the tail of November, Liu Ruoying, who has been silent for a long time, held two consecutive Flight Day concerts in London, England and Paris, France.

however, some netizens can't help complaining that Liu Ruoying is not in good condition when they see the pictures and videos captured by fans on the spot.

the fluorescent green breast skirt is thought by some people to have round shoulders and fat figure.

the blue dress also shows a sense of age.

others question that her singing is not as good as it used to be: when singing "Cheng Quan", the best part was out of tune and broken.

in fact, when singing "meet", Milk Tea also found that she suddenly sang the wrong words and paused for a few seconds, and it was the fans who helped her pick up the words.

but as one netizen said, people really don't listen to her singing, and they don't care whether she sings well or not, what is out of tune, broken tone, it doesn't matter, what we are listening to is the lost youth and feelings.

in fact, Liu Ruoying made no less efforts to prepare for the concert.

in order to show her fans at her best, she didn't care about jet lag. As soon as the plane landed, she began to prepare and adjust herself in the hotel.

Liu Ruoying in 1969 is actually 53 years old this year.

she, who usually doesn't like makeup and has no idol baggage, has long been used to making up without makeup.

it is not terrible to grow old naturally.

the "makeup" of Liu Ruoying's son

if you pay a little attention to her Weibo, you will find that she is a careless person. Sometimes just after playing football with my son, I am in high spirits, and I can also record a piece of music and share it with my guitar.

I took care of my son for some time. I got up at 04:30 every morning and fell asleep at 08:30 when I was tired.

netizens said that her grandparents were ashamed of herself.

she also jokes that children who are busy during the day have no time to chat with friends, sleep early at night, can't chat with friends, and have no friends to chat with themselves early in the morning.

the reason why there is little tension these years has a lot to do with her character.

in an interview published a few years ago, Liu Ruoying talked about the difference between herself and her own sister Liu Ruoyu.

the same parents look alike, but their personalities are completely opposite.

A photo of Liu Ruoying with her sister at the age of 13

Liu Ruoying followed her father's humor, romance and easygoing, while Liu Ruoyu followed her mother, who is addicted to cleanliness and pursues perfection in everything.

Liu Ruoying said that her sister is the kind of ruthless person who obviously has only 80 points, but will try her best to achieve 100 points in order not to let others down. Of course, it is also very hard.

but Liu Ruoying is not.

she is the one who can do 80 points, but will tell the other person that she can only do 60 points.

she will not allow the pressure to drive herself to a dead end, and this management method of lowering expectations allows her to excel.

if you think about it, the other party only thought you could achieve 60 points, but if you did 70 points, you would have made the other person feel that you had earned it.

if you accidentally achieve 80 points, the other person simply thinks he is great!

Liu Ruoying also reflected on herself: is this mode of operation very selfish?

but her years of life and work experience have taught her that if you don't give your life an easy score, it will be easier to live your life.

she also does not approve of women sacrificing themselves for intimacy and parenting, nor does she think that people should overestimate their ability to bear it.

even if unconditional love is great, it is easy to get out of balance. Because this kind of giving is inevitably accompanied by the additional conditions and demands on others in the subconscious.

as Liu Ruoying said, "there is no unconditional love in this world."

Liu Ruoying's growing environment is not perfect.

although grandfather Liu Yongyao was an officer and could be gentle and good at martial arts, both grandparents and their parents experienced the episode of divorce and remarriage.

when Liu Ruoying was 2 years old, her bickering parents finally divorced. Her father, Liu Weiwen, only took his 10-year-old eldest daughter Ruoyu to live together and later remarried.

Liu Ruoying was directly sent by her family to live with her distant relatives. She was very unpopular and was even beaten and scolded from time to time.

above: Liu Ruoying and her grandmother in childhood

below: Liu Ruoying and her grandfather

although they remarried, their grandparents got along very well. They tried their best to make up for the lack of love in her childhood and made her the "little ancestor" of the whole family.

but this is not doting. Military families have their own rules and tutoring.

for example, it is not allowed to walk around in pajamas or throw things at home at night, and grandparents never quarrel and respect each other at home.

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Liu Ruoying learned the piano at the age of 7. She didn't like it, so she complained to her grandmother, what's the use of learning the piano?

as a result, her grandmother's words are still fresh in her memory. She said:

"if one day you have to rely on yourself, then at least you can support yourself through this specialty."

in "A date with Luyu", she once told that she had just gone to a foreign country to study, and her grandparents only paid tuition fees, so she had to work on her own to earn living expenses. She was a stranger and had no one to talk to. She had been crying until she threw up for the first two weeks.

then I called my grandmother and said I couldn't stand it and wanted to go home.

as a result, her grandmother answered the phone to comfort her at first, but then her grandfather directly reprimanded her, "Don't come back if you can't finish reading."

when she returned to China, she wanted to gain a foothold in the music industry, but she once ran into a brick wall and had nothing to do. Later, when she first started her career, she was destitute because she chose films and didn't want to refuse anyone.

Chen Wenxi once revealed on the program that Liu Ruoying once could not pay the rent and lived on loans for a living.

but having persisted for so many years, it also gave her freedom and openness.

Liu Ruoying didn't find her partner until she was middle-aged.

she got married after falling in love with her husband for half a year, and many fans were worried about her. "shared" marriages, which often sleep in separate beds, make people even more suspicious of their relationship.

Liu Ruoying also publicly mentioned that she and her husband would go out to see movies together, but would choose different cinemas and films.

she has been married for 11 years, knowing that she and her husband have already formed a tacit understanding.

the two people's daily life does not disturb each other, let alone show love, but they will not forget to celebrate important anniversaries in a low profile, or even have an impromptu interaction with netizens.

you know, most of the photos and videos of her and her son are written by her husband Zhong Xiaojiang.

go around, what kind of people have never seen before? Love is no longer love at first sight and vows of love at first sight, but a kind of "comfort and relaxation".

as she said, no one wants to be with unhappy people.

when two people fall in love with each other, they need sparks at first, but after they are really together, they need a lot of dialogue. This relationship requires a relative elastic space.

because taking care of an egg is very similar to dealing with the relationship between people, you can't hold it too hard, or it will break. Don't ignore it too much, or it will be broken by accident.

only those who can take good care of an egg can handle a relationship well.

she has shared her daily life with her husband in the book.

when her son was about to give birth, she had not yet found a babysitter. As a result, anxiety led to a lot of wishful thinking, and she could not help telling her husband that she was "melancholy".

as a result, her husband stood at the door of the study and did not continue to ask her why she was melancholy. Instead, he calmly said, "can you help me cook lunch first?"

Liu Ruoying turned to cook in the kitchen, and the negative mood dissipated.

then she learned: if you ask melancholy to discuss, you may not necessarily find an outlet. Instead, you might as well change your mind and do something to bring yourself out of the emotional circle.

in the Weibo of milk tea, the state of work and life now switch freely.

when she is closed, she learns to cook at home.

does not rush the rhythm of the work, but the finished product is often amazing.

this kind of slow worker's habit of doing fine work has actually been formed since her debut.

more than 20 years ago, she was used to spending 2-3 years on a song. Because you have to live, fall in love and experience in order to sing your own empathy.

over the years, she was actually afraid of getting old, but she said bluntly in the interview that she was more afraid of becoming weird.

in the past, when I was young, I ate and drank a lot for a week. If I really wanted to lose weight for three days, I could recover from dieting. Now, even if I dare not relax and insist on losing weight for a month, as a result, my weight will soar again after eating for three days.

but so what? People always have to face the natural changes of life, not to mention that some people tend to be thin and fat, the most important thing is to maintain vitality and enthusiasm and curiosity for all things.

since her debut, Liu Ruoying has always had the nature of a ghost horse

it is a living way to keep the pace of business at 62, as Hui Yinghong did.

Liu Ruoying, a Buddhist sect that is at peace with the rest of the world, is also a living method.

people do not need to compare, the heart is not old, there is light in the eyes, there is a look, there is time can not take away the confidence and confidence.

I hope that when we reach this age, we can also have the self-harmony of body and mind and the freedom of soul. It would be better if we could practice earlier and "get the Tao".

what kind of lifestyle do you like?

the book is released by authorization on Monday.