have you ever had this phenomenon around you:

two people join a company at the same time, and one is promoted quickly after a year, while the other stands still.

two restaurants opened in one place. A year later, one business was booming, while the other was on the verge of bankruptcy.

the environment is the same and the starting point is the same. Why is there such a big gap?

Carol Dwick said in "lifelong growth"

"it is not talent, but mode of thinking that determines the difference between people."

she classifies people's mode of thinking into two types: fixed and growing.

here are the different reactions of two modes of thinking to things:

thinking determines behavior, and behavior determines fate.

your thinking determines the height of your life.

"fixed thinking" is trapping you

read a story.

"Dad, why is there only a thin chain attached to the elephant's foot? Aren't you afraid that they will break the chains and run away? "

Dad said:

"because the elephant thinks he can't earn that thin chain."

the boy looked confused, and his father continued:

"when the elephant was young, the trainer locked it with this thin chain.

at that time, the elephant was still very small and did not have enough strength. After trying to break free, it gave up the idea of breaking free.

slowly, the baby elephant got used to the shackles of thin chains and thought he would never break free.

even if he grows into an elephant, he will be willing to be limited by that thin chain. "

this is true for elephants, and so is for people.

Last month, when my family got together, my cousin complained to me with red eyes:

"the boss is too demanding, it is difficult for customers to communicate, and no one teaches me. I want to change jobs."

I asked her if she had studied on her own.

she curled her lips and said, "I'm too stupid to learn."

there is a sentence in "Black Swan": "you are the only one standing in front of you."

indeed, no one can limit you unless you want to.

most of the time, what we encounter seems to be a difficulty, but in fact we are trapped in a cage of thinking.

if a person is chained by the "chain" of fixed thinking, over time, he will become an elephant tamed by life.

so don't let your fixed thinking get stuck in your life.

"growth thinking" slowly makes you

how far a person can go and how high he can climb depends on whether he can constantly break the wall of "fixed thinking".

as the saying goes, if you tear down a wall, you will have one more way in life.

in 2000, Tong Wenhong's child was only 1 year old. She entered the group after two interviews and became the receptionist of the company.

with a salary of 500 yuan a month, she has to work as a receptionist and an administrative assistant.

although there is a big gap between pay and return, she never complains and does both jobs to the extreme.

when a client calls to inquire about business, she learns from scratch until she is proficient in dealing with problems for the client.

when a colleague is going on a business trip, she takes the initiative to check the number and time of the train for her colleague.

three years later, Tong Wenhong was promoted to executive director.

later, when the company wanted to do logistics business, she was sent to recruit talents all over the world and single-handedly set up the world's first warehousing and logistics network.

also managed to promote big data's operation model and constantly improve the efficiency of express delivery.

in this way, the platform she built was valued at more than 100 billion yuan less than three years ago.

people who are really wise know how to use growth thinking to deepen their business, do everything to the extreme, and reap higher returns.

only by breaking the mindset can life grow rapidly.

as stated in the book the Road to Wealth:

"people who work for themselves actually sell themselves twice at the same time, once to their boss in exchange for salary, and once to themselves, and gain growth."

when you jump out of fixed thinking and begin to motivate yourself with growing thinking.

you will find that although the environment remains the same, you have become a better person in your efforts to build bridges in the face of water.

how to get out of "fixed thinking"

through the ages, how many losers are trapped in fixed thinking, while all winners advance by leaps and bounds in growth thinking.

so, how to jump out of the fixed thinking and practice the growing thinking?

here are two suggestions to help you break the cage of your mind and live as you like.

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keep upgrading your thinking

writer Liu run said:

"mediocre people change results, good people change causes, and excellent people change their mode of thinking."

it is true that people have been paying for their mode of thinking all their lives.

if the mode of thinking is wrong, no matter how hard you work, it will be in vain; if the mode of thinking is right, life will naturally go smoothly.

as a sentence in the Godfather:

"people who see the essence in one second are destined to have a different fate from those who can't see the essence of a thing for half a lifetime."

people's thinking is also layered. If you encounter problems at work, please think with a higher dimension.

when a person's mind becomes lofty and open, his life will be as bright as a fish in water.

ability to evolve continuously

A person's value is always in direct proportion to his ability.

someone has done a "life experiment".

Xiao Li and Xiao Wang, who have the same educational background, joined a company at the same time.

after earning the first bucket of gold, the two men chose their own investment direction according to their wishes.

Xiao Li continues to work and no longer invests in his own growth;

Xiao Wang studies, participates in training, gets acquainted with people, and makes continuous progress.

10 years later, Xiao Li became a department manager with an annual salary of 200000 yuan.

Xiao Wang changed jobs and started his own business five years later, with an annual salary of nearly 700000 yuan and stock dividends.

if you don't improve your ability, you will depreciate sooner or later; continue to expand your ability boundaries, and you will become more and more valuable.

as one entrepreneur said:

"when you get into the business, don't worry about making money, but make yourself valuable."

in the era of constant renewal, we will not be eliminated only if we settle down to improve our abilities and refine ourselves.

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Kazuo Inamori said in the way of thinking:

"people who live a happy life have a positive way of thinking.

even if others seem to be in a disastrous situation, they are still optimistic and cheerful and face it positively.

even sees it as an opportunity to grow up, so he is grateful.

with this state of mind, life will be Shi Lai Yun Zhun (Lucky Dumplings). "

indeed, if you think right, life will go smoothly.

when we escape the cage of thinking and have growth thinking, we will find that:

in the workplace, it can make you make rapid progress and continue to appreciate;

in marriage, it can help you resolve emotional conflicts.

May you grow every day and surpass the past year after year for the rest of your life.

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