Feng Tang once talked about the gap between people in an article.

"We all start from the same starting point. After ten, fifteen or twenty years, the so-called fame, wealth and power gradually opened up, and the gap appeared."

he also found that the better they get along, the fewer old friends they have.

most of the time, it is not that they deliberately alienate their friends, but that their friends will slowly disappear from each other's lives because their values, circles and pursuits are no longer the same.

the relationship between old friends is out of date, which seems to be a cold and cold relationship, but in fact it is inevitable in life.

blogger Su Xin has a friend S, who was promoted to vice president of the company two years ago, with double income and much better welfare.

years of fighting will eventually pay off. He is so happy that he naturally wants to have a drink with his friends.

he made a long list and sent messages one by one.

unexpectedly, only half of the 30 messages sent responded. Everyone else has their own reasons why they can't come.

on the day of the formal party, the number of people coming was halved again.

finally, S had to scrape together a table with a few people who came here.

although everyone is getting higher and higher step by step, S obviously feels that they are not really happy, and everyone is baffled by the meal.

S said that through this incident, he suddenly realized that the more familiar he is, the less he wants you to be better off than him.

they will resent "why not me" in their hearts, or secretly despise your achievements by blaming luck.

the more beautiful a person is, the more friends he will lose.

in the South Korean drama "Please answer 1988", when Jung-hwan's father was down, a good friend often gave his family a helping hand.

friends not only lend them things at home generously, but also give money to the Zhenghuan family to subsidize their families in the name of giving red envelopes to their children during the holidays.

later, the family is prosperous, and my friends are still in the clothing business of many years ago.

one day Jung-hwan's father came back wearing a new dress and said he bought it from a friend, but he only zipped it gently and the clothes were broken.

Jung-hwan's mother complained:

"what kind of friends are you making now? you are a liar." Or your friend when you were down, do you still remember the one who used to help us and give red envelopes to our children …... "

Zheng Huan's father was stunned for a long time before he silently said, "this friend is the friend before."

I'm sorry to think so.

Human nature is complex, people can appreciate the excellence of strangers, but can not tolerate the excellence of the people around them.

stand out from the crowd and attract not necessarily envy and admiration, but also criticism and jealousy.

so Feng Tang suggested that if you are the one who gets along well, you must know how to be humble and don't chirp in front of others.

some people say that a good friend begins with empathy, loses by distance, and destroys by disagreement.

when we inevitably become strangers, the end of the show is doomed.

A he, a writer, once wrote about his own past.

he has a small hair, and the two used to hang out together when he was a child.

go up the mountain to catch birds, go down to the river to fish, get tired of playing, and fall asleep in the field in the sun.

after graduating from junior high school, he went to work in the south and Ah he went north to study.

A he was admitted to a top university in Beijing after graduating from high school, specializing in scientific research. The price of an experimental material may be several months' salary.

A he seldom talked about his life later because he was afraid of stimulating him.

when I was young, I felt that Ah he had developed in Beijing and alienated his old friends.

gradually, drinking together no longer tastes good, and what they say together is no longer so considerate.

A he knows in his heart that this precious childhood friendship has come to an end.

the older you get, the more you will understand that parting is the norm in life.

people with different levels and circles are doomed to drift away in the end.

in the variety show Ace to Ace, the 2006 Super Girl Champion Shang Wenjie is expected to be invited as a guest.

program group specially invited several other members of that session to the scene.

unexpectedly, the nostalgic scene originally envisaged became a condemnation.

some people say that Shang Wenjie puts on airs and never attends old friends' parties. Some people even ask why Shang Wenjie doesn't reply to her private letters.

in this regard, Shang Wenjie only said meaningfully: "We are people who have moved towards the same goal, and we have been in love with each other."

there is a line in "the World": "people are easy to change, sometimes they do not change, friends change, the relationship changes."

in this world, no matter how good a relationship is, there is a shelf life.

if you can't recover your friendship, it's better to keep it from the bottom of your heart, say goodbye with dignity and bless with a smile.

Cai Kangyong once said: "there is an emotional account between people."

No matter whether the scenery is down or down, the deeper the friendship will be when you come and go and return the favor.

the relationship between staggered interests and constant overdraft is doomed not to come to the end.

there is a term in psychology, called sense of loss.

people always feel bitter about what they have lost, but there is nothing in the world.A feast that never ends.

those who interact with potential will be overwhelmed; those who interact with profit will disperse if they are poor.

when the friendship was unsustainable and the new distribution of interests was difficult to balance, it is normal to break up.

you should not be sad or worry about it.

gathering and dispersing with fate is not unkind, but a thorough and calm insight into the human feelings of the world.

I have read this passage:

"the real severing of diplomatic relations is not the deletion of the name from the communication record, but that I remember you clearly, but I don't think of you for the rest of my life."

people always change with the environment.

when we reach different heights, whether we are willing to admit it or not, that moment is the end of our friendship.

sometimes, there is no one left in the misty rain.

instead of asking and entangling, it is better to let go and let go.

, everyone drinks a glass of wine in front of them, and a sea behind them goes ashore alone.

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