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someone has done such an experiment:

put two sheep in two environments.

one is scattered on the prairie and can move freely every day.

the other was tied to the stake and another wolf was tied to it, but the wolf could not bite the sheep.

after a period of time, the free-raised sheep is very strong, but the tied sheep is dead.

it was not eaten by wolves, but died of fear in the face of wolves every day.

in life, many people are like the chained sheep, always panicking and anxious.

when there are too many suspicions about ordinary things, they become nervous.

Laozi said, "returning to the root is quiet."

when you are alive, you can only return to the nature of life by keeping the word "quiet".

quiet is safe

A man was arrested, pretending to be deaf and dumb in his cell, dealing with his arresters.

the man was still as calm as water, didn't seem to understand this sentence at all, and finally saved his life.

in the long river of life, it is inevitable that there will be rapids and dangerous shoals.

Don't panic, don't be afraid to shrink, only then can the willow and the flower blossom.

Zhuge Liang beat Sima Yi with an empty city, which is the wisdom of "calmness".

Su Shi was repeatedly demoted, but looked down on the wind and rain life, this is "quiet" down calmly.

when you are quiet, you can make all kinds of movements. Calm down. Everything is under control.

if people can be calm, they will have a strength to help us take every step.

stillness is the foundation of a person's life.

there is a saying in the University: "quiet and then you can be safe, and then you can worry."

Life is impermanent. Only when you can calm down and deal with it calmly can you smooth out the ups and downs and get rid of the difficulties.

things go well when things are quiet

Weng Tonghe once wrote such a couplet: "there is stillness in every great event, but there is no ancient sage in the present."

people who are able to accomplish things are not without setbacks, but they are not flustered when things happen.

people who live thoroughly are not without troughs, but fall and get up quietly.

whenever Zeng Guofan is anxious, he will sit still. Even when it is a matter of life and death, he calms himself down before making a decision.

he said: "everything should be peaceful and gentle to deal with it. If you are in a hurry, you may make a mistake. Why is it wrong to build the world from being busy?" Therefore, following Rong and serenity is the first way to do things. "

when Zeng Guofan was young, he was frivolous and arrogant, which annoyed many court officials and made it difficult for him to move.

, he went home to reflect and polished himself by keeping a diary.

when he came out of the mountain again, he was promoted to ten grades in ten years.

after being promoted to the second grade, according to the system of the Qing Dynasty, the blue sedan chair should be replaced by a green eight-lift sedan chair.

Zeng Guofan still rode in the previous blue sedan chair, in front of which there was neither a guide nor a person to support it.

it is Zeng Guofan's life that constantly dispels impetuosity and strives for progress in stability, thus achieving the praise of his generation of great scholars.

the ancients said, "Don't be afraid that the clouds cover your eyes, and you are at the highest level."

the higher the level, the more content they are with simplicity, not being imprisoned by vanity, and going far in a down-to-earth manner.

peace of mind wins

have seen such a story:

A king summoned excellent painters from all over the country to see who could draw the most tranquil picture.

finally, two of the shortlisted paintings are selected, evaluated and rewarded.

the first picture shows a calm lake, the surface of which is like a mirror, reflecting mountains and dotted with catkins.

the second picture shows a rugged mountain with heavy rain and waterfalls at the foot of the mountain.

take a closer look, there is a small clump of trees behind the waterfall, on which there is a nest, in which the female sits.

the king watched and chose the latter.

Zeng Guofan said: "the heart can be quiet, although there are thousands of changes and there is nothing wrong." Be still in your heart, but not in your country. "

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the world is full of mud and sand, but as long as you have peace of mind, the outside world is silent.

meditation is the first step in self-cultivation, and the road is as wide as the mind is.