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there is a saying in the Huayan Sutra: "all newspapers begin with karma. All the consequences start from the cause. "

there are thousands of people in the world, the cycle of cause and effect, and everything has a fixed number of things.

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sow a good cause, get a good result; sow an evil cause, get a bad result.

the same is true between husband and wife. What cause is planted, what fruit is reaped.

sow the cause of trust and reap solid results

Trust is the foundation of all relationships. Without trust, any relationship is hard to last.

the most intimate relationship in the world is husband and wife.

between husband and wife, the more trust they have, the more secure they are.

if life is full of suspicion and doubt, people will only become cautious and treading on thin ice.

suspicion caused by mistrust, estrangement and quarrel caused by suspicion,

not only slowly consumes each other's feelings, but also makes life more and more tiring.

husband and wife use sincerity and sincerity in exchange for mutual trust.

I don't have to rack my brains to snoop on your phone, and you are generous and undisguised;

I don't have to be paranoid about each other's relationship, and you will give me the sense of security in my relationship.

sow the cause of understanding and reap the result of understanding

Zhu Xi said, "measure the heart of others with your own heart

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the most important thing between people is to compare their hearts with each other in order to understand and understand each other.

Tagore once said: "Love is an alias for understanding and thoughtfulness

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when two independent individuals combine to form a family, there will inevitably be all kinds of differences in life.

when differences arise, understanding each other is far more important than who loses and who wins.

misunderstandings and quarrels occur in life, often paying attention to the pleasure of the tongue for a moment, rather than thinking of others.

the best way is to try to understand each other's situation, their mood, and each other's way of thinking.

once we understand and understand each other, many problems will be easily solved.

only by planting the cause of understanding can you reap the fruit of mutual understanding in life.

sow the cause of tolerance and reap the fruit of harmony

"Fu Lei's Letters" says: "the requirements for life partners should not be as harsh as the requirements for everything in life."

when two people in love are passionately in love, their eyes will be full of each other's strengths while ignoring each other's weaknesses.

but gold is not perfect, and no one is perfect. Ignoring it does not mean it does not exist.

everyone has their strengths and weaknesses. When you love one person's strengths, you should also have the heart to tolerate each other's weaknesses.

tolerate each other's small temper, tolerate each other's bad habits, rather than quarrel and accusation.

when life is settled on firewood, rice, oil and salt, more small and trivial things begin, and day after day, both sides will slowly show their truest selves.

differences in habits, tastes, and even people's views on things, can not be completely the same.

accept each other's differences, accept each other's differences, husband and wife, tolerate each other, gradually run in.

only by planting the cause of tolerance can we reap the fruits of family warmth and harmony.

sow the cause of your peers and harvest the accompanying results

Marriage is run by two people, not by only one person.

Gorky once said:

"Marriage is the combination of two people's spirits, and the purpose is to overcome all the difficulties and hardships of the world together.

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as the saying goes, husband and wife are of one mind, and their benefits cut off gold.

on the long road of marriage, only when two people help each other and move forward together, can they achieve a better future.

in a marriage, if only one person is working hard and the other person enjoys and takes for granted, then the one-man show will not last long.

if only one of the husband and wife works hard and positive, while the other person stands still and does not want to make progress, then they will gradually distance themselves from each other.

"Zengguang Xianwen" said: "one day husband and wife, forever marriage." A hundred generations come to the same ferry, and a thousand generations come to sleep together

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A husband and wife can reap sweet fruits only if they gather together because of fate and plant good causes.

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