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We often say that everyone has his own destiny.

its real life and luck are two completely different words.

in the four trainings of Leafan, it was said: "Life stands on its own, and happiness seeks itself."

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A man's luck depends on God's reward.

but a man's life is repaired by himself.

the so-called "changing your life against heaven" is just the result of your self-study.

change your life by reading

during the Jiaqing period of the Qing Dynasty, there was a couplet in Yao Wentian's study:

"the old home in the world for hundreds of years is nothing more than accumulating virtue, and the first good thing in the world is still reading."

since ancient times, "reading" has been an enduring topic.

because for most ordinary people, reading is the best way to change fate.

Fan Zhongyan, a writer of the Northern Song Dynasty, came from a poor family and lost his father at the age of two. His mother took him to remarry and changed his surname to his stepfather's "Zhu" surname.

when he grew up, he vowed to stand on his own feet by reading books.

in order to fight against his fate, Fan Zhongyan went to the cold window of the academy to study hard. He woke up with cold water when he was tired, ate gruel when he was hungry, and slept on his pillow without taking off his clothes for five years.

Fan Zhongyan finally won fame at the age of 26. Later, he not only changed his surname "Fan" back, realized his life ideal and ambition, but also gave his mother a good life in his twilight years.

the thickness of the books under one's feet is the height of his later life.

when you stand at the bottom of fate, reading is the ladder of heaven, which allows people to climb up.

the best way to break down class barriers is to read books.

the reality is that everyone comes from different backgrounds. Some people are born with a golden key, while others come with outstanding debts.

but a person's life can be changed by reading.

every book you read, every kind of wisdom you master, becomes a life-changing card and capital.

accumulate virtue and cultivate one's life

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there is an old saying: "there is no end to the ploughing of good land in the heart, and the use of good deeds is endless."

many times, a person's unintentional good deeds will reap unexpected rewards.

during the Spring and Autumn period, Zhao Xuanzi, a doctor of Jin Guoqing, saw someone lying under a mulberry tree because of hunger, so he kindly gave him some food.

the man refused to eat after thanking him.

Zhao Xuanzi asked strangely, "Why don't you eat?"

the man replied, I'm going to save it for my hungry old mother at home.

Zhao Xuanzi was moved by the man's filial piety and gave him more food and money.

two years later, Jin Linggong sent a group of assassins to kill Zhao Xuanzi. An assassin arrived first and immediately recognized Zhao Xuanzi, so he not only let him go, but also covered him to get away.

only later did Zhao Xuanzi learn that the assassin was the hungry man he had saved under the mulberry tree.

there is a saying in Historical Records: "he who is good will be blessed by heaven."

when you stand on the cusp of fate, the goodwill that has been sown may be your lifesaver.

those who love will return, and your kindness and kindness will eventually come back to you.

there is a story in the General words of warning the World.

A couple has a child named Xier. When he was three or four years old, he was abducted by human traffickers.

because he is the only child in the family, the two are reluctant to give up, so they embark on the road of finding their son.

one day, I found a parcel on the road with 220 silver in it.

although they were short of money, they were unwilling to make unexpected gains, so they waited in place.

it was not until it was dark that the host came to find it. The host was grateful and invited them home as a guest.

while talking, the host learned that his only son had been abducted. The Lord had mercy in his heart and gave him one of his little friends as a son to raise.

who knew that the boy was precisely the lost child of the couple, and later Xi'er married the master's daughter.

there is a saying in "coming back from a reverse Journey": "only those who are kind and willing to be as kind as possible will get true happiness."

you can't avoid a bad disaster, but you can accumulate a good virtue.

because the blessings and misfortunes of this world can be transformed in goodwill.

when you hold an umbrella for others, you also shield yourself from the wind.

A bridge you build for others will also become a road for yourself.

every bit of kindness you give to others may bring about a new twist of fate.

mindfulness turns to life

Psychology professor David Hawkins said:

"A positive energy person, his magnetic field will drive everything to become orderly and beautiful."

in life, you will see what you believe.

your destiny is not arranged, but chosen by yourself.

once upon a time, two scholars agreed to go to Beijing to take the exam together.

on the way, they saw someone carrying a coffin for the funeral.

A scholar thought lowly, "Why is it so unlucky that something bad happens when you go out?"

so he couldn't keep up his spirits when he got to the examination room, and finally failed the exam.

another scholar thought happily, "coffins, coffins, are for promotion and wealth, which seems to be a good sign."

so he gained confidence in the exam and finally passed the exam as he wished.

"positive"There is a saying in the Power of emotion: "there are two sides to everything. As long as you don't think of the bad, most people can go for the better."

A person will have a positive life only if he or she has positive thoughts.

sometimes when you change your mind, everything changes. Sometimes if you have the same mind, you know everything.

there were two young people, both of whom had a bad life, so they went to visit a Zen master.

they asked, "Master, we have been bullied in the office, so should we quit our jobs?"

the Zen master said only five words: "but a bowl of rice."

after hearing this, the two young people had completely different ideas.

A person thinks, but a bowl of rice, why not break out a new world on his own, so he quit his job and went home to farm.

another person thought that there was no need to care too much about a bowl of rice, so he stayed in the company.

those who go home to farm have become agricultural experts in modern ways; those who remain have worked hard to improve their ability to become managers of the company.

although the final choices of the two people are different, they both make a good change in fate because of mindfulness.

psychologist McKee wrote in "terrible delusions": "what a person believes, his future life will be close to."

most of the time, your mind is a carriage, it will pull you to where you want to go.

when your mindset turns for the better, your life will take a turn for the better.

the more difficult it is to think about it, the more difficult the future will be.

one's mentality is the central axis of the wheel of fate.

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there is a saying in Shangshu: "Heaven is difficult, but fate is common."

there are many moments when our destiny is not fixed.

because fate and luck are two ropes.

one is in God's hand, and the other is in his own.

maybe you don't know where the wind will blow, but you can decide where to go.

, don't give up the opportunity and possibility to change yourself at any time.