it's interesting that the entertainment industry is starting to work again.

it is not Childe Wang who will tear up in the end, or a good man will have an affair in marriage, and there will be one wave of melons after another.

when I was heartbroken for the love of inner entertainment, Chen Qiaoen's beautiful and opposing love saved me.

recalling the first time we met, Allen "hurt people" without knowing it.

Chen Qiao-en replied angrily, "Women are born beautiful."

if she likes milk tea, Alan will make it for her himself. Her smug expression is so happy that she is so happy.

there is a sweet confession flowing in the fun and play. I am most lucky to meet you.

looking at these scenes, I can't help feeling:

"it is always said that there is no true love in the entertainment industry, but as long as you meet the right person, life is an idol drama."

but two people who look so happy have also had an unpleasant experience.

comes from the outside world, from gossip.

in March this year, Chen Qiaoen suddenly announced the wedding news on Weibo and posted a wedding ring photo.

posted: "it's simple and a lot, and it's good to have you around."

Chen Qiaoen met Allen in the variety show "Girls' Love".

at first, the 9-year-old gap between the two men made Chen Qiaoen unattracted to Allen.

but in getting along slowly, the two minds are close to each other.

Allen will remember Chen Qiaoen's preferences and bring her favorite sunflower to meet.

will create a surprise, specially arranged the water "painting heart" to show love.

I will remember that she likes autumn. After the date, I will draw an autumn picture for her when I get home.

Chen Qiaoen shed tears on the scene and promised without hesitation.

and she could not hide her smile and said firmly, "Love has not given up on me."

to get together, and the two sprinkle dog food from time to time.

they will go shopping together, eat hot pot and walk hand in hand.

two years of love, sending flowers and romantic cooking, so sweet.

then came the bad-mouthed and unoptimistic about the "good man", and they found out the black material about him one after another.

even if Chen Qiaoen chose to trust his boyfriend and helped explain it was a misunderstanding.

still, it didn't block the mouth of Youyou.

also caused fans to ridicule: "she is really brainless, she is still so in love when she is in her forties!"

but even so, Chen Qiaoen remained unmoved.

is she really carried away by love?

not really.

you know, she is the real "human sobriety".

when a mother crazily inculcates the concept of "raising children to guard against old age", she seems to be afraid that she will die alone.

Chen Qiaoen gave a confident answer:

"I will be a rich, lonely old man."

in the face of the reminders of the people around her, there was no pessimism about her 40 years old, nor did she make do with it.

Age is just a number, so what does it matter?

A light sentence: "Yes, I know."

if you are not married, then you are left over.

but the value of girls should never be like this.

"Don't get married for the sake of getting married unless you like this person enough."

Don't kidnap with moral standards. Happiness can be created by yourself before you meet love.

"Why do I want to be held in the palm of other people's hands? I have hands that can make me popular."

I think no one knows better than her that life is always in their own hands, not trapped by social shackles.

whether she gets married or not, it is not only her choice, but also her right and freedom.

No one has the right to interfere as long as it is out of his own will.

not because of age and identity, just because of you.

although not everyone can become Chen Qiaoen, she tells us with her actions:

there is no standard answer in life, and you don't have to live according to other people's expectations.

once heard such a saying: "that arsenic is my honey."

it is arsenic in your eyes, but honey in my eyes.

everyone's yearning for life is different, so the natural standard is also different.

but some netizens use self-righteous moral standards to measure other people's lives.

and such kidnapping is not uncommon.

Tang Yan, who got married and had children, almost went into semi-retirement.

acting is even less pitiful, the last film is still in the 2020 "Yan Yuntai".

there has been a lot of calls, and finally a work has come out, but it can be performed three times.

it is said that the deep responsibility of love, over time, fans will be more or less "hate iron into steel".

even passers-by couldn't help getting out and urged her to join the group.

some "career fans" even talk to each other maliciously.

once hoped that you would have a pair of people for the rest of your life, but now you are starting to have a double label.

criticize her life in the name of "for your own good".

(without a big 😵)

the point is, nowLife could not be better for Tang Yan.

Luo Jin gave her a consistent sense of security, and her sweet doting never faded with time.

the child is the soft place in her heart, and the mention of it is the appearance of happiness that cannot be concealed.

the urgency of career fans is understandable.

however, Tang Yan's treasure of the status quo is not without reason:

as Tang Yan said in the interview, she will return to fast-paced work one day, and the present is rare.

although Tang Yan seems to have lost the team in 85, she has never been lazy at her age.

when she was most popular, she already had masterpieces such as "Immortal Sword 3" and "three thousand Gold in the Xia Family".

"Why is my Sheng silent" is the white moonlight in the hearts of many people so far.

it would be too arbitrary to stamp her return to the family as "lovely wife" and "unworthy".

when pulling apart the star

halo

at that moment, they

is just an ordinary person.

also needs

career and family make choices,

pursue different goals, natural selection is different

.

more than once, Tang Yan imagined the expectation of the future and enjoyed the warmth of having a family.

No ambition, but it doesn't mean she doesn't have a dream. She wants more to do what she is doing right now.

so is it wrong for Tang Yan? No.

she just chose the path she wanted to go.

it's cool to fight for your career, but it's also cool to follow your heart and live the life you want.

there is no right or wrong in women's life, only whether they want to or not.

No one has the right to interfere as long as it is out of your own choice and will.

maybe, maybe the process is not that good.

it doesn't matter, because this is life.

in real life, you are the real heroine.

Life is not a TV series, you don't need to pay attention to the secular template.

whether you return to your family or stick to your career, your outcome should be decided by yourself.

do you remember Aunt Su Min, who decided to divorce not long ago?

two years after driving away, 58-year-old Su Min returned home for the first time.

however, as soon as her husband saw her, he began to be cynical:

"do you know to come back?"

"you can't get along anymore, can you?"

there is no care, no respect, but only ridicule, belittling and abuse.

it turns out that Su Min still fantasizes that the other party can change.

but the reality let her down again, and the marriage was still suffocating.

for Su Min, a self-driving trip is an escape and more like a kind of redemption.

in order to escape the shackles of her family when she was young, she married her husband, whom she had hardly seen each other.

thought that when he entered the marriage, he would meet happiness. Unexpectedly, he fell into another abyss.

"living with him is stressful and depressing."

she has to figure out every penny she spends at home. She can't remember clearly and can't avoid a reproach.

Su Min, who was born strong, decided to go out to work. As a machinist, she delivered milk and swept the streets.

it's hard, but at least you don't have to ask for money.

for the sake of her family and children, she lived carefully, but she was forced into depression.

until a quarrel, Mindy Su collapsed:

"at that time, I opened my eyes every day and wanted to die."

56, she couldn't make it any longer and was determined to be "selfish" and live for herself.

Su Min set out in a small car with her backpack on her back.

Xi'an, Shangri-La, Lijiang. During the journey, she felt more relaxed and free than ever before.

holding the steering wheel as if she could control her own fate.

once women wake up, life will be much freer.

some people search and finally find a soul mate in marriage;

and some people are trapped in the "cage" of marriage and finally decide to escape and live their lives.

but you will find that women who are enviable and enjoy freedom have one thing in common:

sober and independent, no matter how it changes, it will always be on the road to running.

follow your inner voice and bravely look for freedom, and it will be worth your life.

perhaps, this road may not have flowers all the way, but it is equally meaningful to walk through thorns.

May every brave woman live a free and easy life.

May every dreaming soul get a scalding echo.

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