet.
the tall Xiao Lisa is born as a model. She has worked hard in the industry for many years and is also a little famous.
Xiao Lisa also often shares the happiness of herself and her family on social platforms.
but all the good things came to an abrupt end in February last year.
in an examination, she diagnosed malignant brain blastoma.
illness completely disrupted her life, but she finally adjusted and calmly faced her illness.
she spent her 32nd birthday in a hospital bed. although she was not feeling well, she carefully painted her eyebrows.
after making a wish, she wrote an anti-cancer diary online, recording every day of her struggle with the disease.
during the first craniotomy, she was very scared, but she bravely chose to trust the doctor, believe in herself, and keep cheering herself up.
in her movements, what we see most is the bright smile on her face.
on May 4, 2021, Xiao Lisa, who completed the operation, had good news that he had not seen for a long time.
she finally completed the first stage of treatment, and her condition gradually stabilized and she could go home for a while to recuperate.
the follow-up chemotherapy process is long and painful, but the words Xiao Lisa left to herself are all optimistic and encouraging.
she often shares photos with her family.
occasionally put on fashionable and beautiful clothes and take a group of beautiful photos.
sometimes with netizens, how should anti-cancer patients eat popular science.
Last October, she spent a simple but ceremonial birthday with her son, and the smiles on the faces of the family of three infected many people.
I thought everything would go in the right direction, but in May this year, Xiao Lisa felt unwell again.
, her condition worsened.
everyone is waiting for her recovery, but the miracle didn't happen after all.
on November 4, Xiao Lisa's husband, Yang Tao, issued an obituary announcing his wife's departure.
seeing her anti-cancer process, netizens left messages one after another: "Sorry to know you in this way."
Yes, 33 years old, should be the best age, she has a successful career, a happy family, a lovely son, a smooth future.
who would have thought that a disease suddenly destroyed all this.
the family did everything they could, but failed to save her life.
what is even more sad is the optimism and strength she has always shown.
even though she has experienced countless pains and sufferings, she has always sent the last beauty to the world with her enthusiasm and desire for life.
at the end of her life, Xiao Lisa said something very emotional:
"Fat and thin don't matter to me, as long as I'm healthy."
this is the feeling she got from wandering between life and death countless times.
Life and health are the things we are most accustomed to, but also the easiest to ignore, and the departure of Xiao Lisa has once again reminded everyone.
over the years, the tragedies of young people suffering from cancer and sudden death have been unfolding around us.
but there are still people who don't pay enough attention to their bodies.
Why?
in the final analysis, it is because of fluke.
you think you just stayed up late and made up for it later.
you think it doesn't matter if you just skip a meal.
but these hidden dangers will always lurk in our bodies, and once they accumulate to a certain extent, the consequences will be unimaginable.
some time ago, the sudden death of actor Chen Jianxiong once again confirmed this truth.
maybe you haven't heard the name, but you must have heard of his TV series "Foreign wife and Local Lang".
on that day, when it was time to start work, the crew suddenly couldn't reach him.
some people say that Chen Chien-hsiung left too suddenly, but in fact, it all bodes well for a long time.
his master once advised him to pay more attention to the development of crosstalk and not to work too hard on live streaming.
but his reply was that he wanted his family to have a better life.
when one is middle-aged, the youngest daughter has just reached the age of five, and there is too much room for money at home.
while he is busy with live broadcasting, he is also writing crosstalk, rehearsing and performing TV dramas.
he is like a perpetual motion machine, turning all the time.
but the body always has its limits. If you squeeze yourself to the extreme, you will inevitably be unable to hold up one day.
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it is a pity that the children have not yet grown up, but the adults have passed away.
it's so sad.
is it worth exchanging your life for money and finally losing your life completely?
writer Wu Hao once said:
"Life is actually a fixed amount of wealth deposited by God in everyone's account. No one knows how much it is, but every day."Are consuming it. Once you are overdrawn, you have no chance of repaying it. "
We always think that the future is long and death is far away, but we do not realize that life is more fragile than we can imagine.
it's right to work hard and to provide a better life for your family, but there must be a limit to everything.
tired, tired, uncomfortable, don't hold on, rest when it's time to rest, check when it's time to check.
the premise of struggle is to live healthily.
stay in the green mountains, not afraid of firewood, as long as there is nothing wrong with the body, we can always get closer to the life we want.
there is a saying on the Internet: "you can know how important health is once you get sick."
she is a famous workaholic in the company.
High-intensity work allowed her to diagnose stage IV gastric cancer at the age of 34.
her family did not hesitate to sell the house and treat her, and her savings for many years were used up in a short period of time.
but even after everything she had, she didn't get any better.
on her deathbed, she lay in her hospital bed and began to reflect on her life.
she finally realized the value of health, but there was no regret medicine in the world, and it was too late.
Last April, singer Zhao Yingjun, 43, died of liver cancer.
A suicide note left by him made countless people cry.
what pokes me most is this sentence:
"I can't give up. I love the world so much.
I haven't married the one I love, I haven't had a child, I haven't taken my parents to the beach to surf, I haven't gone to the Bird's Nest for a concert, I haven't become a film director, and I haven't seen the ending of the King of Thieves. "
too many regrets, too much reluctance, too much nostalgia, let people see incomparably bitter.
if there are no days when day and night are upside down;
if you don't have the habit of overdrawing your body;
Unfortunately, there is no if.
Shi Yuhe once said, "growth only happens when you are infinitely close to despair."
Disease and death are the most accurate education.
when you reach the tipping point of life and death, you will find that nothing is more important than being alive.
only when you are alive, can you have the opportunity to accompany your family, and only when you are alive, can you do what you want to do and see the people you want to see.
there is a piercing passage on the Internet:
"Don't show off your money. When you get to the hospital, it's worthless;
Don't show off your work. If you fall down, countless people will do better than you;
the only thing you can show off is your health. "
in modern fast-paced, stressful life, how many people forget that their greatest wealth is life and health.
Health is 1, money, power, fame and fortune is the next 0.
having health does not mean having everything, but losing health means losing everything.
Don't always discover your mistakes after a tragedy.
before it's too late, from today on, go to bed early and get up early, eat regularly and feel happy.
only by being in good health can we go further.
, I hope you can really rest assured about your health, please cherish yourself and love yourself.