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anger shows character

"if you don't know what you mean at ordinary times, you will peep at people with anger."

some people say that if you really want to see a person clearly, you must see when he is angry.

because the state of anger can best expose a person's nature, but also can best see a person's upbringing and character.

at that time, Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang were so busy creating that they found a nanny, Ah Ju, to share the housework.

but Ah Ju was clumsy, which not only failed to save trouble, but also made Yang Jiang angry.

once, when A Ju filled the oil stove with oil, she was lazy and did not insert the funnel, and the oil spill caused a fire.

the pillar of fire ignited, or Yang Jiang rushed to the kitchen to cover the source of fire, which did not cause a great disaster.

although Yang Jiang was very angry, she not only did not blame Ah Ju, but calmly told her to educate her.

A Ju also felt guilty, and since then she has been more attentive and careful in doing things, and has changed her careless habit.

the state of anger is the lowest point of character.

when people get along with others, there will inevitably be friction, but it is not the ability to get angry.

character is not a camouflage in calm times. A really good character can stand the test of anger.

powerful people have long learned not to be mood-oriented, but to be results-oriented.

they use reason to control emotions, change what can be changed, and be bullish on what cannot be changed.

and those that cannot be changed will become insignificant in the face of increasing experience year by year.

many people feel that they can't change their emotions and think they are such a person.

but in fact, controlling your emotions is the most autonomous thing, because it's entirely your own decision.

"angry" is actually a choice.

is that you choose not to let the environment of the moment affect your life in the future, and you don't have to torture your own feelings with the actions of others.

the more rational and reliable people are, the more calm they are in the face of problems and are not swayed by emotions.

be a calm man, do things rationally, and control your emotions in order to keep your life.

see trough pattern

there is a saying in the Book of changes: "No bandit, it is not good for the gentleman to be true, big to small."

the circumstances of life are uncertain, whether you can come to Tai Tai or not.

the upwind overturn at the trough is the best proof of a person's ability and pattern.

people with small patterns are depressed, decadent and depressed in difficulties until they hit rock bottom.

people with a large pattern, walking alone, all the way through difficulties and obstacles, will eventually usher in the light.

Zeng Guofan, a famous minister in the late Qing Dynasty, also experienced numerous troughs and failures in his life.

at that time, he was full of confidence, but he was ambushed and his men fled one after another.

with shame and indignation, Zeng Guofan jumped into the Xiangjiang River and was lucky to be rescued by his aide Zhang Shoulin.

although Zeng Guofan learned his lessons and summed up his experience, he was hit hard at the mouth of the lake and nearly died in the fire himself.

later, Qimen, he even wrote a will, but as a result, he won all the way.

as Zeng Guofan said, "I have made progress in my life, all at the time of humiliation."

the trough can be a heavy burden to break a person, or an opportunity to achieve a person.

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people with a large pattern understand that the current trough is just a journey in life.

they face up to difficulties, strengthen their hearts, improve their abilities, hold umbrellas for themselves, and be their own dignitaries.

get advice and education

as the saying goes, "when you are down, you will know people; when you are happy, people will know you."

when people are complacent, they are the most relaxed, the most complacent, and the most likely to get carried away.

once read a story about the dramatist Bernard Shaw.

George Bernard Shaw went out for a walk and met an intelligent little girl. The two hit it off very much, talking and laughing in the street.

at dusk, Bernard Shaw said to the little girl:

"go back and tell your mother that the writer Mr. Bernard Shaw has been playing with you all afternoon."

the little girl looked up at him and said in George Bernard Shaw's tone:

"go back and tell your mother that Mary has been playing with you all afternoon."

George Bernard Shaw was speechless for a moment and realized that he was a little carried away and was immediately ashamed.

later, George Bernard Shaw told the story many times on formal occasions and said with emotion:

"people, don't take yourself too seriously. No matter how much you have achieved and how proud you are, you should treat others equally and maintain modesty. "

the more proud most people are, the more difficult it is for them to reflect on themselves and remain humble.

sometimes, people can catch things from high places, not because they are tall, but because they are already standing high.

when you feel full of glory, connections and resources, sometimes it's just an illusion.

, only by recognizing yourself clearly and putting yourself in the right position can you make greater achievements.

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