Please cherish every beam of light in your life, take yourself more seriously and take life more seriously.
I believe that recently, many people's tears have been given to a man named Chen Nanxing.
in popular TV dramas, she is Liu Yifei's best friend.
Xu Hongdou, played by Liu Yifei, is a worker trying to "take root" in a big city, like most of us.
she sacrificed her life again and again for promotion.
I go out early every day just to avoid the morning rush.
I am very concerned about my customers, but I am so busy that I forget my father's birthday. I have to send a video message to my eldest sister before I suddenly remember it.
when her best friend came to see her, she found that all the food in the refrigerator was out of date, and half a year was a flash in Xu Hongdou's eyes.
sometimes she would wonder, what on earth is the reason for being so tired?
she goes out early every day and goes to bed when she gets home from work. She hasn't even looked at the scenery on her way to work.
she also wanted to slow down, but she didn't dare.
because in this reinforced concrete city, as long as you stop, you will be surpassed or even eliminated.
so the best friend suggested that you should not think about such a long-term thing and focus on the present:
"take your annual leave first and go to Yunnan together."
as a result, Xu Hongdou said, not this year, because I have to be busy with the promotion.
her best friend complains that she has endless work to do. She has stood herself up for 3 years.
Xu Hongdou promises:
"I will go with you next year."
We always think we have a lot to come, but you can never guess which comes first, tomorrow or accident.
Happiness is the ultimate goal of all human behavior
everything we do about it is actually a means
during a general physical examination, a best friend was found to have advanced pancreatic cancer.
the diagnostic report was like a bolt from the blue, shattering their vision for the future.
Xu Hongdou came home and couldn't eat. She sat at the table and burst into tears.
because of her serious condition, her best friend can only receive conservative treatment.
in the following days, the hospital became Xu Hongdou's second home.
as soon as she gets off work, she rushes to the hospital to look after her best friend.
in order not to upset Xu Hongdou, Chen Nanxing, who is sick, often pretends to be calm.
but the more relaxed you pretend, the more distressing it will be.
Xu Hongdou received the bad news while she was working.
she clung to the photo of her best friend and sent her for the last trip.
after the funeral, Xu Hongdou began to work in vengeance, wanting to numb herself, and finally fainted to the hospital because of overwork.
that night, she clicked on the voice message left to her by Chen Nanxing, and the "last words" one after another finally made Xu Hongdou unable to hold back:
"Red bean, if any, in front of
I really don't know how to say your noodles.
so I'm sorry, I have to tell you in this way, there's no way to give you a chance to reply to me.
I think when I'm gone, my parents will be the most pitiful.
give them a call and say hello to them during the holidays.
just the phone, nothing else.
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because this old couple won't have any trouble in their whole life, so if you make a phone call, they will be very happy. "
"Don't be sad for too long after I leave. A proper cry will suffice.
have fun early, enjoy it early.
now, I want to see the world before I have time to see it, so you can only see it for me.
I wanted to eat, drink and play, but before it was too late, you were left to eat, drink and play for me. "
"but I'm telling you, be sure to look at the expiration date before you eat.
Don't remember when you throw anything into the fridge.
you should eat well, sleep well and live a good life.
you must be happy.
also need to go out more, open up with people and make more friends.
after all, someone has to take my place. "
regret is everywhere in the last words.
Chen Nanxing regretted not having fun in time and confessing her love to the boy she loved earlier, precisely because she had suffered too much in her life, so she hoped that Xu Hongdou would see more of this beautiful world for her.
people always know to cherish it when they lose it, but they don't realize that it is too late.
just like Xu Hongdou finally handed in her resignation and went to Yunnan to see the scenery Chen Nanxing wanted to see, but there will be no more Chen Nanxing on her journey.
have seen a variety show about medicine before.
you can see all kinds of life and even the cruelest aspects of life.
when a patient was sent over, his wife said:
"fell on an electric bike."
No one thought there was a big bang behind these eight words.
in the emergency room, the doctor pressed many parts of the patient's body, but the patient was unconscious.
although he didn't want to believe it, the doctor made a preliminary judgment: high paraplegia.
later, after further examination, the doctor sighed and said:
this is the worst injury mechanism in the world.
the mind is clear, but people can't move.
go to the internBefore talking to the family, the attending doctor especially emphasized:
"even if the patient is operated on, his neurological function will never recover."
I thought it was sad enough, but who would have thought that what was sadder than sadness was that the wife was still pregnant.
and when the couple got married, the woman's family did not agree, and her father-in-law had passed away, so now there is no one who can help them.
just after the time stood still for a few seconds, the wife said weakly:
"otherwise, I'll get rid of the baby."
program, a director once said:
"A person is not only an independent individual, he is also a part of the family."
if something goes wrong, the whole family falls apart and falls apart completely.
now, I see what "disintegration" is in this woman.
Children, originally a gift from heaven, have now become an "encumbrance" of life.
it is said that a mother is tough, but now a mother's strength is used to "give up her child."
how painful it should be.
there is a girl named Wang Silong in the World.
when she was only 14 years old, she got bone cancer.
when asked whether she wanted the leg or the life, she answered firmly: want the leg.
this answer shocked many people, because in our view, living means hope.
some people even blame her for being ignorant.
even though many people came to persuade her that the risk of leg salvage surgery was high, after facing many problems such as postoperative infection and neural connection, she still stubbornly insisted on her choice.
to tell you the truth, I can't blame her for looking at her bright eyes.
is clearly a young girl, obviously the most naive and capricious age, obviously the most brilliant life has just begun.
how do you want her to accept losing a leg and not even seeing tomorrow?
at the last minute of entering the operating room, Wang Silong shook her mother's hand and said:
"Mom, you can't cry secretly when I go in. If I find out, you have to buy me a snack."
her mother cried and so did I.
I used to think that the words "safe and healthy" were too obstinate, but now I think this is the best blessing.
in the first episode of the World, after many rescues, 24-year-old Zou Lei died of seafood poisoning.
Che, deputy chief physician of the Emergency Department of Ruijin Hospital, could not hide his loss and helplessness.
"often the one who gives the most affection is …... We still hope that young people have more chances to survive, but sometimes you don't have a choice. "
when watching programs, I often suddenly cover the TV screen.
because I dare not look at the doctor's inability to face the loss of life on his hands.
what's more, I dare not look at the desperate family members outside the ward.
but there are some things that won't happen if you don't want to.
when you face life and death, you will find that everyone's desire for life is so strong.
looking at the people who gritted their teeth and tried to live, they made themselves realize how precious the trivial routine is.
now you may be going through a low ebb, maybe your life is not satisfactory, or maybe you are trying to give up.
but look up, there are too many people in life who are more difficult than you, at least you have a healthy body, you have a life of food and clothing, and you have unlimited possibilities and hopes.
so, please cherish every beam of light in your life, take yourself more seriously and take life more seriously.
because every breath of fresh air you breathe can be a great luxury for others.
there is a sentence in my favorite novel:
"Life does not seek great merit, peace and prosperity. I wish you a successful retirement and a long life."
now I send this blessing to you. I hope everyone can live well.
because living is the greatest luxury.
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