there is a saying:

"language is a little pale when it expresses love, but when it hurts, it is sharper than a knife."

feel the same way.

language can warm or hurt people, especially in intimate relationships.

whether husband and wife or lovers, master the way of speaking and discretion in order to grasp the way of happiness.

everything is discussed and discussed, the marriage is stable and long; we know how to praise each other, the feelings are harmonious and happy; we never get tired of chatting every day, and we are affectionate and indefatigable to each other.

to love someone, start by talking well.

discuss everything

is the glue for stable marriage

Zhou Guoping said:

"when people reach middle age, some people make their marriage a good life." Some people, however, turn marriage into a terrible hell. "

most of the reasons are communication problems between husband and wife.

make decisions without consultation. Without respect and understanding, life will be tense.

in the TV series "Heart residence", the marriage of Xiaoqin and Gu Lei led to a tragedy.

Xiaoqin wanted to buy a house in Shanghai, but without consulting Gu Lei, she borrowed money from her father-in-law and aunt. After being rejected, she loudly accused Gu Lei of being unable to help and was secretly anxious.

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Gu Lei didn't want to go to the finance and accounting class, so he didn't explain to Xiaoqin that he skipped classes and abandoned exams to resist. Every time he encountered a problem, he didn't tell her that he only hid in the house for a small meeting with his father and sister.

Xiaoqin feels that Gu Lei treats her as an outsider. Gu Lei complains that Xiaoqin controls too much, and there are contradictions between them. In a fierce quarrel, Gu Lei rolls down the stairs and dies unexpectedly.

A good relationship is never about going it alone, but about discussing everything and connecting with each other.

when a family lives, there will always be things of one kind or another that need to be faced and solved together, calm down, listen more to each other's views, think more about each other's positions, discuss more, the feelings will be warmer, more respect, and the marriage will be stable.

talking well is the most powerful sail that will sail the ship of marriage to the other side of happiness.

praise frequently

is the catalyst of emotional harmony

psychologist William James said: "the deepest human need is to feel appreciated."

for men, the encouragement and praise of their loved ones can relieve the fatigue of all the heavy burdens of life, make people full of strength and feel happy.

the highest level of romance between intimate lovers is undoubtedly knowing how to praise.

I remember that in the Life of yearning, Huang Lei could not hide his love when he looked at Sun Li. Even when he chopped a chili, Huang Lei spoiled and praised her: "Sister Li, you are so capable!"

while Sun Li looked at Huang Lei's skilled cooking, her eyes were also full of admiration, full of praise for every dish he cooked, and ate with satisfaction.

husband and wife are in love for a long time than recognition.

know how to appreciate each other's advantages and praise each other at the right time, which is also the secret of Huang Lei and Sun Li's sweet relationship for more than 20 years.

good feelings are all boasted, and smart partners all know how to put their expectations in every compliment, so that the other party is comfortable and willing to pay.

in the long run, you will find that she who is recognized is getting softer and softer, and he who is recognized is getting better and better, and the two hearts are getting closer and closer in mutual praise.

when you don't hesitate to praise, your life will be full of joy; if you know how to appreciate it, your feelings will naturally be affectionate.

never get tired of chatting

is a preservative for harmonious life

like a sentence written by Liu Tong very much:

"A comfortable relationship is that the other person can talk about any topic, not because the other person is knowledgeable, but because the other person is extremely interested."

he listens to the trifles in life, the troubles at work, and what you see and hear in your daily life.

two people are very relaxed together, not tired of getting along, never tired of chatting, bringing peace of mind and warmth to each other, which is the most harmonious happiness in fireworks life.

I have a friend whose love comes from chatting while shaking Wechat.

at first, he just wanted to find a netizen to chat occasionally, but accidentally met her who had similar interests. Every time the chatterbox was opened, it was unstoppable, and the chat records were full.

after marriage, they keep the habit of chatting at any time, sharing the trivial things in their lives, from three meals a day to weather changes, from songs and movies they have heard, to things that have happened to people they have seen.

the two of them are not bored or bored and enjoy it.

you can speak freely in front of your lover, which is the most comfortable way to get along with each other in life.

if you really love someone, you will take the trouble to share it with you, and you will respond to me tirelessly. In the interaction of every word, the feelings will flow forever, and the years will give rise to incense.

Love should make people feel warm, not sad.

A happy marriage, sweet love and a happy life all need to be managed, and the effective way of doing business is to talk well.

the rest of my life is long. May you and I both be talkers, keep company with our hearts, walk with love, keep warm words, and live up to our feelings.