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there is a saying in the Book of changes: "the family is right and the world is determined."

only when the family is right can the world be stable.

Family style not only determines the fate of a person, but also affects the prosperity of the whole family.

the pattern of the father and the mood of the mother determine the future of the children and the prosperity of the family.

the two complement each other in order to create the best family style.

Father's pattern

the height that determines the future of children

"touching the Dragon says Empress Dowager Zhao" says: "parents' love for their children is far-reaching."

A father who knows how to plan for his children is bound to have a large pattern, and the family will naturally prosper.

because a person with a large pattern is bound to be his person and his family.

in history, there were eight people in the eight families of the Tang and Song dynasties, of which the Su family accounted for three, including Su Shi, Su Zhe and Su Fu.

the success of Su Shi and Su Zhe is inseparable from their great father Su Xun.

when Su Shi was born, Su realized his responsibility, so he studied hard and studied hard in order to teach his children.

not only let children learn Confucian classics, but also send Su Shi to Taoist temples to study Taoist classics in order to develop in an all-round way.

the purpose of naming Su Shi "Shi" is to tell him to know how to hide clumsy, and to name Su Zhe "Zhe", in order to tell him not to be sharp and to follow his brother honestly.

the father of Fang Zhongyong, a young genius, was short-sighted, did not want to make progress, and only coveted the small profits in front of him, which eventually reduced a generation of prodigies to ordinary people.

Sima Guang once said, "the father loves his son and teaches righteousness."

the deepest love a father gives to his child is to tell him what is the right way.

as a father, you can have no wealth, but you can't stifle the small seeds in the cradle because of your own short-sightedness.

as the saying goes, "for those who seek great things, the first priority is the pattern."

the father's pattern is the family's largest real estate, the nourishment for his children, and their sail to the stars and sea.

Mother's mood

determines the inner temperature of children

mothers' emotions not only affect the atmosphere of the whole family, but also determine the inner warmth of their children and the formation of their character.

Mo Yan, the winner of the Nobel Prize for Literature, wrote in "Mother" that his mother can face up to whatever difficulties she faces.

whether you work hard in the fields or take care of your family, you can ease your mood by humming songs.

my mother's strong optimism had a great impact on Mo Yan.

so when he encounters any setback, he can be brave and confident.

A writer once said:

"mothers have a great influence on their children, especially their emotional influence, which will accompany them for a lifetime."

Zhang ailing, a famous writer, was deeply influenced by her mother. when she was young, she often heard her mother say that she was harmful if she was alive.

caused Zhang ailing to have a shadow in her heart and dared not have children all her life.

even the famous director Jiang Wen was often criticized by his mother when he was a child, so he always lacked self-confidence.

if the mother is grumpy, the child will be treading on thin ice, uneasy, fragile and timid.

if the mother is gentle, the child will be filled with sunshine and love, and will gradually become a person with temperature and strength.

as the saying goes, "look at a man and know his family, a mother and a son."

the temperament and temperament of children can be seen from the mother.

when a mother has a mild and stable mood, her children have firm strength and backing.

Mother's mood is the Poseidon needle at home, which determines the happiness and temperature of the family.

when a mother has a good temper, she has the most precious wealth in the world.

Family harmony

is the highest state of spiritual practice

it is said in the Book of changes that the father is the dry sky and the mother is the Kun earth. The harmony between the universe and the world is home and harmony.

Zeng Guofan attached great importance to family harmony and warned his children and grandchildren not to talk about interests, and not to "criticize their hearts" to elders, peers, or younger generations, so as not to bring harm to the family.

in the view of Zeng Guofan, only family harmony will not have worries, and only family and talents will be full of happiness.

it is precisely because of Zeng Guofan's principle of governing the family based on harmony that the Zeng family can continue to multiply and grow, and their children and grandchildren will be rich and prosperous.

A good family will not be estranged; a good family will not waste its time on conflicts and quarrels.

there is a saying in the Book of Rites: father and son Benedict, brothers in harmony, husband and wife, fat family.

the brothers in the family love each other, and the husband and wife have harmonious feelings and run together in the same direction, so the family will naturally prosper.

A family has the atmosphere of a family, but only by taking love as the center, giving and cherishing each other, can we get along harmoniously and beautifully.

Love is not an one-way line, but a circle. Only by knowing how to cherish and be grateful can we give back infinite beauty.

in a harmonious family atmosphere, fathers need to practice their own patterns, and mothers need to cultivate their own emotions, so that their children can win at the starting line.