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25, which is supposed to be the best age for women.

there is plenty of time to experience the endless possibilities of life, to feel a sweet love, and to build a positive intimate relationship.

however, the 25-year-old self-imprisoned Ms. Hu, who works in Zhejiang, is surprising.

here's the thing.

in 1997, she married at 15 and had children at 17.

now she has four daughters with her husband and five are pregnant.

to sum up, since she had a family, she has been in the cycle of birth and rearing for many years.

even netizens can't help denouncing her as a "fertility machine".

Why do you have so many?

unexpectedly pregnant, reluctant to fight.

as to whether it can give children a good growth and learning environment, it is also said separately.

Ms. Hu works in a lens factory with a messy environment and noisy noise.

in such a workshop environment, it is normal for her to drag four children.

when the child is sleepy, he sleeps on a cardboard box, or spreads an agricultural urea bag at will and sleeps on the ground.

worried about the child running around, he put her under the bench and let the child play with garbage and pull the wires.

A large family all count on Ms. Hu's salary ranging from 2000 to 5000 to make ends meet.

she had to push herself into a top and work overtime every night, so that she could sleep three or five hours a day.

in order to save some money, her daughter took a 1.5 yuan popsicle in the summer, and she would force her daughter to change it into 1 yuan.

her daughter was unwilling to live or die, so angry that she slapped her in the face.

Ms. Hu did everything herself for her family and lived in a panic and grievance, but what was she waiting for?

is a notice that the husband suspects that the child is another daughter and wants a divorce as soon as possible.

really answer that sentence: there is nothing new in the sun.

the husband ignored his wife's physical condition and made her get pregnant and give birth to a child again and again. Ms. Hu promised.

the husband decided to divorce because his wife did not have a son, and Ms. Hu agreed.

the husband successfully became invisible in family responsibilities during his marriage, and wanted to get rid of his children after divorce, paying only 1000 yuan a month in child support.

even Ms. Hu agreed to such a condition.

before you leave, you start thinking about your future wife?!

she doesn't resist anything, nor does she fight for anything.

caused everyone to mourn his misfortune and anger him.

even thinks that everything that happens is his own responsibility.

is simply a thorough brainwashing.

although reproductive freedom is now advocated, no matter what kind of freedom it is, it has never been forced to choose under the artificial pressure of the environment.

I don't say so much to criticize the young mother.

after all, she has made all her efforts to raise her children.

however, from her, I deeply feel that many women have no choice but to be brainwashed by the spirit and leave the freedom of life choice to the lamentation of others.

"be the master of your own destiny" seems to be a standard that everyone can follow and adhere to.

but this is not the case.

in reality, there are so many people who are deprived of their voice in life.

some people are shackled by fate even as soon as they are born.

this invisible shackle is the lingering source of inferiority in the name that clings to their identity.

"recruit younger brother", "look forward to younger brother", "welcome younger brother".... Such names are common.

the moral of such a name is selfish and naked, simply looking forward to having a son.

if parents think the intention is too explicit, they will add a female character to the word "younger brother".

according to official renaming data, there are at least 11104 women in a province called "Zhaodi" and "Zhaodi".

these are not cold numbers, but tens of thousands of lives that have been hurt without being seen.

it reminds itself from time to time that it is not expected.

may even lose a job because of such a name.

the name that should have been expected and blessed has become a wish sign that parents have nothing to do with them, and a curse that they cannot move towards happiness.

even if they avoid being discriminated against by the meaning of their names, it is a pity that some people turn their feet and step into the abyss of marriage.

Last year, a 14-year-old girl in Ningxia was forced to marry a stranger by her family.

the girl doesn't know what the other person looks like and what his character is.

all I know is that my parents accepted 250000 betrothal gifts and hastily set the date.

this kind of experience of being hastily arranged for your life without knowing the world can be found everywhere.

from birth to marriage, they stumbled step by step and fell thorns everywhere.

they always succumb their feelings and thoughts to the expectations of others and become another person's vassal machine.

they are all forced, imprisoned and abandoned.

however, we should understand that, even so, in addition to patienceWell, there's another way to go.

and this road needs to be decided by yourself.

when you think about it, Ms. Hu, who is pregnant for five years, should have known the virtues of the person she married.

if one's own child is indifferent, how can the other party be held responsible?

if his wife doesn't love or protect him, how can he be affectionate?

Ms. Hu actually has many turning points and can choose to save herself from this broken marriage.

but she didn't.

otherwise, the husband would not have filed for divorce when she was pregnant with her fifth child.

what's more, they will not just choose to accept alimony when their husband refuses to provide alimony.

in the videos released by Ms. Hu in the past, we can frequently see the arguments of "it's all fate", "what can we do" and "accept reality".

and the good fate of others is the result that they dare to challenge their fate and break through the reality.

A girl who used to be called "Zhao Di" in Henan Province felt like a shadow of inferiority when she learned that her name meant "I want her to recruit a younger brother."

Last year, the 20-year-old "Zhaodi" decided to change his name to "Zhaodi".

I am good at its wildness, and I am willing to buy its wheat.

from then on, she was finally able to write everything about herself in this field of life.

this is not only a new starting point for them, but also a declaration for them to move towards a new life.

even if they had a hand in their own life, they relied on their own ability and courage to regain the decision-making power of life.

two days ago, a 25-year-old woman in Liaocheng was introduced to a blind date.

it was only when we met that they knew that they had a 6-year-old daughter.

in the course of chatting, although the woman thinks the other person is good, the child is also clever and sensible.

but considering that she is a single young girl and the other is a divorced man with a child, she must be treated with caution.

so I posted my experience on the Internet, hoping that netizens would give me some advice.

as a result, everyone commented: run!

the reason is very simple. After seeing this video, the man's ex-wife explained the reason for her divorce from her partner.

the couple have two daughters, and because the ex-husband's family is preoccupied with having a son, they do not want to become a machine for them to beg for children, so they choose to divorce.

unexpectedly, only a week after the divorce, the ex-husband began to think about seamlessly connecting with the next relationship.

seeing this news, many people are applauding the choice of ex-wife.

it's hard to imagine how difficult the rest of life will be if you just compromise and be patient.

I hope that every woman can recognize the fact that you have the final say in your life.

everyone's life only belongs to himself, and we should not pay for the wishes and thoughts of others at the expense of our own body, or even the happiness of the rest of our lives.

maybe, at some point, we will be forced to go to the wilderness.

but believe that it is not hopeless and irreversible.

as long as we take the initiative, have the courage to refuse all unwilling, and the courage to cut off all unhappiness, the wilderness will blossom and become a wilderness full of hope.

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