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two strokes of herringbone:

write about prosperity and adversity, and the connection between them is countless plain days.

the greatest ability to be a human being is to keep your mouth in prosperity, to keep your heart in adversity, and to keep your own rhythm in mediocrity.

in good times: keep your mouth shut

Laozi has a saying: "it is better to keep the middle than to speak too much and be poor."

although words are invisible, the pain is worse than being stabbed by a weapon.

Kou Chun in the Northern Song Dynasty, he had been an official to prime minister twice, but finally died in a foreign country.

after all, he was defeated by one mouth.

he will argue with the emperor without scruples because he is reasonable;

he will also quarrel fiercely with courtiers in the main hall because he has been wronged;

because of his importance and trust, he interfered in matters that should not be asked, and aggressively influenced the emperor's decision.

all these have planted the seeds of being framed and excluded.

once at a banquet, Kou Chun's long beard was stained with juice and didn't know it.

subordinate Ding said that he wanted to please, so he got up and gave Kou Zhong a wipe.

Kou Jun said sarcastically, "you are a subject, so you stroke your beard for your boss?"

everyone roared with laughter. Ding said he was so ashamed and resentful ever since.

later, Ding said that he had joined forces with other courtiers to make false accusations, so that Kou Jun was repeatedly dismissed for investigation and assigned to other places until his death.

Laozi said, "those who know do not speak, but those who speak do not know."

Wise people do not speak casually, while those who speak casually often find it difficult to have insights.

A truly wise man can keep his mouth shut.

when you are in the highlight moment, restrain the desire to "talk" and pious gratitude is more likely to gain support than your successful experience.

when you want to be in the limelight, controlling the cleverness of "sharing" is more recognized than your eloquent listening.

when you want to give advice, suppress the "goodwill" of "I'm good for him" and simple support is more appreciated than your outspoken support.

Blessing is where misfortune lies, misfortune is where good fortune depends.

being in a prosperous situation is a blessing, but it is also easy to float away, and it is easy to get carried away and ignore hidden dangers.

there are different people in the world.

even in the face of the people you despise most, there is no need to criticize other people's virtues, let alone "outspoken" evaluation of other people's behavior.

when you open a mouth in life, you must learn to accumulate morality.

in times of prosperity, leaving room for speech and giving people three points of speech is not only a part of self-cultivation, but also a part of kindness.

keep your heart in times of adversity

Zhuangzi said, "to be alone is to be unique. The unique person is said to be the most expensive. "

solitude is not only the solitude of the body, but also comes from the spiritual independence and noble character of the bustling world.

most of the time, it makes people outstanding rather than gregarious.

Xu Heng, a native of the Yuan Dynasty, has always been praised for his moral words and deeds and is known as "the first person of the Yuan Dynasty".

one year at the height of summer, he fled with a group of people. after a long journey, everyone was hungry and thirsty.

suddenly, someone found a fruitful pear tree by the side of the road, and everyone rushed to climb the tree to pick pears, but Heng Duan sat unmoved.

others asked him why he didn't pick pears to quench his thirst.

Xu Heng replied, "if you don't have your own pears, how can you pick them randomly?"

the person who asked smiled: "the owner of the pear tree is not here, why mind?"

Xu Heng Zhengshi said: "the pear tree does not have a master, does it not have my heart?"

Mencius said: "admiration is worthy of heaven, and does not bow to the earth."

raise your head to the sky, bow your head to others.

be open and aboveboard, and you can be open and aboveboard.

the most difficult thing in life is to be able to keep your heart when you are under temptation and pressure from the outside world.

maybe in a group, although it may be excluded, it still refuses to drift with the current;

maybe in a competition, although he may lose, he still refuses to be eager for quick success and quick profit.

perhaps in an agreement, although it may be in vain, it still refuses to go back on its promise.

all these things may be slower and bumpy, but you will eventually find out:

everything you lose will come back in another way.

in times of adversity, hold the bottom line, hold the principle, and keep your heart, so that the road in the future will be wider and wider, and your actions will be steady and far.

when it's plain: keep the rhythm

the Book of morality says: "when a hurricane passes through the post, ten thousand trees are dormant, indestructible and unbroken, and you can take a long time."

when a storm strikes, only the vegetation lying on the ground will not be destroyed and can wait for the future.

Life is long. Learn to wait and keep growing. One day you will stand on the stage and shine brilliantly.

Gong Sun Hong at the time of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty was a legend.

when he was young, his family was poor and he herded pigs by the sea.

the wind and the sun entered middle age and became a warder, but he was removed from office for making a mistake.

40, he was determined to read a book, a detailed biography of the Spring and Autumn Ram.After careful study, Gongsun Hong was achieved.

60, he was called into a doctor. Although he was ousted a year later, he stood out again at the age of 70.

his strategy theory, from the bottom to the top, was promoted to positive first by Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty. when he was summoned, Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty was shocked:

there is neither the trembling of the people at the bottom, nor the dishevelled appearance of the rare years, but what is recorded in the Historical Records: the appearance is very beautiful.

Gong Sun Hong, who is so talented and personable, thus stepped onto the historical stage, from official to prime minister, and sealed the Marquis of Pingjin, creating the history of the prime minister.

every bloom of life has its own flowering period.

there is a kind of safflower in Brazil, and only one can be planted in an acre.

it begins in spring and grows eight months later, but it is only the size of a thumb.

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but in autumn, it seems to be possessed, it can extend 3 meters a day, just a few days, the branches and leaves covered the whole mu of land, dazzling red.

just because, in the past eight months, its roots have been growing until it is as thick as a tree, and then bursts of energy in a few days to grow into the crown of flowers.

the flowers bloom sooner or later, and things are done in the first place.

some retire at 50, others enter at 70;

there are people who shine at 25 but stumble at 50.

some people don't find love until they are 40 years old, but they can start and finish well.

whether in life or career, there will always be people who run faster than you, and there will always be people who lag behind you.

people in this life, instead of blindly following in the footsteps of others, it is better to keep their own rhythm: growing, taking root, there must be a rich return of fate.

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there is a saying in Daojing: "the platform of the ninth floor begins with tiredness; a long journey begins with a small step."

Nine-story platform starts from every basket of dirt, and the long journey comes from every small step.

people, too, can keep every section of the journey before they can achieve a blockbuster.

if you can hold on to yourself, you can not only enjoy prosperity, but also overcome adversity, but also survive countless ordinary days and nights.

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