The greatest absurdity of a person is to be entangled with bad people and bad things.
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A daughter is easy to get, but the heart is hard to fathom.
A person's appearance of friendliness can often confuse people at first impressions.
some people have good faces and sweet mouths, but their hearts are as black as tigers.
they walk the world face to face and behind their backs, and they should keep their eyes open and know people.
people with bad intentions often have these three characteristics in what they say.
hide a knife in a smile
selfish people put their feelings behind them and betray anyone for the sake of profit.
during the Spring and Autumn period, there was a man named Yi Ya, who was extremely good at cooking. When he learned that Duke Huan of Qi loved delicious food, he spared no effort to please and even killed his son.
when Duke Huan of Qi found out, he felt that Yiya was really loyal to him and was even more kind to him.
but Duke Huan of Qi never thought that this man who could even kill his own flesh and blood would starve himself to death in the future.
this kind of person is meek in appearance, flattering in speech, and likes to whitewash his words and deeds, but he is very deep inside.
when such people get close to you and flatter you, you should be vigilant, because they will extract your usefulness and betray you without hesitation.
such a person, it is best to stay away.
ingratitude
as the saying goes, "Sheng Mien, bear Mi feud."
there is a kind of person who has helped him ninety-nine times, but he doesn't remember that he didn't help him or did a good job for the 100th time, and he held a grudge against you.
there is a passage in "settling down":
Mr. Gong's company wants to sell the old house handed down from his ancestors because he is in urgent need of cash flow.
it never occurred to me that Mr. Gong's cousin came over with her family, stuck around and said:
"they have lived in this house before, so they also have a share. If they want to sell it, they can get a 50 million moving fee!"
it turns out that this cousin is a distant relative. When her husband died, Mr. Gong's great grandfather kindly took in their mother and son and provided for her son to go to school.
as everyone knows, this family not only does not know how to be grateful, but also makes a fight, and Mr. Gong's company is on the verge of going bankrupt.
this is the typical "small kindness nourishes the noble, great kindness nourishes the enemy". If you send charcoal in the snow, I will make you look good; if you save me from danger, I will make you feel cold.
"the vast sea of people, wolves on both sides; thousands of worlds, poisonous snakes hide. A warm snake feeds an unfamiliar wolf; if you polish your eyes, you have to guard against it. "
your kindness needs the edge of reason.
lest the truth and money be wasted on ungrateful relatives, but get chilling results.
false meaning of benevolence
A true friend or a fake friend is clear when you look at your actions.
time knows people, but it is difficult to know them.
when you are in trouble, people who show up in time are really friends and really care about them.
in times of crisis, the person who sees you hiding will add an irrelevant sarcastic remark afterwards: "I told you so" and "I knew it would be like this", showing the true nature of hypocrisy.
Zhang ailing once had a good friend Yan Ying. Originally, the two had a good relationship, but Yan Ying was a little bad. She always showed off her goodness when Zhang ailing was down.
for example, after Zhang ailing went abroad, she was in financial difficulties, but Yan Ying often boasted about how she made money.
Zhang ailing has been a widow for many years, but Yan Ying talks about her sweet love with her husband.
until Zhang ailing couldn't stand it any longer, she simply broke off relations with her. Never said a word to death.
people always need some sharpening, ups and downs to know who is really by their side.
in times of prosperity, they seem to have many friends, but they are all fair-weather friends. Once in trouble, these people are scattered as birds and beasts.
when you Shi Lai Yun Zhun (Lucky Dumplings), fair-weather friends will come again and blame you for not contacting them.
what the storm can blow away is grass on the wall, and only those who stay around all the time are true friends.
people who are far away from the eyes of influence should at least make their lives less smoky and more human and conscientious.
Nobody wants to live by a smelly gutter. The greatest absurdity of a person is to be entangled with bad people and bad things.
to see a person clearly is to make a complete separation from those who are not worth it.
the rest of life is not long, stay away from hypocritical people, walk with positive and sincere people, let the heart live in the sun, bask in the sunshine of happiness and self-confidence.
spend every inch of good time on good things.
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