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everyone is running for life when he is alive. If you want to survive, you have to deal with people.

there are many rules in interpersonal communication, which we must understand.

Zhuge Liang wrote in the master table: "the pro-virtuous minister is far from the villain, so the Han dynasty is prosperous; the pro-villain is the distant virtuous minister, and that is why the Han Dynasty has fallen since then."

We should also understand that there must be screening in interpersonal communication.

as the old saying goes, "if you know horsepower in the distance, you will see the heart in a long time."

the relationship between people can not only look at the appearance, only through the test of time and events, can we draw a relatively objective conclusion.

everyone is a born actor, and being good at camouflage is no longer a characteristic of one person. Therefore, it is really important to know how to observe and judge in detail.

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there is a saying in Zengguang Xianwen: "it is frightening to understand human feelings and to see through the heart of the world."

people's hearts are terrible things. Some people look compassionate on the surface, but they have terrible demons in their hearts.

since ancient times, the hearts of the people are unfathomable, so you must keep your eyes open when dealing with people. You can't give your heart easily, and you can't deliberately hide yourself.

making friends is always a matter related to the fate of life. if the other person's conduct is not good, it will only bring endless harm to you for the rest of your life.

therefore, we can't trust a person on appearances and words alone.

as the saying goes, a bright gun is easy to hide, but a hidden arrow is hard to defend. What is terrible in this world is not a real villain, but a hypocrite.

there is a kind of people who have no morality in their bones. They not only have no bottom line and principles, but also deliberately pretend to be morally noble in the crowd.

the following are four common characteristics of people who are kind-hearted and black-hearted. If you encounter them, stay away from them as soon as possible.

face to face, one thing behind one's back, one heart is different

everyone is multifaceted, but some people are very similar in all aspects, while others have diametrically opposite sides.

people who say things behind their backs in person tend to talk beautifully, but do things in a different way.

they will naturally show their good side in front of people and hide their evil side behind them in order to win the trust of others and facilitate their own plans.

people who go behind the scenes face to face always denigrate others for their own benefit.

such people may pretend to be well-behaved and considerate in front of you, and will betray you in the twinkling of an eye.

in the process of getting along with others, if you find that people around you have different feelings, you must keep your distance in time.

even if they don't deceive you for the time being, there is no guarantee that they will treat you the same way in the days to come.

stand high and blame others, moral kidnapping

it's always easy to judge others. It doesn't even require professional skills, let alone special skills.

so someone joked that people with unique skills were performing on the stage, and those without special skills were all judges off the stage.

of course, not all the judges are unqualified, but the world is so big that there are always a few unqualified people.

it's the same with us when we make friends. We all say that good advice goes against the ear, but that doesn't mean that all bad words are good advice.

those who always like to stand on the commanding heights of morality and criticize others are best at moral kidnapping.

to put it bluntly, it doesn't hurt to stand up and talk, and it doesn't happen to you, so it's so easy to comment.

in interpersonal communication, you must stay away from the person who lacks compassion.

he may be moral, but impersonal. Such a person should not make a deep acquaintance.

pretend to be rigorous and criticize achievements, and feel jealous

everyone wants to be able to embrace success. But not all people can have that honor.

there are two kinds of people who cannot be asked for in this world. One person accepts his fate, the other person denigrates it.

I believe everyone has heard the story that foxes can't eat grapes.

said that a fox came under the grape trellis. As soon as he looked up, he saw the glittering and translucent grapes on the grape trellis.

look at the grapes on the shelf,

the fox jumped several times, but never reached it.

so his mood changed from joy to anger.

after making sure that he could not eat the grapes, the fox left. No matter who he met on the way, he told others that there was something wrong with the vine and that its fruit was so sour that his teeth turned back.

there are also some people in life, like this fox who can't eat grapes, who pretend to be rigorous and criticize other people's achievements because of inner dissatisfaction and jealousy.

people who say sour grapes when they can't eat grapes must not be associated with each other.

calculating and mercenary, insidious and cunning

there are two things in this world that you can't look directly at, one is the sun, and the other is the human heart.

there are disputes of interest between people, and nothing exists for no reason. This is what others do to you, and so is what they do to you.

everyone has his own personality. We can not ask others to be completely consistent with our own values, but we can grasp our own life and not go astray.

in the face of those who do whatever it takes for profit, relatives and friends should stay away.

those who wear masks, whether they pretend to be stupid or pitiful or innocent,It's pretending to be something else. Nothing can be trusted.

if a person's heart has been driven by interests, distance is the best choice.