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there is a saying:

"ships are safe in the harbor, but that is not the purpose of shipbuilding."

only when the ship reaches the other shore safely through the rough waves can it show its strength and stability.

this is like a man who relies on his own strength to gain a firm foothold and overcome difficulties.

timely help from others is good, but it won't always respond to every request.

as the saying goes:

"people who planted trees in the past will reap them, but later generations will reap them with joy, and there will be people in the future."

there is no permanent sanctuary in the world. Only by constantly enriching yourself, improving your talents, and having the bargaining chips to solve problems, can you build your own safe haven.

the really strong people never pin their hopes on others easily, but they have cocoons in their hands and arrows in their hearts and move forward bravely.

count on others, get wet yourself

in the film and TV drama "Menghualu", Song Yinzhang grew up in the home of musicians and was "the first pipa player in the south of the Yangtze River".

but she dislikes her identity and doesn't want to play a musical instrument in the teaching workshop all her life. She just wants to find a beloved to help her get rid of her cheap status.

when he met "Playboy" Zhou she, Song Yinzhang decided his life only with a few sweet words from the other party.

however, after getting married, instead of getting out of the cheap family as desired, he was subjected to domestic violence and exploitation.

as long as resistance is a punch and kick, all wealth is taken away by the husband, and there is no way to ask for help.

later, fortunately, she was saved by Zhao Paner, but instead of learning a lesson, when she met Shen Ruzhuo, she once again regarded the other party as a lifesaver to get rid of her cheap nationality.

in the end, she was

Shen Ruzhuo makes use of.

Song Yinzhang repeatedly encountered a scumbag man and was deceived. In the final analysis, he could not see clearly that he had excellent piano skills, but gave his life to others.

the greatest folly of a man is that he only wants to borrow the hands of others to get rid of his own predicament.

in the sea of life, everyone yearns for trees to rely on, and some people are reliable.

however, countless realities tell us:

No matter how close your lover is, there will be a day of betrayal; no matter how strong a friend is, it is possible to break up; no matter how happy your life is, you can't beat sudden variables.

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playwright Brecht said:

"No matter what kind of stilts we step on, we can't do without our own feet."

there is no permanent backing, only reliable strength.

either when "stilts" falls down, he is black and blue and has nothing, or he can develop a stronger self and cross the ditch and ridge of life.

the favor, money and status given by others may protect you for a while, but not for your whole life.

A trip to the world can temporarily borrow other people's eaves, but don't lose a place, otherwise you will only get farther and farther away from the life you want.

if you have an umbrella, you won't worry about rain or sunshine

there is a saying:

"it takes thousands of efforts to go from 'looking good' to 'really good'."

the most difficult and important thing in a person's life is to make himself a strong backing.

when a person can settle down and empower himself, he can win wherever he goes.

"Queen of vaulting Horse" Sang Lan, who originally had a bright future, fell head first on the mat during a practice match, resulting in high paraplegia.

Walking has become her most extravagant wish, not to mention doing all kinds of difficult gymnastics on the stage.

in the face of the injustice of fate and the tribulations of life, she chose to meet the difficulties.

in order not to let the body atrophy, Sang Lan has been enduring the pain of rehabilitation training, taking a lot of medicine every day, cooperating with the doctor to do massage.

even though she was trembling with pain, she clenched her teeth and never thought of giving up.

after more than 10 months of training, the upper body has been able to complete some simple movements.

later, when she could only sit in a wheelchair every day, she realized that she could no longer stand up, decisively gave up her dream as a gymnast, and then looked for new development opportunities.

so she joined the art troupe, got the chance to host sports programs, and was admitted by the journalism department of Peking University as an exception.

at that time, coinciding with the Beijing Olympic Games, Sang Lan became the ambassador of Beijing's Olympic bid.

Sang Lan started a new life with her tenacious character and determination not to give up easily.

people who are really good may not have the luck of special talent, but they must have the hard work, diligence and hard work behind them in order to be favored by opportunities at critical moments.

Dumas Jr. did not rely on his father's reputation, but became a famous writer through his own persistent writing.

Liao Zhi, a dancer who lost both legs, overcame the limit of knee pain, practiced kneeling, starred in "inspiration", and "stood up" again.

Star second-generation actor Yang Kui, who decisively "gave up" the patron of his father, went from "running errands" in the theater to playing a leading role in the play, and became a real performer by his own efforts.

instead of accepting fate, it is better to work hard; the strength of the heart is the real strength.

constantly ploughing one's own potential ability without taking shortcuts is the best way to success.

as Hugo said:

"I would rather open my future on my own than seek the favor of the powerful."

when people live all their lives, they should do their best, do their best, and live without the strong.

in the final analysis, a good life depends on your own hard work, and only when you run forward with all your strength can you receive the reward from life.

find your own umbrella for the rest of your life

writer Samuel said:

"the greatest poverty of mankind is that everything goes well and there is no need to work hard, which eventually leads to the destruction of hope and the absence of the will to struggle."

living comfortably will erode people's passion and struggle for life. Instead of indulging in the current comfortable environment, it is better to take action and make changes.

taking the first step will be painful for a while, but if you don't change it, it will only waste your whole life.

Ding Lei, founder of NetEase Company, after graduating from university, was assigned to work in the Telecommunications Bureau, a "drought and waterlogging guarantee" unit, an iron rice bowl that how many people envy.

however, this kind of work is not what Ding Lei wants, and he does not want to exhaust his talent and enthusiasm in this way.

two years later, he plucked up the courage to submit his resignation letter to the senior management of the Telecommunications Bureau, determined to go outside and make his own day.

it was this decision that Ding Lei's life was rewritten.

with the only money he has, Ding Lei founded an Internet company, which is now NetEase.

after 22 years of ups and downs, NetEase has grown from the size of more than a dozen employees to more than 20, 000 employees today, and has become a famous Internet technology company listed in the United States.

Ding Lei, who is now a great success, was just an ordinary college student at that time, but he dared to refuse comfort and comfort and forged ahead in the face of unknown challenges.

people often say, "the poor are comfortable, but the rich wolf nature is easy to challenge."

some people, satisfied with the life in front of them, envy the success of others while having a pipe dream.

some people, unwilling to live a stable life, constantly push themselves to make progress and create more self-worth.

it is difficult to live a glorious life in an easy life. Only by recognizing the goal of hard work, not being afraid of difficulties and challenges, can we stimulate amazing potential.

growth begins with self-awareness, and progress comes from self-transformation.

refuse to be comfortable and find your own umbrella, so that you won't be helpless in a rapidly changing world.

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No matter what predicament you are in, the root cause depends on the decisions you made in the past.

if you rely on others, you will only follow others in the end; if you know safety and forget danger, it is easy to lag behind others.

only by moving forward courageously and going all out, will you be full of a good life.

as Mr. Yang Jiang said:

"although people are small, life is short, but people can learn, people can cultivate themselves, people can improve themselves, and the value of people lies in themselves."

the true meaning of life lies not in obvious success, but in self-created value.

he who strives to earn a corner for himself will eventually win in the end.

there is no trouble when you are prepared, and you can advance and retreat freely.

May you know how to plan ahead in your future life, so that you don't have to experience the cold taste of the world.

seize the opportunity to strive for your own umbrella and open up a brilliant sky.

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