the rumors of Zhang Jiani's marriage change are gradually fading, but there is one detail that deserves the attention of female friends.

the fact that the two have met in the minds of netizens is simply the existence of a real version of the idol drama in which the overbearing president falls in love with me.

if it is described in eight words: love at first sight, a promise.

but after the suspected incident of "infidelity", only Zhang Jiani responded immediately, but Buy Chao did not talk about it and said nothing.

when the two had not yet established a romantic relationship, Zhang Jiani rejected him with "I don't want to fall in love now."

he saw the move and staged the infatuated entanglement of "stubbornly tangled and beaten".

the touching obsession of proposing three times does not count, and after getting the license, he put out the famous cruel words-"We are not divorced, only widowed."

when he quarreled with Zhang Jiani, Buy Chao also said that he would lose his life if he didn't coax her for more than 20 minutes.

in terms of affectionate skills and flag Rumando, he can score 99 points without 100 points.

Ai Fukuhara and her ex-husband Jiang Hongjie once let netizens eat candy.

the two met when they played the game at the age of 10, but at that time they were still young and had a simple and simple relationship.

until the age of 26, when she was injured in playing ball, Jiang Hongjie encouraged her and flew to Tokyo to take care of her. The relationship between the two quickly warmed up.

later, as we all saw, Ai Fukuhara did not stingy to express his gratitude to Jiang Hongjie many times when he got married and had children.

"he supported me when I was hurt. He is definitely a very important person to me."

when Gao Tian is sweet, two people have to paste up when they cook, feed each other when they eat, and kiss when they pass by.

write a wish list with Ai Fukuhara. Jiang Hongjie wrote a romantic confession that "I hope you can kiss me 100 times a day."

also said: "I love you" is the easiest, pulling out your ears can think of being together until you are 100 years old.

"I want to continue to be your husband in the next life and the next life."

he prepares five more gifts for his wife's birthday. Like an obsessed fan brother, ask each other: "do you feel like falling in love with yourself again?"

Yu Xiaoguang's favorite wife is also famous.

and Qiuqian recorded a show after marriage, his love words made people get goose bumps, but Qiu porcelain hyun liked it very much.

in Strange Dreams in bed, he swore to his wife: "I will be an obedient husband like a son."

when Qiu Jianxuan warned him, "if you dare to have an affair with another woman."... " He immediately said, "if I die, you will die!"

the way he cried at the wedding was much worse than that of Qiuqian.

and Wang Leehom, put aside his subsequent dispute with Li Lianglei.

when the two were in love, Wang Leehom took the initiative to show his love at the concert more than once.

when he sang "Home is only by your side" in a concert, Wang Leehom blew kisses directly.

so how do people who are in love and even get along with each other in life avoid the pit as much as possible?

teacher Luo Xiang shared Dostoevsky's famous saying in a video:

"Love the concrete, not the abstract; love life itself, not the meaning of life."

after all, abstract people are mostly perfect in their construction based on inner expectations. Specific people, however, are full of uncertainties and flaws.

but teacher Luo Xiang's supplement is the finishing touch.

he said: "Real feelings must be invested in time."

this sentence is also a good support for the old rule of knowing people: don't look at what a person says, but what he does.

it is not that they are all bad, but that if they are "too good", they are worth "deliberating".

some women in love are originally excellent and bold, but they are easy to be "perfect" and bought by some men's "sugar-coated shells".

this kind of "unreasonable" is often accompanied by sweetness at first, and may end up hurting yourself seriously.

after all, the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment.

such as Buy Chao and Zhang Jiani.

how crazy can a man who dotes on his wife be nice to his wife in a good time?

Zhang Jiani moved, he "happened" to be nearby, and he "happened" to buy some daily necessities;

Zhang Jiani takes his parents on a trip to Hong Kong, and he "happens" to be in Hong Kong. He "happens" to go shopping, eat and drink with him, and act as a free guide and ground escort.

Zhang Jiani makes a scene. He can accompany him for as long as three months.

Buy Chao's concern for Zhang Jiani won him the title of "King of Asian vinegar" in the variety show "his wife's Romantic Journey".

Zhang Jiani was skiing at Changbai Mountain Station, and one of the eyes of the coach could make him nervous across the screen.

the coach's instinctive "I will protect you" out of duty was read by the overbought eyes as if he were provoking him.

Majestic and colorful, 10000 dollar wedding dress are absolutely indispensable. Perfect for formal functions or informal parties.

on the basketball court, he will directly let his wife ride on his head to "shoot accurately".

he changed his Weibo profile to "husband Zhang Jiani", and the presentation of Gao Tian sprinkled sugar remains the same today.

but these big halos actually cover up some small details.

for example, after proposing, he made a high-profile "declaration of love" on Weibo.

but now looking back, netizens have read out more "plug" messages:

height and age are enlarged in key positions, and their net height is shyly marked in parentheses at the end.

then, people can't help but want to pay attention to the fact that the woman is shorter than the man. Is the woman older than the man? If we didn't mention this information, maybe no one will remember it at all.

for example, in the variety show between the two, there was a show of her husband's cooking skills. Buy Chao was absolutely praised by his wife.

but when it comes to the division of labor at home, Buy Chao speaks bluntly in the program:

I have cooked western food for Zhang Jiani before, and the taste is also very good, but I hate cooking very much and seldom cook.

Why? Because if you are praised for being too good to cook, you will have to cook more often from now on.

in order to avoid such a situation, it is rare to cook in non-special cases.

these are not the most important. In fact, Zhang Jiani has been intentionally or unintentionally telling her husband to hold a rewedding in the program.

obviously, she cares about this "identity" being recognized.

Zhang Jiani has given birth to two sons since they received their license in 2015, and so far they have not waited for the wedding they aspire to.

Buy excess has been prevaricated by many uncertain factors, such as venue, wedding style, wedding planning and so on.

even Zhang Jiani revealed on the show that she asked them to buy a ring when they got married and didn't even buy a ring.

does not mean that there must be a fairy tale wedding, it is the choice of two people in the marriage.

for example, Wu Junru and Chen Kexin have lived together for 20 years without a license or a wedding.

but if one of the parties cares, as long as it is a legitimate request, it is a different matter.

look at what those people who really "show" love have done.

the painter Chagall, who is known as the last master of modernism, some people say that he lives and dies for love, and is "the spokesman of love in the art world".

because he has been painting all his life, the heroine in the painting is his wife Bella.

Chagall "bride"

Chagall "above the town"

remember the masterpiece Birthday, which was in the summer of 1915, when Bella went to celebrate his birthday with flowers when they were about to get married.

the delighted Chagall rose into the air in his painting and kissed Bella with an absolutely difficult gesture.

they used to have great disparities in status. Bella was the daughter of a Jewish jeweller, while Chagall was the son of an ordinary worker in the small town of Vitebsk.

the two broke through the barrier until Bella fell ill and died.

in order to express his yearning for Bella, Chagall silently painted countless paintings for Bella.

there is also the French philosopher Andre Goz and his famous History of Love to D.

at the age of 84, he wrote a love letter for his wife, Dorina, who was terminally ill and soon after she died, documenting the 58 years of calm they spent together.

then, I chose to go to another world with my wife.

it is a bit tragic, but the calm, rational and affectionate narration in the book moves many people.

Love is not strong only in high winds and showers. Love can also be renewed over a long period of time, sublimating to the extreme in its accessible and unadorned companionship.

after all, it still has to be down-to-earth and ordinary, with smoke and fire.

what are the most simple love words and touching love you have ever seen?