British writer Dickens said:

"A sound mind is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom.

what kind of state of mind you have, what kind of life you have. "

whether a person is happy or not depends mainly on his state of mind.

A good state of mind makes people full of sunshine and self-confidence and happiness everywhere.

A bad state of mind hinders people everywhere, everything goes wrong, and everything is full of gloom and gloom

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what people have in this life, it is better to have a good state of mind.

if you are young in mind, you will have vitality in life

there is a saying: "some people grow old when they are 20, while others are still alive when they are 80."

this is the gap brought about by the state of mind.

if you are young in mind, you are young.

National grandmother Wu Yanshu, 84, is still as vibrant as a young man.

on her face, you can see wrinkles, but not aging.

because she makes people feel young and energetic.

in an era when many people wanted to lie flat, Grandma Wu Yanshu kept exercising every day.

one minute of flat support, one minute of swallows flying, and 6000 steps of walking every day.

she jumps from room to room in her own house.

she never cares about her age, not even her birthday, and age never bothers her.

what young people know, she is learning hard and always has a curiosity and enthusiasm for the world.

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she says she is 84 years old, but she still has a dream to realize.

because of her young mentality, she looks charming and charming, and she has a lot of fans at a time.

writer Emerson said:

"We will not calculate a person's age unless he has nothing worthy of our attention."

years don't make us old. It's our way of life and mentality that makes us old. "

No one can keep his youth, but some people can keep his youth.

I often hear people in their 40s around them sigh and say, "people who are half of their body are almost buried, what do you expect?"

there are even young people in their early 20s who say as soon as they have a baby, "I will live for him for the rest of my life."

say it as if your youth is over, this is the end of your life.

without a young mentality, it is a pity that many people give up themselves prematurely and let them feel like a backwater for the rest of their lives.

Chen Chun, an old man with a long life, once said:

"most of the time, it's not that you are really old, but that you feel old.

if you think you are young, you will not be old, and others will not think you are old. "

therefore, no matter what age you reach, your state of mind is very important.

when you are young, you will be young, and your life will be full of vigor and vitality.

only when you are optimistic can you have hope for life

Carnegie said: "the wealth in the world is not only money, but also optimism."

if money is tangible wealth, optimism is invisible and priceless wealth.

if you have an optimistic attitude, you will have the source of happiness.

the famous orator Robert, on his 70th birthday, many friends came to see him to celebrate his birthday.

when one of his friends saw that his head was bald and ugly, he advised him to put on a hat.

Robert smiled and said, "you don't know how good it is to be bald. I'm the first one to know it's raining."

everyone present was amused with laughter by him.

I have seen a video.

there is a girl in Jiangxi. After a year of marriage, her husband suddenly died in a car accident.

before she could get out of her grief, her mother-in-law, who preferred sons over daughters, kicked her and her daughter out after she got the compensation.

the parents of my mother's family did not agree with her to take her children home, saying that it was not good to marry again.

this series of frustrations and blows, put on anyone, may be out of breath for a long time.

but the girl didn't give up.

she took her infant child far away from home, riding an electric bike to deliver takeout in Anqing, Anhui province.

when she comes across a community without an elevator, she climbs floor by floor with her child on her back and takeout.

the person who interviewed her said, "it's not easy for you to work so hard!"

the girl smiled and said:

"what's wrong with this? if you don't bear hardships now, when will you bear hardships?

is only 21 years old, and it is time to bear hardships. "

before leaving, the interviewer wanted to give the child a red envelope, but she refused with a smile.

she said, "I can do it myself. I don't need help."

the girl said that she had to rely on her own efforts to buy a house and a car for her children and a warm home in the city.

TagoreThere is a poem: "things in the world, it is best to laugh away, do not need to be washed with tears."

in the face of suffering, optimism is always a sharp sword to dispel the haze.

We are busy living in this world, and there are many troubles and pressures every day.

to deal with the burden of work and complicated interpersonal relationships, to maintain a stable life for themselves and their families, to guard against sudden natural and man-made disasters, and to face unpredictable birth, old age, sickness and death.

what can we do if we are not optimistic?

if life is destined to bear hardships, optimism is our best medicine.

only people with an optimistic attitude can see hope and lead themselves and their lives to blooming flowers and sunny days.

you can be happy only if you have a good mind.

as the saying goes, "it is good to be lenient to others and blessed to be lenient to yourself."

only when you have a gentle state of mind can you meet happiness.

read a story.

once, Roosevelt's house was stolen and many valuables were lost.

his friends came to comfort him and advised him not to be too sad.

far from being sad, Roosevelt comforted his friends by saying:

"it's all right, don't worry. Although my things were lost, my life was not hurt in any way.

what the thief stole was only part of my stuff, and most of it was still there.

the most gratifying thing is that thieves defile their own moral character by stealing things, while my soul is still holy. "

A person with a broad mind has a broad mind, measures big, and sees things far away.

they will not only focus on the bad side of things in front of them, but can always find the good parts of things, comfort themselves and encourage others.

therefore, they can often quickly calm down and stay happy.

but in life, we often see some people, it is difficult to be happy.

you accidentally said a wrong sentence, although you have apologized, he can be loyal

being pregnant for a week is neither hot nor cold for you.

he asks you for help, but if you don't help, he taunts you in all sorts of ways.

when someone cuts into the queue when shopping, she can scold each other for more than ten minutes.

if he doesn't get a bonus at the end of the month, he will make a fuss in the leadership office and have to ask for an explanation.

when he has conflicts with his family, he will never compromise first until the other party bows his head.

this is all a sign of lack of leniency.

philosopher Seneca said: "if you always feel unlucky, dissatisfied with reality, and think that everyone owes you, then even if you have the whole world, you will not be happy."

A narrow mind cannot contain a grain of sand in a bowl or a thorn in his heart.

people with a broad mind, thousands of mountains and rivers, but an inch, through the ages, but in an instant.

they can tolerate the shortcomings of others and the shortcomings of the world, and can calmly face success or failure, honor or disgrace, gains and losses, and interests, so they always live in peace and health.

leniency, which seems to be considerate of others, is actually loving oneself.

Kazuo Inamori said in his book the dry method: "the road of life is described by the heart."

if you have a gentle state of mind, the road will be unimpeded.

relax your heart and reconcile your breath, and your life will be flat and your mood will be broad.

psychologist Maslow has a famous saying:

"when the state of mind changes, the attitude changes; when the attitude changes, the habit changes;

when habits change, character changes; character changes, life changes. "

mindset is the beginning of everything, and will eventually determine the end of everything.

also at sunset, Li Shangyin sighed in a low voice: "the sunset is brilliant and beautiful, but it is a pity that it is close to dusk."

Zhu Ziqing was impassioned: "but the sunset is infinitely beautiful, so why be melancholy near dusk?"

Ye Jianying sang: "the old man likes to sing at dusk, and his eyes are full of green hills."

people with different mindsets are destined to see different scenery.

so, anyway, slowly practice your good mindset.

if you have a good mindset, everything will get better with it.

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