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some people say: 35 years old seems to be a watershed in life.

some people have a good job, a considerable income, and a petty bourgeoisie from time to time.

there are also people who run around all day, but are still overwhelmed by firewood, rice, oil and salt.

you may wonder: how did the gap open overnight?

but in fact, there has never been a sudden counterattack in this world.

the money one earns has long been hidden in past habits. Only by forming positive habits can we continue to advance on the road to wealth.

here are five tips for you who are eager to make progress:

stop resisting work

I have seen such a question on Zhihu: what are you most afraid of?

A highly praised answer: unemployment.

it is not difficult to find that most of the people who complain about work in the workplace are young people who have no pressure.

the more middle-aged they are, the more they love their work.

when people reach middle age, before wolves and tigers, the burden of life is getting heavier and heavier.

No matter whether it is children's education, parents' pension, or the cost of food and clothing at home, none of them can be separated from real money.

and if it is not a rich family, or a prodigy, salary income is the main source of support for all this.

so instead of messing around in the future, worry about money.

it is better to feel less lazy and devote yourself to your work with positive and full enthusiasm.

polish skills, improve ability, constantly improve themselves in the professional field, and complete the work perfectly.

all promotions and raises, in the final analysis, are paying for our efforts.

as economics says: value determines price, and price fluctuates around value.

A person who is perfunctory in everything, it is difficult to deliver good results, and naturally will not be favored by wealth.

only by attaching importance to work from the bottom of your heart, can you keep moving forward on your career road and reap more abundant returns.

block social waste

Cornell University once found that "people who are too easygoing earn 18% less than those with strong personalities."

rampant social interaction will not bring practical benefits, but will affect wealth creation.

in many cases, the more "friends" a person has, the greater the loss:

imagine such a scenario:

it is also off-duty time: you eat and drink with your fair-weather friends; others teach themselves silently and refine their professional knowledge.

is also at home on weekends: you and your teammates are typing hard; others are staring at the computer and reviewing and summing up carefully.

who will get higher income and better development? The answer is obvious.

try to make a break for life:

cut off unnecessary relationships, give up meaningless activities, and stay away from expensive things.

simplify the circle to: good partner + lonely self.

when you are with people, learn their habits of self-discipline, excellent abilities, and advanced cognition.

when you are quiet and alone, try to precipitate solid skills, a steady state of mind, and deep thinking.

networking is not exactly the same as money.

instead of trying to please others, it's better to put more effort into making yourself more valuable.

know how to control emotions

I very much agree with a view: "the heaviest hidden cost is actually emotional cost."

A bad state of mind will not only affect our present life, but also bring us a series of troubles.

only by maintaining emotional stability can we be clear-headed, mentally focused, and control the steering wheel of life in the waves of fate.

there is an international joint research group that has conducted such an experiment:

they asked 350 participants to complete the math test in 20 minutes and rewarded those who were correct.

the results showed that participants who were emotionally stable received higher rewards when their intelligence levels were similar.

compared with their income in real life, there are similar findings: people who are emotionally stable tend to make more money.

this kind of situation is not uncommon in daily life.

A boss who is happy and happy all day will certainly be more popular with customers and business will be more lively.

the smiling waiter in the restaurant is sure to get less deduction, more praise and faster promotion.

try to cultivate self-control: care less about emotions and pay more attention to things.

everyone has the opportunity to get close to wealth, but once they fall into the quagmire of emotion, they will snap forward and move further and further away from the goal.

only when we have a stable state of mind and less internal friction, can we get the maximum return for every effort.

persist in investing in yourself

the writer classical once mentioned a "life experiment" in his book:

alumni An and B work in an enterprise at the same time. After earning the first bucket of gold, the two will each distribute as they wish:

A chooses to continue to make money instead of focusing on its own growth, while B continues to learn, invests in itself, and its ability grows with each passing day.

10 years later, A was finally promoted to manager with an annual salary of 200000.

while B rises in five years.To the manager, and then job-hopping, start a business, with an annual salary of nearly 700000, but also got a stock dividend.

I quite agree with the saying: "if you want to make money, you must first make yourself valuable."

and if you want to be valuable forever, you must follow the development of society, keep pace with the times, and constantly carry out self-iteration.

now many people's lives are forced to press the pause button:

rotation rest, holiday, pay cut, dismissal …... Make less and less money, so depressed all day, confined to the same place.

but there are also a small number of people who, seeing the current crisis, take advantage of the opportunity to improve themselves and just pick out their own gold coins from the cracks.

keep self-investment consciousness: acquire knowledge, broaden your horizons, hone your skills, and iterate your cognition.

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when a person's ability is continuously strengthened, it is tantamount to holding a stable rice bowl.

No matter how many changes and crises are, they can rise against the trend and explore precious wealth from the reality of depression.

set up the thinking of the strong

have you found that at any time, some people are always positive and optimistic and take care of their lives smoothly and honorably?

in fact, they are not full of luck, but have established a solid "strong mind".

the so-called "strong thinking" means that no matter whether the situation is good or bad, we can maintain a positive state of mind and rely on our own efforts to find a breakthrough.

when a person has this mode of thinking, it is easy to stand out and give priority to wealth.

after graduating from university, Kazuo Inamori, recommended by his teacher, went to work in an electronics manufacturing factory.

only Kazuo Inamori, with the conviction and firm determination to win, plunged into the work.

in order to develop new materials, he moved pots and pans and other daily necessities into the laboratory and devoted himself to it.

most of the time, the plight of reality is not terrible, for fear of being blocked by thinking.

feel free to do it, do it boldly, and don't be afraid.

Wealth and the future always belong to the "strong".

whoever can keep faith and stay positive will have a blue sea.

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investor Charlie Munger said:

"if your lifestyle is correct, you will only be happier in your old age than when you were young."

make money, never by luck, but by increasing accumulation and down-to-earth efforts.

if you want to be rich in the future, start now and keep good habits.

Sun Gong has no end, and his contribution is endless. This is the only way for ordinary people to get close to wealth.

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